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Sep 06, '09



         My Entry for 400 words blog 
            
              Ofcourse, a thing of beauty is a joy ( here I wouldnt add forever...).... The beauty I am talking about is how the men and the women enjoy the beauty in the opposite sex..... Dont we all have this instant attraction, the tension and the pull towards the opposite sex?. Well here I am trying to dissect the thought process that accompanies the visual treat. Eye candies are always a treat for the sore eyes .....arent they?
          Well...closer home I have seen my hubby doing a 90 degrees or sometimes caught off-guard even an 180 degrees when a beauty (read it as well-endowed) walks by. Some times I would even have to remind him ....that am right here .....beside him.... He would get that carried away..... They have it so easy. One look is all it takes ...for the juices to start flowing...... Men have this instant connection through visuals...:)...isnt it so simple?....and easy?...guys...u r lucky.....Its not for nothing that a katrina or a Jolie gets the highest number of hits....thats why this weakness has been made use of and one gets infected with a virus when these sites are browsed......
              Am taking my usual walk in the park and suddenly one evening a hunk saunters in and starts jogging.....well well.....I wouldnt know how those 45 min went by........there would be a spring in my step and glint in my eyes as I go round and round....:). But I wouldnt turn my head nor would I take him home with me....(what were u guys thinking?...I meant mentally ofcourse).This is our reaction to an eye candy.... Its not as if we dont enjoy an adonis.... We do...we most certainly do....but it is just that...we look, enjoy and promtly move on without getting all flustered or turned on....
             Lets call it accademic interest.......we would also be interested in observing a beautiful woman .....mayb more so...thats why I called it accademic interest....we can just observe beauty for the sake of beauty and leave it at that..... We women..... have to get it all complicated ...dont we....we have to get it all tangled up with our emotions and all that mess..for the chemistry to kinda set in.....It is as if we are a world apart .....hence justifies the fact that it is regarded.... as men coming from Mars while the women are from Venus.








Sep 05, '09



50 word Bull’s eye: A picture is posted at the bottom for this blog. Write a blog of 50 to 55 words connecting the picture. The best blog that correlates the picture well will be the winner. 







I can vaguely remember this evening.....my first trip to the sea.....my parents were behind me.....giving me the first hint of freedom......my honeymoon with the sea began....i loved the sand underneath my feet....wind in my hair....and waves that seemed to beckon me.....to this day the love affair continues....







Aug 28, '09



    Friendship, Fun and Frolicking on Fropper! Here's to the Chain of Love and Peace!


     Me nominated here ...so high up in the chain  might have come as a bolt from the blue but the person I am passing on the torch to will not come as a surprise after all....
   She is Sazze.... ....the darling of the fropper world. She was one of the first few friends I befriended and she was the one who introduced me to so many fropperites including CJ.
     With a big heart she welcomes everyone into her fold and makes them feel welcome. After every interaction with her i have come out feeling that she is HIGH on life........always chirpy, sweet and friendly. But if her friends are slighted beware... she takes up cudgels for them and even there she is gentle. 
   Her writing is also full of humour and giving us a glimpse of the life in far-off land where sunshine is a luxury....
    She has become a fropperite since october 9th 2007 and have heard has severe withdrawal syptoms like me if she stays away from it long.....
    we have come to love this sweet mallu girl and have regards for her 'bawa' and are fond of her 2 impish kids.....:).... The queen of hearts ...here you are sazze....the torch in your worthy hands ...

ps...sorry guys...she is taken.....









