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Jun 12, '09

Relatively happy theory
Those things sanctified by usage will not be changed easily. And the one that can only be decided by oneself, is one's own heart. So long as there is a happy heart in the heart, it is always easy to find where the happiness is.

Where, where happy! This is a very always very old song, our youth at that time was young, carefree, free running, is thinking what color of marshmallow happiness is one on earth in the colourful sky.

That time, resources are still deficient, the candy of the bad smell of a handful of fruits, is little child's sincerest smile on the face. Mouth include transparent pearl, happiness tangerine that fragrant and sweet originally.

Having grown up, the candy of those years has already withdrawn from the stage evolving, the candy of new generation that what the ones that fetch are taken the place of is one hundred flavor of novelty of all kinds. Rainbow fruit juice candy, the Swiss candy of fruit salad, chocolate of cottonrose hibiscus of morality, every kind has pure taste. To be objective, whom technological content exceed that year absolutely red to like toffees. The just so exquisite soft sweets like strawberry includes in the mouth, has not let the gustatory bud be getting excited. Perhaps, it already tired on taste any of experiencing.

Yes, we are numb all unconsciously. It was the record a long time ago that sealed up for safekeeping in memory, but has not been still broken, because there are few things remembered in that era, so, those rare special taste has been kept. Packed with the thing around now, every day, far too many, many one even close eyes, can see, even not smooth either while dreaming of. So, we have chosen to forget, forget those memory of moving swiftly.

Remembered that once, it is hand in hand to follow the best partner, was saying, we should be together forever. Very innocent, think day so past day by day, everything can in there. As wake up some day, find those already suddenly from well far, commitment that make once those afford to disappear in front of reality. It is we that keep, promise, we even oneself unable to go, believe, it can have been oneself all the time.

Still remember at the time of the school, the teacher of the moral lesson will always assign some propositions of introspecting oneself, let us scrutinize oneself. Most classmates have handed in perfect oneself in the class. Respect the teacher, friendly classmates, cherish the trees, we are all good teenagers. I have racked the brains, can not find out either that has any shortcoming oneself, look, I am a perfect person. A few years later, find this yellowing notebook accidentally while clearing up the things, there are teacher's red comments above: People do not have perfect person. Very hasty and careless, I did not go to look carefully at all at that time, it was only that mark that was cared about. Watching the tender handwriting of above, every one, kindhearted, patient, insist on, industrious, think about others, selfdiscipline. It is familiar but strange to look at so. Perhaps, I was once such a person. Just now, it seems that it is very difficult to hold staying with the morphology.

In Buddha's quotation, there is a word: Have not asked, has not lost. It does not matter and lose to matter. In brief, not wanted not to ask. A young one I it seems to be to have, want, have, ask, matter, mind, lose either, there is nothing to care, there is nothing to struggle too naturally. The world is always full of luring, among them, how have no regard for. So begin, have, want, ask, can begin, complain get satisfied, the mood will get to the bottom of valley low, think what everything wrong it is. Negative mood is inhibiting the whole oneself, it is unable to free.

We begin to transfer the interest to the car, the house, money from the colored candy, all seem to be everybody in things of efforts for it. Must feel have no regard for, want, can receive some day only, all devotion we. Think, go wrong in this way, we to need, go, hard, receive thing wanted. Just nobody stipulates at all times that paying must reciprocate, sometimes, such a inequality exists. No matter the trade on the business field, the relation in emotion world, is never rules to equal two of one plus one.

The friend is an emotional woman, divide and divide shutting with the boyfriend jointly, but always cut constant affection. She want marriage the person give she, but she remain unchanged standing fast at one day of a new vista persistent. I ask her, are you happy in this way? She say, leave he I can regret live on, I can only keep at his side then.

My cool advice which stops me. I always maintain the long pain is not so good as short pain. But insist on not minding being as long as the heaven and earth endure at the same time, only lie in once having. Mind, things that just this world can be eternal are not many at all, instead of adhering to a certain impossible reality fearlessly, this moment when it would be better to believe two pieces of palmistry and hold, heart is happy. In this way, it is enough, no.

Still brilliantly illuminated outside the window, this turning that the world does not still rest, those things sanctified by usage will not be changed easily. And the one that can only be decided by oneself, is one's own heart.

There many answers of that question. Eat longlife noodles that a bowl of mothers boiled, the golden yellow egg on birthday in happiness, oil flows in one's mouth; It is at starlit night that the happiness reviews the homework, the grade examination that was passed at last; The happiness is still one outside alone, receive the telephone of family's care at the night of quietness.

Happy, it is always so modest arrogance. It always stands high above the masses, let people feel difficult to match, but in fact, she turns body into the ordinary things, seen everywhere. So long as there is a happy heart in the heart, it is always easy to find where the happiness is.

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Oct 08, '08

Logic loved
Fasten the man's heart, fasten his stomach first. It is very reasonable that this words are heard, but slightly simple first. In fact, fasten the man's stomach, it is not a key problem. The man is a outside vagrant dog, there is good food inside the family, certainly homesick, want, take some good food outside now, pieces of difficult thing much. Moreover, good food, you can do, it is possible for others. So, only fasten his stomach, can not obviously solve the problem.

Should fasten a man, the main one is the back square matrix ground which settles him. For example handle the relation between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law well, take good care of the child. Mummy and child, one of man can give up, settle two point these, you have strong back square matrix place. Light this is still not all right, in conjunction with settling his social relationships, let his friend think you are his rare virtuous wife, the partner knows you are his indispensable companion, let everybody like you. In this way, you have right of words, have initiatives. If he betrays you at this time, then utterly isolated. Such cost is not obviously that a man would like to bear.

It's a pity, there are few clever women, there are too few bright women. So can know the such one is few.

