"Now a day it amazes me as to how fast people end up saying I love you without understanding the depth of it!" -Teneleven .How true! How bloody well true!
Okay let me start by saying all "I love u" means these days is you and me are hooked, we are gf and bf.Period. Nothing else.
We say we are in love. Right.!Let me ask us all few questions.And iam not going to  deep dive , iam gonna ask something  from everyday life.
Ever faced a sitution where your "love" is working day and night cause there is heck of work pressure, he/she is working day in and day out,, 16,, 18 hours a day, to save his/her job. They cant give time to you. What do we do,,"You dont have time for me",, 'You dont love me anymore".How many of us ever stood by our"love' and said,, "dont worry, iam here, when you are done iam still gonna be here, just concentrate on the job",,, How many of us?? That person is not your love,, he/she is just somebody you want to give you company. Love is not demanding ,, its giving. Love dsnt count the hours,, it dsnt stand in front of the calendar . And we say we are in LOVE???

Ever faced a sitution when you had a fight with somebody and come back and discuss with your "Love",,, and your "love"  says ,, that you were at fault and not the other person. What do we so,, oh hell break loose! You are my Bf/Gf and you are taking other person side.. "you dont understand me, you dont love me". He/she never said,, that they dont love you. You might be wrong but they still love you. All they are trying to do is give their perspective. You are not looking for love,, you are looking for "Yes Minister". The minute your Yes Minister turns into No Minister,,, boom "love" vanishes. "We are not compatible"!!! And we say we are in love???

Ever faced a sitution , when you enter a realtionship, knowing fully well that if your parents come to know about it ,you will end it. And the dreaded day comes when your parents find a match for you. What do you do,,, you give up without standing up for your "love". "They are my parents, they will take the decision for me,,, i cant go against their wishes, and i dont have guts to talk to them about you". Fair enough,, did you ask your parents before starting this realtionship. That person who gave all that love,, all that affection,, knowing fully well that one day he/she might loose it this way. But still that didnt stop him/her from loving you. Did you stand up for your love! Did you just tried talking to your parents. Iam not saying go against their wishes,,, just try talking to them,Did you?? Didnt that person deserve even this much.Just a try to make things work." Oh i told you before we started this is how this is gonna end. Sorry and thanks for everything!!!". And you lived happily ever after,,,,
That person was not your love he/she was your fill in the blanks. He/She filled in with your needs for . The moment next paragraph starts,, he/she is not required anymore. And you say you are in love???
Suddenly i dont feel like writing anymore,, need a smoke,,, maybe ill write after smoke,, maybe not,, lets see...

Blood of a gothic lover spilled down in ink,, one of my fav,, worth a read

My soul spills into bloody tears of joy,
just looking upon you,
your eyes so deep,
our love so true,

i wish i could hold your heart till the end of death and beyond,
in the dark eternity mist,
but forever is a long time,
even then my you shall have my will in your fist,

you say you will never leave,
yet i still worry,
that time will betray us,
and this love will turn to furry,

but i love every side of you,
even the madness,
so i will try to keep it away,
and drive away the sadness,

eternity is a long time away,
so i will hold you now,
and if forever comes,
you will be there to show me how,

we can overcome the "good"
together as one,
always apart of the wickedness,
until finality is done,

so as destiny unfurls,
and this passion burns,
you will be in me,
as the dimension turns,

it cannot be broken,
not even by the one(s) above,
it will never end,
our wicked burning love.