Jun 12, '09



Parenting Made Easy .....my entry to the contest floated by the self-claimed impish twins....
     Everyone wants to be the best parents in the world. Parenting is I guess the most difficult job in the world, full of trials and errors. What works for one child need not work for another.Busy trying to avoid making the same mistakes which we thought our parents made ...we will commit a whole new set of mistakes which will be pointed out and avoided by our kids...... Our parents had it very simple. They did not have to worry about the consequences of their parenting..... Now we have everything at the finger tips of our kids and want them to abstain from them. It has made it all the more difficult for us.
   We come across so many situations in our daily life and wonder how to deal with them......if only there was an absolute solution to each situation, so that the burden on our shoulders may be lifted. It will relieve us also of the guilt that we may have traumatised our kids for life......which is what it comes to. Mothers are blamed for the way the kids turn out in their life.......tks to Freud and his theories.
     Reading sazze's recent blog about the eternal dilemma faced by the parents about when should the kids be made to sleep on their own also made me realise the usefulness of this program.... We encounter this dilemma at every stage in their life.
      So like all the gadgets that have been invented to make our lives easy a soft-ware was developed to make the parenting easier..... A group of counsellors, parents, psychiatrists and techies put their heads together and came up with this program in which each family filled up some basic data like the natures of the parents and the kids and the kind of a person we want him/her turn out to be.... and when the need arises you just have to give the situation and it will come up with the option.....:). There it is......the magic wand....which will wipe away all our uncertainties....
  One typical case file: While i was sitting on the computer, I realised that my teenage son has been browsing through the porn. Though I guess he is usually very careful about wiping out the history, sometimes everyone slips...... So what do I do now?
Option 1. I just pretend that I have not noticed it, and go about the daily affairs as if nothing has happened ( this is the best option for me ...as I cringe at the thought of confrontation)
2. Act like mom from the barbaric era and get all worked about it, lock away the computer and ground him for life..... ( so uncharacteristic of me...)
3. Take a lenient view, he will be 18 soon, raging harmones , If I can do it at this age........maybe he could be allowed to do it too....:
4. Don an avataar of the coolest mom, joke about that fact, and let him know he is at a liberty to do what he wants....
5. Very calmly sit him down and talk to him, tell him that he should be concentrating on his studies now as there will be time for all this much later in his life( which sounds so lame even to me...

Now this software will come to our rescue. What say you guys?...any takers?

PS: the option that the pgm will come up with depends on each set of parents and situation....









May 07, '09



    Its breaking news no more, what with fropper meets happening left and right and all over India. I got a call from Chitra last friday evening about this luncheon as Josh (swiftmove for the uninitiated) was visiting namma Bangaluru and that we will be joined by two ladies Padmini (Zone name is vimpup)and Sujatha (sweetykiran). So it was fixed at 2pm sharp and this time she was insisting that its going to be in my part of bangalore....:. No one raised an argument to the convener's say.
   So 2 it was.. and just as I entered the restaurant and messaged Raghu (myzonecan) if he was here I was joined by Ria and Cj thanking my stars that I did not have to make a solo entry...... Rasa serves karanataka cuisine and supposed to be new.So we got to meet Josh,Padmini,Sujatha and Raghu who were all seated and on time which in itself is a rarity keeping our traffic in mind. Introductions  were made and since Ria was supposed to leave early as she had to attend her daughters valedictory function (Cj was teasing Ria that its not her daughters function that she has to go to, its her own....coz she was that excited and had still to go to beautician for dolling up...) we started ordering food. Rasa' speciality was rice rotis which was ordered by most of us , with Cj taking charge of getting us all to get to down to the task of deciding what we all wanted.....What we do without u Cj...?
   Conversation flowed...with Cj cribbing about having to go to mysore for a week and sujatha claiming that drives around her son and husband all over to the Q of what she does.......and when asked about her hubby she quipped he drives me nuts....... Padmini and Josh being good friends were exchanging news and the food came in no time. Padmini is always smiling and its a beautiful smile....its very apparent that the inner child in her is not buried that deep.....There is one thing about these fropper meets I tell u, though we are meeting for the first time there are no hang ups or awkwardness to be seen. Raghu who usually keeps us all in splits was stuck in a corner not to be heard much......
Ria gulped her food and left and in between had to calm her daughter that she will be there in no time at all. Then for the desserts, I was surprised to see the delicious Kubani ke meetha on the menu ...which is vanilla served with apricot syrup and decided to go in for that while Cj ordered for hot chocolate fudge and sujatha for the mango cheese pie. I guess the desserts were the best part of the meal as they were very tasty and in good company made me go in for another round..... Raghu had to leave us at that point.
Cj wanted to take the party to a park nearby before the restaurant ppl gave us dirty looks....:....so we went to Sankey tank and sat down at a pargola choosing to ignore a lovey dovey couple sitting behind us and later it turned out that they were having an argument and past gone the stage to notice us..... Conversation steered towards husband bashing.....this is the favorite topic with women after diet and fitness .....to get us going.........we take great relish in talking about the quirks and eccentries of the poor dears and poor Josh was grossly outnumbered.......he had no choice but to nod his head...like all good things it had to come to an end with me wanting to get back to my routine and bid goodbye to my new and not so new friends. 


