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Aug 15, '09



Jawaharlal Nehru, India's first and longest-running prime minister, proved to be a dynamic, gifted and extremely popular leader during his seventeen years of premiership. He built the foundations of a democratic, secular state, and guided the first stages of its agricultural and industrial development. Nehru's first task, however, was to consolidate the Union.
His able deputy prime minister, Sardar Vallabh bhai Patel, was made responsible for incorporating the 562 princely states within the federal Union. The nizam of Hyderabad, who resisted even though the majority of the state's population was Hindu, had to be persuaded by an invasion of Indian troops. The Hindu maharaja of Kashmir also prevaricated, as three quarters of his subjects were Muslims, and by October 1947 he had to appeal to India for help against a tribal invasion supported by Pakistan. Kashmir's accession to India resulted in the first outbreak of hostilities between the two countries; the United Nations intervened in 1949 to enforce a ceasefire line. The French enclaves at Pondicherry and Chandernagar were incorporated in the 1950s, but the Portuguese refused to accept the new situation and in 1961 Nehru had to annex Goa. The Naga people were brought within the federal Union as the Nagaland state in the same year.
The Constitution for India's "Sovereign Democratic Republic and Union of States" became law on January 26, 1950, the twentieth anniversary of "Independence Day". The franchise was made universal for all adults, and with 173 million eligible to vote in 1951 India became the world's largest democracy. Hindi was designated the "official language of the Union"; but South India, in particular, was adamant in its opposition to Hindi, and Nehru realigned the several state borders on linguistic principles. By 1961 the Union consisted of sixteen states and six centrally administered territories. The Punjabi-speaking Sikhs had to wait until 1966 for their state to be separated from Hindu-dominated Haryana.
Nehru sought to achieve the constitutional aims of justice, liberty, equality and fraternity with a vigorous programme of social and economic reforms. He redressed the iniquities of caste by abolishing "Untouchability" in 1955 and radically improved the status of women. National average literacy was increased to 23.7 per cent by 1961 and free elementary education became more readily available, although it still fell short of aspirations.
On the economic front, Nehru engineered the first three of India's Five-Year Plans to improve production capability and eradicate poverty. Population growth and the failures of the monsoon in 1952 and 1953 eroded the mainly agricultural aims of the first plan (1951-56), but food grain production increased from 52 million to over 65 million tons by 1956, and to 80 million tons by the end of the second plan (1956-61), which also injected capital into industry. Under the third plan (1961-66), a nuclear energy programme was inaugurated, and foreign aid and technical assistance secured to speed up industrialization.
Foreign policy was Nehru's biggest disappointment. He adopted a policy of nonaligned peaceful coexistence, but China threatened his aim of promoting Asian unity. He attempted to dispel the tensions created by the Chinese invasion of Tibet in 1950 by concluding a trade treaty with China in 1954, which included a declaration of mutual respect for each other's territories; but this did not deter the Chinese from building a road across a remote area of Ladakh in 1957, and India sustained losses during a confrontation in 1959. In 1962, sporadic conflicts in the Northeast Frontier Agency (Assam) escalated into a war; the Chinese army proved to be far superior and advanced unhindered over India's northeast frontier. Their unilateral decision to withdraw, on November 21, 1962, added humiliation to defeat and spelt the end of India's policy of nonalignment. Nehru immediately made a defence treaty with the US, and set about creating a new elite Border Security Force.








Aug 11, '09



Wise men say that one must never lose hope even in times of great crisis.

True, hope is a glorious emotion to feel. It can bring excitement and some form of marvel to life. Hope can be a tremendous motivator.

Often I am able to visualize hope. To me it appears as a beautiful young woman, full of a quiet allure and subtle charms. She has a presence that is calming, soothing and uplifting.

But she can be exceedingly elusive especially when we need her the most. The trick is to keep her humored. Keep her charged. Keep her in your good books always. She can be capricious, especially when she feels that one doesn’t believe in her. She loves those who show trust in her. She comes to their aide and lives inside their heart.

When dark clouds gather on the horizon of life, call her quietly. She will appear by your side while you are sitting near a pond watching the ripples on dark waters. She will come through the gentle night breeze and touch you softly. You will look up and see her standing there. An apparition in white. The moonlight shining on her face, as she will smile at you. Take her to your heart immediately.

