hi.....i still cannot stop giving a slight smile when i come across the so called stronger n superior sect saying...."oh gosh'phuleez come to the point ,u females r so confusing"......it makes my mind go back to the stage when the so called COOL DUDES represent their profiles saying ....WANT A DOWN TO EARTH SIMPLE LIVING FEMALE.......but  when the really down to earth females turn up u can almost hear a cry like...oops' .....umm  but the confusion does not stop here................finally these macho men do get the gals of their choice.....with the cosmopolitian look  modern confident  UMM SOME WHERE NEAR TO THE 36 24 36 FIGURE yet down to earth..........but poor dharlings  the journey of confusion  in them does not end here..........the first love duet song ,the first rains are not even over when they already   decide to clad the partners  of THEIR CHOICE completly covered from head to toe.................... away from the sight of any body or everybody.ok ok our very much in love women do adjust to this new law n transform themselves into the typical hindi serial characters like TULSI....    ah ha..... but hello yet another surprise awaits them....finally when  women think yes!!now this is it ......he is the man .......their eye brows automatically raise up when their so called  CONFIDENT men start  searching  n dreaming  about the neighbouring so called sex bomb of the building or while going through the idiot box#*~# filled with the oops ups oolala models........ AH BUT NO NO NO!!!!! our woman never give up,.finally deciding that maybe this is what her man wants her to be like.....the poor female takes all the trouble  of changing herself in a true filmi style  ......the character of tulsi steps back  to be replaced by the hot n happening RAKHEE SAWANT,.... the cotton night gowns r out the red silky  night gowns r in........romantic songs ,scented candles n what not ...but just as she opens the door for her man u can see a slight frown on his face which almost says     DARLING HAVE U GONE OUT OF YOUR SENSES......... HA HA HA    N THE CONFUSION CONTINUES AH !......i do pity her umm the devoted sincere indian female. WHO IS DEFINATELY MORE STABLE THAN HIM...............n laugh heartly at the typical indian male who think they r the most confident n the right men in the world........BUT ALLAS WHO CAN  MAKE HIM SEE SENSE.................oh my gosh am sorry but hey  is it not true????????????/////?///???///

when my friends heard that Radha a divorcee,a mother of two kids ,was seeing a man... WAS HAVING AN AFFAIR...THER WAS LOTOF GOSSIPING BEHIND HER BACK...she was a kind of  a negative woman in the eyes of the male n a curse in the eyes of the females.....friends began poking at her .....but radha kept quite....as she had found a man ......whom she could rely upon.....who was her best friend for life....THE TIME CAME WHEN HER PEOPLE CAME TO NO ABOUT THEM......she was confronted  by her old parents....they were shocked....it was a sin....Her children left her without a word....Raj, who had not even cared to c their own children all these years called up, just to give a list of abuses n advices of the CRIME committed....all had left her.....but she still was strong n hoped all would be alright.....her only hope was Amit,the man for whom she had stood for against the world....but one day....the time came when Amit too left her due to the pressure  from everyone.......THATS THE DAY RADHA BROKE DOWN COMPLETLY...........................................................today when i see her ,she is considered a woman  of no morals...with no fault of hers......but....is it a crime that she was about to get settled with a man for life time????or is life over for a woman once she is married then divorced n has kids?????does a woman have no feelings........would it have been the same  if it would have taken place with a man..............we consider our selves to be educated broad minded but where does  this broad mindedness go when we gossip about a certain radha in our neighbourhood...............would love to no ur view may bepositive or negative.............will be waiting.......my wishes with u dear friends