PS -During dinner cj told ....nay more of an ordered...that this time Suma will write about this meet...I tried to push Raghu to do this but there was no relent.........so for a gal who does not write more than a grocery list ....was pushed to do this......things we do for friends.........love u cj.....








    




   





 




Tags: fropper, meet





Apr 28, '09



    We were on a holiday in Rajasthan. The state is full of palaces and forts. We reached Jodhpur and decided to stay in a palace which had been converted into a hotel and part of it was still occupied by the royal family. It was surrounded by beautifully laid out gardens.Each and every furniture seemed to tell us a story about the beautiful days it had seen.
    We were soaking in the ambience of the palace and feeling like a maharaja and maharani..... ..albiet for the day. I dressed up for the dinner ...had no other choice as the place commanded it.... and v went to the restaurant where the waiters were dressed up in traditional attire and served us local cuisine in style. It was all magical. Enjoyed a tasty dinner and strolled outside into the grounds.
    It was a star-lit night and there was cool breeze and the magic continued. We sat down in one of the benches which over looked the palace which was looking so beautiful with the lighting.The mood was set for a romantic eve, we were just getting cosy, a lady came by and when we smiled a her she introduced herself as Roopa and that she was the daughter of the house. My curiousity got better of me and asked her if I could join her in the walk, she said did not mind.So I abandoned my husband and went with her. 
    As we strolled in the pathway she started telling me of the interesting occurances of the family which held me totally captivated. Then she mentioned a princes Roopmati who was a very beautiful princess who had met a tragic death.
She would go to the temple everyday and spend sometime by the stream near the temple. One day noticed a young man standing at a distance watching them, as she was heading back to the palace. She began looking forward to  him everyday, he did not make any attempt to furthur the contact. One fine day Roopmati stopped and talked to him and realised that this handsome lad was the son of a chieftain, was fascinated by the beautiful princess and felt the day was in complete without having a glance of her.So come rain come shine he would turn up and waited for her. They became friends over the days and which soon blossomed into love.
   Roopmati could not do anything about it as she knew she would incur the wrath of her father if he knew about this boy.So without the thought of tomorrow they were in total bliss enjoying each others company. Soon the princess heard of the match that had come from the neighbouring kingdom for her.They were broken hearted.They made a suicide pact and one night he came to the room and both of them consumed poison and died in each others arms.
   She said that there was a picture of her in the palace and took me into the palace into a room fit for a princess and showed us a portrait of a beautiful maiden. I was lost in the eyes of this maiden feeling sad for the tragic end she had to meet. I realised that the face was familiar and was kind of hypnotised by that face.As i was lost in the picture I heard a noise behind me . It was an orderly who was sounding apologetic and telling me that I had wandered into the part of the palace which was not open to the public.
  Then it occured to me that Roopa was not with me anymore. I mentioned it to him that I was brought here by the member of the family Roopa, he said that there was no Roopa in the family for the past 100 yrs as it brought the memory of the tragic princess.
It was then that I realised that the familiar face I was seeing in front of me was indeed that of the friend who told me this story. I had goose pimples.......He confirmed that some people had seen the princess in the palace and no one had ever been hurt or been scared by her. I rushed back to my husband and held him tight and waited for the dawn so that I could get away from the eerie palace.
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This is in contribution to the spate of spooky tales that cj and sazze have unleashed on us.......am sorry that everyone is mistaking this to be a real life experience.....