Hope is one of the most central ingredients to emotional literacy because it shows us what we really want. It is a life enhancing energy that contains possibility, change, excitement and fulfillment. Sometimes it happens that hope changes into disappointment and despair. Either because what we hoped for did not materialize or did not fulfill us the way we expected it to. If the disappointments are repetitive, it leads to despair and eventually to the loss of hope.

However, to be able to hope again we do need these disappointments and phases of hopelessness. We have to truss our despair and live through these bleak periods of disenchantments in order to feel hope again.

There are times when we become fed up of the roller coaster of emotions, which accompany hope. The dashing hopes make it harder to carry on…

During such times it helps us to remember that ‘hoping against hope’ is not just a phrase; it is a precious life lesson that teaches us how to deal with the anxiety that we are feeling during the discouraging phases.

There is an Urdu phrase that says: “ Umeed par dunia quayam hai.” Meaning, “ This world is standing on the tripod of hope.”

Hope is so essential to life that it is almost impossible not to hope for something and let it carry us through our day to day living. When we plan a picnic or a barbecue we hope that the day remains sunny. We also hope for something to not happen. Such as when we are in love, we hope that our lover won’t leave us.

Why, even the person who is planning to commit suicide is hoping for something. They are hoping that death will be better than life.

Being hopeful is also being courageous. When we begin to hope for something to happen then we are opening ourselves to two difficult possibilities. The first possibility is that it may not happen and we will have to live with the painful consequences and the second possibility is that it may happen and we find that this is not what we really want!

G.F. Watts, a Victorian artist in the 1890s, painted a picture entitled ‘Hope’ that was for some years one of the most famous paintings in the world. It is said that the noted artist Picasso kept a reproduction of it in his studio.

This painting is in subtle shades of blue and mist grey and shows a young girl blindfolded and with her head bowed down. She is sitting on a half visible globe, which is used as a representation of earth. The earth is surrounded by clouds and a hint of the rising foam of sea. She has a lyre in her hand, which has only one unbroken string left on it. The general definition about the blindfold of the girl is that although her plight is hopeless, she refuses to see this and relies on her inner vision. When Watts was asked why he did not call the painting ‘Despair’ he explained: “Despair gives up but Hope, however great the odds against her, never gives up. She is trying to get all the music possible even with only one string left.”

This picture by Watts illustrates a state of affairs, which is apparently hopeless. Things look as difficult as they can be, the ways around the situation are shrouded in a mist and give the impression of being indiscernible and yet, even with slight resources, there is the courage to carry on.

I have visited few shrines here in India, where I have noticed that people tie threads and scraps of clothes on the filigreed walls surrounding the shrine, as they pray to the holy being that they believe in. These colorful pieces of ‘hopes and wishes’ flutter in the gentle breeze, making the wall look like a beautiful arabesque of art. This way the believers offer their hopes and wishes to the divinity and ask them to make it come true. It reminds me of how this world believes so much in- Hope.

For me, hope is the glass half full! It is also an emotion that shows me what I really want to feel. I have discovered that if I understand this and remember to think each time I hope what it is I want, I find some subtle but significant transformations happening in my life.

Hope also indicates to me that I cannot hurry my situation. I have to wait patiently while hoping for changes. I can’t make that door open at my will. But if I wait for it, I will not miss it. Let’s always hope. For the best.








Apr 14, '09



Falls on the first day of Malayalam month Medam (April), which is the astronomical New Year Day when the sun crosses the equator.
Through Vishu is identified with the Hindus religious beliefs, it is not in any way a religious festival. As per popular belief, the first thing people see on Vishu, the 'Vishukkani', is decisive to the year's prosperity.

Thus the 'Vishukkani' has over the years become a ritual arrangement of auspicious articles like raw rice, fresh linen, golden cucumber, betel leaves, arecanut, metal mirror, the yellow flowers 'konna' (cassia fistula), and a holy text and coins, in a bell metal vessel called 'uruli'. A lighted bell metal lamp called nilavilakku is also placed alongside.
As Vishu ushers in a New Year dawn, people wake up to behold the ritualistic arrangement. Giving off handsel (kaineettam) to the younger members of the family is part of the celebrations.