So, the woman was in youth, each went down town worrying, and when annual older and older was declined gradually, another one has been returned out from the city. You are uneven, at that time when you had good looks, you played and splashed acting shamelessly, he doted on you and pampered you by every means; Now, you have already much disappeared, he does not need you yet, kick your a kick out bare-knuckledly. But you have not thought, you can do at will in the past, just because you were utilizing your good looks wantonly, your good looks has been already no longer valuable now, why can you still hang on not to walk? Is not this exactly an autumn harvest of spring plough?

So, two people should accompany all one's life, the good looks is the thing giving an added grace to what is already beautiful forever, and depend on maintaining, remain your painstaking management, it is your your your devotion of tolerance of personality that earns the companion all one's life for you, but not the good looks for the moment.

I leave you, because we are improper, and have nothing to do with her. Even have no her, will have other shes. So, it is the improper formerly,appear she in after. Later on she leaves me again, because we are improper. This has nothing to do with punishment of destiny. Not even the thing of karma.

Do not in fact have direct logic relation inside. And we are always careless, involve some originally not relevant things together reluctantly.

Certainly, it may be such a situation too. Equilateral triangle relation. You are an upper limit, two people can for you to choose now, you choose one of them, have given up another one. But after choosing, you find your choice is by mistake, then you have regretted, analogous to the beginning, how if choose another one, how is it.

Choose another one, certain to be totally different life. Because choose to love a person, on choosing to accept a kind of life. Just your original choice has no fault, you have given up him, prove you do not love him, if none present pieces of one he supports you to choose another, afterwards appear, you will leave him. Certainly, unless reality compels.

Moreover, choose to originally mean giving up. People's greed, always want to make the best of both worlds, all regards one's own taste as the centre. Just such a good thing, have, may not wheel receive we either.

In fact sometimes the emotion is very simple. Get and open very much too. You, we. Can even coexist, but there is no logical priority.


The man is the animal by nature of a kind of laziness. That is to say, if a woman is good enough to it, always let him live an easy life, perhaps he faint smugly and accompany with her for all one's life. The woman is the animal by nature of a kind of avarice. Though she will enjoy your devotion yours is good, but that small soul has already been thrown to the distant place.

So, in the love, the man moved without wanting to touch can be found everywhere, last heart and woman that,can never Ann copy because only emotion.

Jun 03, '08

It is " boring " to be improper Female
Recommend oneself while not merely looking for a job in this times,
Can't with stuffy to utter a sound either at the the happy fate which brings lovers together of looking for.
Though man like many woman of, too of few words rare to turn on of woman of mouth, will be sorted out as the boring woman too.
Suo woman often eats the hidden loss, the boring woman is unpopular too.
It has been small and fine since young girl period, a group of sworn followers of sweet heart, she is this year of 30 years old, all sworn followers marry, only beautiful to have man at one's side while being happy.
Under beautiful happy silent approvement, a enthusiastic one small to help beautiful to do several blind date can while being happy while being fine. The first introduction is man colleagues of the small fine company, will hold in K T V to blindly date, in order to dilute the awkward atmosphere, little and fine sworn followers all come to participate in together, some have also led the gentleman to sing merrily together. Seem, sing introduction very happy too by man blindlied date to come, but did not right away get in touch with no longer the second day. This has trace to search, because the will that this man has not checked while checking out, just draw out the leather wallet, it is fine to ask small: "Could you tell me how much one will pay? "
Even to blindly date the man unwilling to check, certainly have no will continuing expressing friendship to the wife.
It is not terrific that it is small and fine to scold a man colleague, feel too beautiful and happy to show due respect for one's feelings too - -Beautiful to dress fair maiden very much while being happy, silence sits up straight at the sofa seeing others sing in the whole evening, have not opened the gold mouth at all. "In this way how do others know her? "
"Beautiful and happy to like singing? " I ask.
"It seems not to sing very much, we went to KTV in the past, she seldom sings too. " Have thought leaning towards the head small and fine.
I think this is a small and fine fault. Know obviously heroine very good at, sing, can rank KTV blindlying date, this " whether where turn on where does it withdraw " , cause trouble on purpose? Seem woman matchmaker know, wait, marry girl getting lame foot, also want she run, show man the same obviously.
If realize to some extent small and fine. It is getting clever for her to study for the second time, with beautiful to invite in the graceful coffee store while being happy another man, only the woman matchmaker of this of hers present acts as the sponsor. However, she comes back disappointed - -"Seem it is I that blindly date, chat with leading man constantly, beautiful to just smile once in a while while being happy, two hour any words speak, make me speak mouth be tongue to be dry. "
The next day, she phoned to ask a leading man was interesting to the heroine. The leading man says stammering: "She Remain silent, does not seem easy to communicate "
The third blind date is known, still there is no achievement. Beautiful and happy to seem to like that boy very much, but the man has not got in touch with her voluntarily. Then little to agitate man invite beautiful to go out while being happy while being fine, but the man says: "She looks a little serious, I do not know either what is told her want after inviting her No. "
"Well, my mother said in the past the girl should be a bit more gentle and more quiet, there are men that will appreciate, why the present men are all afraid the woman not talkative? "
Though most modern men do not appreciate too talkative woman. But follow most different one of last times, this times were old enough to get married boys of age can not appreciate either it was " boring " (can interpret as not mattering and can have a chat) Woman. This times, not only will learn to recommend oneself while looking for a job, even while looking for the happy fate which brings lovers together, but also Israel can't be too stuffy to utter a sound.
" sociable dumb girl " May very popular before 30 year, should should consider the room woman of house, it can not be very popular at all to be modern. If not good at speaking, have expressions very much anyhow, know how to often smile, may a little attract the opposite sex's speciality.



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