Tags: palace, ghost





Mar 09, '09



Either you have it or you dont. What am I talking about here? Its the ability to use the gadgets that have become a part of our life these days. With the increasingly gadget driven world , you are left feeling totally helpless if you dont. There are some who go the full length, and some who dont want anything to do with at all, and some inbetween, who will just about manage to do the routine stuff and still be called the "e-savvy".........
       The exception to this rule are the kids who take to them like fish to water, you can see them playing with your cell phone or tapping away at a Gameboy as if they have had some kind of prior training for it in the womb...:).
       But with adults it is a different story. There are some of us who feel we can learn the working if we can put some effort to it and do so . While there are others who stay away from it as if it is some kind of monster just waiting to bite. It might be a cell phone or an I pod or a computer or any other electronic gadget (EG for convenience) for that matter. Is it just a mind block that they seem to have that is making them feel so inadequate when they are facing the EG ? ............or are they wired differently? Why does an otherwise intelligent person so afraid of the user-friendly EG is still beyond my comprehension....we do read about the grannies and grandpas learning how to use internet to keep in touch with their kids and grand kids abroad....so age is not the only culprit here or so it seems.
        I have quite a few of these EG phobic friends around me who keep us all entertained. There is one friend who is averse to change her cell phone as she has to learn the working of the various buttons all over again.............and another qualified professional who has a table -top on the desk at office but hasnt a clue of starting or using it. A few more who want help when adding a new contact or assigning a speed-dial. There was one time when I was trying to make my friend understand how to use the internet with these terminologies.........web-sites are like  little towns all over the web ( take it as a world of its own).....which has stored the information and each have their own address which are called URL and the vehicle to take us around are the browsers. Did you guys make any sense out of it.......?
         It is no wonder that the call-center employees have a tough time to deal with these genre and are paid to be polite all the while. Here I have borrowed some jokes which will really get us cracking....

1.Tech Support:: "Ok, in the bottom left hand side of the screen,can you see the 'OK' button displayed?"
Customer: "Wow. How can you see my screen from there?"

2.Tech Support:: "What type of computer do you have?"
Customer:: "A white one.

3."Tech Support:: "What operating system are you running?"
Customer: "Pentium".

4."Customer: "My computer's telling me I performed an illegal abortion."

5."Customer: "How do I print my voicemail?"

6.Tech Support:: "What does the screen say now?"
Customer: "It says, 'Hit ENTER when ready'."
Tech Support:: "Well?"
Customer: "How do I know when it's ready?"

         So the patience of the Tech support is tested to the core ............grin and bear buddies. They really cant help it as they are dealing with aleins........ .
         That doesnt make me an expert in all this, as I am at the mercy of my kids to transfer the music on my ipod or photos from the camera to the system.....:) which make my kids wonder why she cannot do this on her own. There you go....life has come a full circle.