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Feb 24, '09



Hurray!!! Its celebration time for India. As our music mogul, the man of the moment, A R Rahman has done it. The maestro has become the first Indian music composer to win the coveted Oscar. And that too, 2 Oscars for a film (one for Best Original Score and another for Best Song 'Jai Ho'). This was for the first time that an Indian had won more than one nomination in the history of Oscars and bagged the prestigious award.

After having won various accolades including the Golden Globe & the BAFTA's, all hopes were pinned on Rahman's winning Oscars. Now that he has brought home the coveted trophy, it's a dream come true not only for the music maestro but also for billions of people back home, who've been waiting eagerly for Rahman to get the award.

Definitely we all are proud and happy of Rahman's success but one such company who is extremely elated and struggling hard to contain its excitement for Rahman is the music giant T-series who were also a part of the SLUMDOG team.

We know it's a big moment for T-series as the SLUMDOG music rights are owned by them. So we had a quick speak to the head honcho of T-series Mr. Bhushan Kumar. How confident was he and his team about the music, did he ever in his wildest of dreams, thought of it becoming such a rage across the world sweeping maximum awards? ''When it's Rahman in the picture you will never give a second thought. Or ever question about its music. By default it has to be the best. Secondly when SLUMDOG came it was Rahman who gave us the music rights which he had. So I bought the rights on Rahman's recommendation. Our association with Rahman is from long time and we trust him to the core,'' explained Bhushan,

On asking about their association and being successful as a good omen, Bhushan, now being more proud about the associations said, ''Actually both of us are lucky to have each other. We feel highly proud to have associated with Rahman. Our trust factor will always remain on him.''

After SLUMDOG winning the Oscar, in what way it will create a difference to the music giant T-series considering its already existing prominent status in the music scene? How would it affect the company in carrying forward the legacy of providing great music? Replies Bhushan in an energized tone,'' Our music sales have always been good. But I feel now it will go beyond. It will greatly affect our value. People across the world know about SLUMDOG, its music so in a way it will create a high repute for our company amongst them too. They will easily relate to our name.''

So, how does Bhushan plan to celebrate the BIG achievement? Says Bhushan, ''At the moment we don't know in what way we express our joy. All we can say is that we are extremely happy and feeling lucky to be a part of SLUMDOG. It's absolutely a proud moment for all of us.'' And Bhushan's feeling for Rahman's success, ''I am extremely thankful to him (A R Rahman) for having trusted us. He is a genius. He is finally getting all his dues for the amount of hardwork and efforts he has put in all these years.''



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Jan 31, '09



If we don’t have enough Real Love in our lives, the resulting emptiness is unbearable. We then compulsively try to fill our emptiness with whatever feels good in the moment—money, anger, sex, alcohol, drugs, violence, power, and the conditional approval of others. Anything we use as a substitute for Real Love becomes a form of Imitation Love, and although Imitation Love feels good for a moment, it never lasts and never gives us the feeling of genuine happiness that Real Love provides.

Most people spend their entire lives trying to fill their emptiness with Imitation Love, but all they achieve is an ever-deepening frustration, punctuated by brief moments of superficial satisfaction. All the unhappiness in our lives is due to that lack of Real Love and to the frustration we experience as we desperately and hopelessly try to create happiness from a flawed foundation of Imitation Love. The beauty of Real Love is that it ALWAYS will eliminate our anger, confusion, and pain. So how do we find this universal cure?



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Jan 31, '09



There’s only one kind of love that can fill us up, make us whole, and give us the happiness we all want: unconditional love or true love. It is unconditional love that we all seek, and somehow we intuitively realize that anything other than that kind of love isn’t really love at all—it’s an imitation of the real thing.

Unconditional love—true love—is so different from the kind of love most of us have known all our lives that it deserves both a name—Real Love—and definition of its own: Real Love is caring about the happiness of another person without any thought for what we might get for ourselves. It’s also Real Love when other people care about our happiness unconditionally. It is not Real Love when other people like us for doing what they want. Under those conditions we’re just paying for love again. We can be certain that we’re receiving Real Love only when we make foolish mistakes, when we fail to do what other people want, and even when we get in their way, but they don’t feel disappointed or irritated at us. That is Real Love (true unconditional love), and that love alone has the power to heal all wounds, bind people together, and create relationships quite beyond our present capacity to imagine.



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Jan 31, '09



We've heard songs about it, seen it in the movies, heard it talked about on Oprah by relationship experts, and read about it in thousands of self help books. But, what is unconditional love? We all want to feel loved. We think about it, hope for it, fantasize about it, go to great lengths to achieve it, and feel that our lives are incomplete without it. The lack of unconditional love is the cause of most of our anger and confusion. It is no exaggeration to say that our emotional need for unconditional love is just as great as our physical need for air and food.

It is especially unfortunate, then, that most of us have no idea what unconditional love really is, and we prove our ignorance with our horrifying divorce rate, the incidence of alcohol and drug addiction in our country, the violence in our schools, and our overflowing jails.

Our misconceptions of unconditional love began in early childhood, where we saw that when we did all the right things—when we were clean, quiet, obedient and otherwise “good”—people “loved” us. They smiled at us and spoke in gentle tones. But we also saw that when we were “bad,” all those signs of “love” instantly vanished. In short, we were taught by consistent experience that love was conditional, that we had to buy “love” from the people around us with our words and behavior.

So what’s wrong with conditional love? We see it everywhere we look, so what could be wrong with it? Imagine that every time you pay me fifty dollars, I tell you I love you. We could do that all day, but at the end of the day would you feel loved? No, because you’d know that I “loved” you only because you paid me. We simply can’t feel fulfilled by love we pay for. We can feel loved only when it is freely, unconditionally given to us. The instant we do anything at all to win the approval or respect of other people—with what we say, what we do, how we look—we are paying for the attention and affection we receive, and we can’t feel genuinely loved.



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Jan 31, '09



THE bourgeoisie of the world who have been startled by the work of Lenin are making a tremendous noise everywhere about this “great ” Gandhi as if he were some divine being above the ordinary human being. This outside world praises him and adores him for his two words: non-violent movement. The working class should better know the whole history of Gandhi. He has his good qualities which certainly are rare amongst political adventurers of modern life, and especially among members of the British Labour Party and other European Social Democrats. All such politicians manage to increase their wealth and their luxuries in life, and they all become little tin-pot aristocrats. Gandhi is the opposite. He throws away all material goods and wants no luxuries. Living in an oriental country of illiterate masses, and knowing very well how religion is used by every ruling class for mass suppression, he mixes a lot of religious sentiments with revolutionary phrases, and so poses as an object of worship amongst the masses in India. In this guise Gandhi professes indifference to material wealth, but he loves human admiration to an unbounded degree. The intoxication of mass worship has benumbed all his senses for physical discomfort. He also has physical courage and a dictatorial mind which will remain unchanged from external pressure till he himself rapidly changes it from contradiction to contradiction.

In his young days he went to South Africa to assist the Indian colonials who were badly oppressed by the British and the Dutch. He never made the slightest attempt socially and politically to unite the Negroes and the Indians together for the overthrow of the white man’s tyranny. He cultivated a separatist mentality among the Indians based on religious superstition and social snobbery. Whenever the humiliation or the suffering was too great for his Indian followers he gave them a dose of Tolstoy’s philosophy. Every now and again he sang songs of praise for the British Empire, and actually made people believe that there was love and justice in the hearts of imperialist rulers and capitalist employers. He left the poor Negroes alone and wasted his time in bothering with detailed grievances of small Indian merchants and traders. Whenever some vulgar favour was shown by the British master towards a few rich Indians in South Africa, Gandhi would burst out into a song like the Empire’s nightingale. He ignored the fact that South Africa belongs to the negroes and that the white tyrants were a small minority, and were the worst type of exploiters, gold hunters and diamond diggers.

Then burst out the Boer War. Gandhi observed all the intrigues of Chamberlain, Rhodes and Dr. Jameson. Every student of politics knows that the British War on the Boers was one of the foulest acts in the history of wars. Gandhi went from place to place asking Indians to be loyal to the British war-mongers and actually wanted to assist them. The disarmed Indian merchants had the reputation of having no military spirit or fitness. So he made a Red Cross Battalion out of them and sent them to help in that wicked war. His non-violent spirit and Tolstoy’s philosophy did not urge him to come out and oppose the war even as much as Lloyd George did in London. He had not sufficient understanding of the meaning of the war even to advocate that the Indians, if they had to help, should help the Boers.