Nov 19, '08



Yeah, you guys guessed it right. It is through his stomach. Whenever he is not obsessing about you know what..... food is what he is thinking about most likely. Atleast that is the conclusion I have come to being outnumbered by men in my house.
       The question most often asked in the house is," what are we having for breakfast tomorrow?". We usually have  for breakfast, a variety of dishes and most likely they are elaborate too. Unlike in north where it is usually variety of stuffed paranthas or toast. Then the suggestions start pouring in, You have not made this in a long while. And that one too... .
Especially my younger sons who are foodies. When they were younger they used to b so excited about their birthdays that the whole month of Dec was devoted to them........their wish was my command. Now that they have grown-up, all mature and serious... it is only ten days leading upto it.... It does not suffice if the food they have asked for is prepared, I get to hear ...why is the parantha this thick today, this would have gone well with that, this tastes better when it warmed.... It is difficult for me to understand this obsession because I dont think of food unless it is on the plate in front of me, and it does not bother me that much if it is warm or cold, spicy or bland.
Though my elder son does not have any craving of this sort, he enjoys food too. Once he let slip that he was a champion at eating and most of the times he always wins when there is a contest. That really raised a concern in me ........more for his poor tummy than for anything else... So would always warn him when they were planning a party or attending a friends kin' marriage which according to them was the best venue for the competiton......where they could get unlimited idlis or vadas , friends with so much time to kill egging them on, and the adjustable laada...what more could u want........
         Everytime i go to Forum mall I invariably get a msg for burgers,shake and wedges.....sometimes to see how far they can go they also add corn also plzzz....
    So all holidays we have ever been to is obviously remembered by the meals we have had there. The dinners at Goa were heavenly they say. It was good too, by the pool, below the star-lit sky, live music to entertain, the whole family together in a relaxed mood and a long drawn-out 3 course tasty dinner. Looking back, it was wonderful.
And the lunch buffets at hyderabad were very impressive. It was HUGE. We were spoilt for choice and really had a wonderful time. You must be getting the glimpse of what i am trying to say... That is how we creat memories at our house....
      Long back when they were around 7-8 yrs old i guess, we were in Mysore then. I used to take them on an outing after every monthly evaluation as a kind of break. Well that was what we would look forward to when we ...yeah WE... were busy preparing....as it used to be as tough on me too...:). So when we were planning this outing, I gave them a choice, we could either go to Mysore Palace ( as it was during dasara time and the palace along with the Peacock throne was open to the public) or zoo. That started a heated argument among them, I let them hash it out and left the room. And when i returned they were no closer to an unanimous decision, one was saying that it is better in zoo, you get everything there, while the other was arguing that there are food-stalls outside the palace. And here i was ...an idiot , thinking that they were discussing which was more interesting to see..... Here I rest my case!!








Jun 14, '08



Secrets Revealed (Double trouble contd)

Looks like this Double Trouble... blog and tagging has caught everyone’s imagination.....like a snow ball rolling.....it’s getting bigger everyday...hurtling down rapidly......and friends ...fropper would never be the same again. What with everyone’s preferences and secrets out in the open we are going to look at everyone in a different light. So.... this cool cat Manisha has tagged me,and here I am…..thoroughly enjoying the whole exp. It has really got me thinking ....as I had never given these Questions much thought till date!!. Thanks Dagny…

These links will give you an idea as to what I am talking about…

http://www.fropper.com/posts/16783

http://www.fropper.com/posts/16822

The Naughty Tag (Game 1)

1. What is the first thing you notice about the opposite sex? Please no corny answers like his/her personality, we all know what we notice first :-)

My answer: I am a sucker for tall guys….it is instinctive. Maybe I was around 12 when I saw Parvarish (my first movie of AB) and had such a huge crush on Amitabh ....it lasted for years to come……. So I always spare a glance at a tall guy who comes into my vision.

2. Who- of the opposite sex- would you want to be with if you were deserted on an island?

My answer: Well I would definitely want to be deserted with George Cloony in an Island.
It is not only his looks that makes him so groovy, that whacky sense of humour, the naughty boy image, the visits to the war prone Africa...the whole package....has really caught my fancy (fantasy) .....

3. What turns you on about the opposite sex?

My answer: Well ….about the turn on…..there has got to be more than looks……
The list……..
TDH certainly adds up.
Lots of respect for women.
Sense of humour really helps.
OOOO.... and if he has a cleft a bonus point…...
Above all he should be able to hold an intelligent conversation.

4. What turns you off?

My answer: Hmmm……guys who begins with asl and start hitting on you without wasting any time on trivia……… are definitely a turn off.
Men who walk with a swagger and/or vain. (leave the vainity to us guys……)
Men obsessed with their bodies ( six packs really not an issue with us……….)


5. Some Froppites have their real picture on the profile and some don't but just going by their blogs/ comments/ scraps who do you think is the hottest female (male bloggers answer this) and male blogger (female blogger answer this)?