After the Boer War and after the South African Union. Gandhi made a great hero in his heart and mind of General Smuts. He knew that General Smuts had finally betrayed the liberty of his own nation, he knew that General Smuts was an exploiter of the lands of the Negroes, he knew that General Smuts became a faithful servant of the Empire as soon is he was given a big position in it, though he had told his people that he was going to fight against the British to a finish. Gandhi’s worship of General Smuts grew so high that when General Smuts declared his policy of perpetual slavery for Indians in South Africa, Gandhi declared it was the Magna Carta of the poor oppressed Indians.

After this he left South Africa. When he was in London the world war broke out. Gandhi was a fresh arrival in London where there were many old Indian residents. The young Indian students in London had been agitated with revolutionary teachings from 1906, and the British Government had managed to get several of them pent to India, some of whom were then hanged and others were imprisoned from five to twenty years. In his usual desire to be a leader everywhere, he came forward as the leader of the Indians in London and issued a circular once again asking all the Indians to fall in under his leadership and to serve the British Empire in the world war. He was shrewd enough to guess that Indians young and old would have to accept his proposals from fear of being known to the Government as disloyal. But he was mistaken. The Indian residents in London laughed at him and condemned his sycophantic act. Some fifty poor Indian students hurriedly joined him and their had two or three years of humiliating time for repentance. On his return to India at a Recruiting Meeting at Kaira in 1916 he exhorted every Indian to join the British Army, and he openly declared that India’s liberty was to be won on the battlefields of Belgium murdering the Germans.

Now let us turn to India. From 1902 a revolutionary wing was built up inside the Congress, under the leadership of Tilak, demanding the overthrow of British usurpation of India. Tilak was twice imprisoned, and the second time it was for six years. The bourgeois Congress leaders were very anxious to wipe out Tilak’s influence in the country when he was in prison. Gokhale, a brilliant university professor who was gaining a reputation as a young and left-wing fighter, came out openly to assist the British Empire. He helped the old Congress leaders to retain their policy and leadership, and all the Indian princes and Indian merchants showered admiration in their turn upon Gokhale. Gokhale died at an early age and was then described as a Mahatma. Gandhi now openly declared that he would abandon South Africa for ever and take Gokhale’s place in India. Thus in place of a dead Mahatma, British Imperialists got a live one. With his revolutionary phraseology and religious slogans he came forward very rapidly. Annie Besant, another religious humbug in Indian politics, assisted Gandhi’s popularity. Tilak had come out of prison but had become a weak old man stricken with disease. He soon died and Gandhi had the field clear in front of him and took the fullest advantage of this. He got all the money and homage and blind faith that he wanted for his political campaign which ended in a fiasco even from the bourgeois point of view. A young and vigorous leader from Bengal, C. R. Das, came to the front, wiped out Gandhism and introduced a more practical policy for winning bourgeois rights. Gandhi retired from the Congress and kept up playing his holy trombone more vigorously than before. Unfortunately C. R. Das died suddenly at a young age.

At this juncture at Madras the Congress adopted severance from the British Empire as its principal creed. Gandhi actually refused to associate with the Congress. Those who know him know that his idea is to be another General Smuts. He will never fight for India’s freedom from the British yoke. He wrote in his paper jesting articles against the Independence Resolution of Madras. He is shrewd enough to know that complete independence for India will soon finish the power of the Indian princes and bourgeoisie and will end in a triumphant revolution of the workers and peasants. He is really shuddering at the thought of a Communist State: his ideal is a Dominion under British guns with Gandhi as the new “General Smuts.” He talks of the Rupee ratio, of protective duties, of handspinning, of prohibition and various other parliamentary shibboleths, but he cannot conceive of a great Indian Union of Soviets in which worker and peasants are supreme, and in which the princes and landlords, money-lenders and dividend earners, have no place at all. What can India’s poor “General Smuts” do with such an idea? As soon as Nehru's Report brought back the British Empire into the Congress, Gandhi came back. As soon as Lord Irwin spoke of a smiling Round Table Conference of the thieves of the Empire, Gandhi rushed his country into it by signing the idiotic Delhi Manifesto. But immediately he found the young blood rising, and he still found the workers’ and peasants’ revolution growing. He thought it better to ride on the back of it than be crushed under it. He, therefore, remained in the Congress with a programme for complete independence and pretended for the time to drop the Delhi Manifesto.

Since then he has been shouting for a compromise, and by dramatic vestures he is striving to force a speedy compromise between the British and would-be Indian bourgeois leaders to stem the growth of proletarian revolution. He selected the Salt Law in March as the point of his attack because he knew that for twelve months the Indian salt manufacturers had been begging the Viceroy for protective measures against the foreign European salt trust—measures which they were very likely to obtain as a price of peace between Indian bourgeoisie and British imperialists. He neglects the revolutionary side of the salt proposition. He does not call upon millions of Indian villagers to expel the special Salt Police from their villages and he does not call upon his own friends, the big Indian salt manufacturers, to refuse to pay the taxes and to go to prison. He does not call upon his propertied and mill-owning friends to refuse to pay income tax and have their property confiscated. He does not support the railway strikers and textile strikers who were shot down, and his Congress Committee has not got a word of praise for the Indian troops at Peshawar who practised true non-violence and refused to shoot down innocent people wanting their liberty from a foreign occupier of their country. By knowing the past of Gandhi, we are better able to follow his present tactics and we shall even be able to guess his future activities.

Some people think that because Gandhi and some of his followers are put in prison, and because they use strong words, therefore they will never again become friends of the British Empire. This is all nonsense. British Imperialists have been able to win back in the past much stronger fighters, such as General Botha and General Smuts, and also Arthur Griffiths and Michael Collins. Workers of the world, let us unite together and break our chains and do not let Round Table Conferences and peace conferences and imperialist conferences add stronger links to the chains round the workers and peasants.



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Jan 08, '09



* Winning means showing people you really care about them with warmth and understanding under any circumstances.

* Winning means you become and remain best person God could ever have you be in the face of darkness and in the face of what the darkness tries to do to you.

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Winning out over the darkness isn't everything, it’s the only thing.

* Winning out requires you understand what the great adversary wants for you is total defeat.

* Winning means defeating the darkness put upon you by the great adversary.

* Winning means defeating the darkness minute by minute, hour by hour, and day by day.

* Being comfortable with yourself when you are alone means you are winning.

* Being alone is not the same thing as being lonely.

* Being comfortable when you are alone means you like yourself.

* Winning is having a peace and serenity within you.

* You don't have to be a perfect person to know love or to give love.

* You can't undo the mistakes and sins of the past, but to win out over the mistakes and sins of
the past you can make amends by apologizing.

* You can make amends with God by repenting and expressing your godly sorrow.

* You can win in your life by impacting the lives of others in positive ways no matter what your own life is like.

* You can impact the lives of others by giving love and compassion, understanding, and joy.

* Your life can be a winning life when you can be joyful no matter how long you live, and no matter what your circumstances in life might be like.

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You take on a winning attitude when you realize you have, at any age and under any circumstance, great potential.

* You win when you choose to win out over any adversity.

* You win when you choose to win out over any adversity in spite of the unknowns you face.

* Being a winner in life does not happen by accident because we chose to be a winner.

* You may never be able to be fixed, cured, repaired, redone, or made new in your body. However, you can choose to be well even if you are never fixed, cured, repaired, redone, or made new in your body.

* You can choose a winning life in spite of present circumstances, and if you choose to be well and choose a winning life, in your spirit, then in your mind and in your soul you are fixed, cured, repaired, redone, and made new.



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Jan 06, '09



Question:

My friends birthday is tomorrow. I can't spend too much money, but I want to make her feel very special. Any suggestions?

Answer:

The best gifts a person can receive are those that come from the heart. People love gifts that speak out to them and who they are. Friend, I suggest that a statement from your heart will far exceed those of your wallet and make your friend feel extremely special.

There are plenty of options when it comes to giving your friend a gift that will make her feel special. You could always write her a nice poem that speaks to her positive qualities and the strength of your friendship. People always enjoy hearing about themselves, no matter how humble they may be, which in turn makes them feel special.

Another gift idea is a “coupon.” Give her a birthday card with a whimsical message on it, promising her a task that you will do for her, such as “one free home cooked pasta dinner (redeemable at any time)” or “five free foot rubs.”

Regardless of what you decide, the main point of the gift is to tell your friend how much you care for her. Since you already know what she enjoys, base your gift selection upon her interests and passions. Furthermore, a batch of freshly baked chocolate chip cookies, as an addition, never hurt anyone’s feelings.

Dearest Friend, the greatest gifts in life are free, so don’t worry…I’m sure once you get creative you will create the ultimate gift for your friend. Oh yeah, wish your friend a happy birthday from me!



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