My answer: I really do not know much about these dudes on fropper but….
Solarflare has caught my imagination. What with such a grand name and a silhouette to match is an enigma…..………(I know you have been claimed for ...many times over dude, but the fascination for the unknown, cannot be discounted)
Brainy Bakra with his hot hotter  hottest has impressed  me  and  he has let slip that he is tall too…….
http://www.fropper.com/posts/16925
Rat_race…..he is a cool dude.

So here it is………….have bared all…..very vulnerable right now……….

Bookworm Tag (Game 2)

RULES
1. Grab the nearest book you have been reading. And yes, when I say BOOK… I do NOT mean Cosmopolitan… or Playboy… or even Playgirl magazines. I am asking for words… not pics…
2. Open page 123.
3. Find the fifth sentence.
4. Post the next three sentences.
5. Acknowledge the person who tagged you.
6. Add the rules.

My book:The three mistakes of my life by Chetan Bhagat.
Page 123, 6th sentence:
We did not supply to schools. “yes.” I said. “Infact we have our inhouse advisor Ishaan. He is an ex-district level player”

This was real easy…and the book is not as boring as it seems ...from these lines……….now the tagging part…………I tag…

whacky boy
Yogi_om_ Mumbai
Hell_Raiser

Have  set  the ball rolling……………..










Jun 10, '08



    Evenings are the best time of the day for me, I enjoy my evening walks. Setting eve Sun, cool breeze from the lake nearby, radio Indigo for company makes it all a very enjoyable experience. Walking round and round the block does get monotonous at times, and the some of the lyrics like,” shake what your mamma gave you” sometimes makes me drift off and pay more attention to the surroundings.
   The people that I meet on these walks become familiar faces and elicit a smile as we pass each other. I have observed that very pregnant ladies suddenly takes to these walks maybe because their doctors have advised them or because they do feel cooped at home and want to take in fresh evening air to relieve the tension that starts building up as the time approaches to the D day. As the days go on they suddenly disappear giving room for my assumption that they must have become mothers….in no time at all they come out pushing a pram and I would then realize that 6 months have passed!!!
   Seasons come and go and the years too, just now I am beginning to accept that I am 40 +... the dreaded 'F" word........ I don’t think it is ...just, the way the time passes without us being aware of it. It would be wonderful isn’t it if we were able to catch time and able to savor it in our own leisure....:). The way time flies, It’s as if we were in a kind of limbo watching the changes taking place around us with fascination as a detached bystander.
What really got me thinking on these lines was this encounter with a very sprightly old man of about 85+ who noticed me walking everyday and wished to speak with me. So my neighbor called me in with a  sheepish grin and  I joined this man who was sitting on the porch. Though I was little impatient in the beginning for having to cut short my walk. I forgot all about it once I started talking to this man. He was a very cheerful man and had been very active till very recently had broken his hip and needed some help with walking. His main complaint was none of his kin take him seriously and brush away everything he says with  the adage, his age that was acting up and was not very happy for having been branded old!!. This made me realize that it was universal. Our spirit remains untouched with age. 
Maybe it is for this reason that we cannot accept the changing face in the mirror and put in a lot of effort to see that it does not change. I guess it is for the best too, who would like to end up as a bitter and cynical old man/woman after the lessons (beatings) that the life has given them?  and  who cares how the world sees us? But  we will have to prepare for the eventuality …….and be more tolerant to the elderly around us. Having a set of friends who will patiently give an ear to all the aches and pains will help….:). Moreover with the life expectancy increasing we will have a lot of company.
When I was in my twenties  I would look on everyone above thirty as over the hill. Well I have realized it now, that the hill is growing and am still climbing uphill………. How the perspective changes.....anyways life has never been better, I have reclaimed my life, have become more self-confident, raised wonderful kids, entered a comfy zone with the hubby dear as we know each other inside out.........am on a roll. With the media claiming forties as the new thirties we have everything going for us. Life has not come to a standstill as was expected. So age is just a number and we can be as young as we feel (which in my case is 16…) . And maybe the wisdom is trickling in….just a wee bit…. So have started looking at time as not a time-bomb but an ally departing wisdom!!