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Oct 28, '08

I've long way to go before I kick the.......

Please Read the following BLOG to understand what this is all about:-

http://www.fropper.com/posts/22666

So here goes my BUCKET......

1) Travel the entire WORLD.... and it means Literally crawling onto each and every country....
2) Get my Daughters to study in Australlia
3) OWN A BUNGALOW in BANGALORE CITY
4) Create awareness on KIDNEY DISEASES to every citizen in WORLD.
5) Open a School for the RICH and spoilt Children wherein the fees per annum will be 60 Lakhs
6) TEACH ENGLISH to every CHILD in INDIA.
7) Legalise Prostitution in INDIA ... after all what is the point in Banning it when a 3rd of population in Major cities is surviving only because of it!!!!!...why keep it ILLEGAL when it is allmost LEGAL????
8) JUMP off a plane and PARACHUTE down.,....
9) CLIMB THE HIMALAYAS
10) Own the costliest Model of BENZ

A very happy DIWALI FRIENDS

.................................................ENJOY

Tags: diwali, kick the bucket, tag game, yuvraaja, dreams, ambitions

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Oct 28, '08

NO SMSING on DIWALI....instead GREET DIWALI THE FROPPER WAY!!!

Just think of this.....

All the prepaid Mobile users, if you are in any SMS bundling scheme wherein you get 200 or 500 or 2000 sms per month free.......then be ready for a surprise.......

This Bundled sms is only aplicable on normal days and not on DIWALI or christmas or NEW Years' eve when you end up sending the most greetings....

I dunno how many of you know this, BUT I was really shocked when I came to know this....

IT practically means on the day when you need the flower most to be offered to GODDESS or
GOD, you suddenly find out that the rate is 4 times the ordinary....

When suddenly on the friendship day you want to buy 100 roses you find that the cost is 10 times....

AND now somehow I feel this is the most RIDICULOUS.....on the day when you want to wish
all 3000 friends & RELATIVES of yours a HAPPY DIWALI you find out that the rate is.............

WELL any way At least I'm lucky to be a POST PAID subscriber........

ENJOY DIWALI...... The FROPPER WAY
A VERY HAPPY DIWALI TO ALL...................

Tags: diwali, sms bundle, offer, mobile, festival, greetings

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Sep 02, '08

ZINDAGI BADAL GAYEE---- you changed my LIFE

ZINDAGI BADAL GAYEE??!!!!!!

YE KYA KAR DALA APNE??????????

HAMEIN ANDHERO SE KABHI DAR NA THA,
PAR AAJ HUM PURE GHAR MEIN ROSHNI JALA KE SOTE HAIN???

HAMEIN BHOOKHA RAHENA AATHA HI NA THA
PAR AAJ KAL BHOOKHE PEINT HUM SOTE HAIN????

AREIN MARNA HI THA,
THO MAAR KAR MARTHE..

YE KYA KAR DALA APNE?????
ZINDAGI BADAL DALI APNE!!!!!!!

AB NA THO HUM JEE PATIEN HAIN...
AUR NA HEE HUM MAR PATIEN HAIN....

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MEIN VIDESH SE VAPAS AYA.....
AUR KIYA HUA VADAA NIBHAYA......

AAP KAB WAPAS AYENGE .......
AUR APNA WADA NIBHAYENGE????????????????

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IN ENGLISH:
You changed my LIFE??!!!!!!

what have you DONE??????????

I was never afraid of darkness,
But today I can't sleep without putting all the lights ON???

I could never tolerate HUNGER,
But nowadays I go to BED without DINNER????

If you really wanted to DIE,
You could have killed me & DIED....

O' what have you done...
You changed my LIFE....

NOW niether can I Live nor can I DIE?????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

************************************

I CAME back from abroad
and fulfilled my promise....

when will you come back
and fulfill your PROMISE????????????????????

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Tags: pain, death, fear, life, bereaved, love, die for love, live to die

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Aug 11, '08

A TOUGH DAY 11th AUG 08

TOUGH Day

Today 11th Aug 2008, was a very tough day for me.. It was as if I'm fighting in KARGIL war.

6.00 AM: Wake UP... Decided to clean and mop the floor on my own... what with this mess of kamwali bai's. They come and go at their whims and fancies. Got digusted and removed both of them yesterday. And the real motivation was an article in Times of INDIA as per which their are families who do all the jobs on their own and PLUS build up their body by free excercise.

Now that was a heck of a motivation.... Imagine i've not been into gym for allmost 2 years after my wife's disease set in and had begin to develop a paunch lately. The enjoyment of working and doing excercise(free of cost) was a lovely idea... which i couldn't resist.

So coming to cleaning and mopping... Cleaning part with broomstick was fun... but then when i came to mopping i realised I could no longer sit down..... OMG I had become OLD....or my body was too rigid to take it in. I tried sitting in various angels but then mopping couldn't be done, so finally I came to the DOG's four legged position and began to mop. It was a hell of an exercise... I took 35 minutes to do a job which our kaamwali used to do in FLASH 3 minutes.

Now I'm in a confusion, should i stick to this schedule..I'm sure as days go by, body will become more flexible and may be I can finish the task in 5 minutes. Or should I go in for MODERN GADGETS and dump this system of sitting on the floor and mopping and loose all the benefits of doing excercise.....

Sometimes, no why sometimes..... ALLWAYS all of you friends on fropper have helped me.... so please advice me what should I do......

Finally made Roti's while trying to make sabji.. Once Roti's began to burn when I'm concentrating on sabji.... and then sabji began to burn when I'm concentrating on making ROTI... and children's shouting at the peak of their volume.. It's becoming Late PAAPU... elder one began to call me thus.. cos Mahatma Gandhi used to call his DAD thus... and the small one also followed and calls me PAAPU allways..

Well Ten minutes to leave for school and still TIFFIN is not packed, water bottle isn't filled, breakfast is not ready, Diary is not signed, Dress in not ironed, Bag is not packed, Shoe isn't polished. Tie isn't ready.... whew what more.............. The toughest JOB in the world... both daughter's Hairs are not combed..... I feel this as the tough job cos inspite of learning it from 3 ladies, still I haven't learned the trade SECRET. Somehow I feel this job is only meant for ladies.

Well now for solutions.. Phoned and called my driver... asked him to fill water bottle and Iron dress. Put the dress on them farst while driver was cooking and send them to nieghbour's house to TIE their hairs. Meanwhile Diary was signed, Tiffin was packed and breakfast was ready....

They came back and packed their BAGS and rushed to the car carrying their Breakfast.... somehow in this mess the shoe couldn't get polished.....

But it was real FUN and a Challenge at that and we made it to school 5 minutes before the bell RANG.....

A day tougher than the LIFE of warriors in KARGIL.....

Tags: rush, kaamwali bai, daily routine, widowed, bereaved, school, mop, clean, morning schedule, enjoy, fun, adventurous

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Aug 01, '08

Directory temples - Bangalore

Well friends for the first time I am sticking to my promise!!!

As promised my post on "SOMESHWARA TEMPLE"

Very old temple located in ULSOOR, Bangalore.
Allmost from class 4th to 10th we stayed in ULSOOR... so my childhood memories are linked to this temple... from learning cycling, to jogging to making girl friends... i still remember
when in 10th I had just tried talking to two girls who used to stay in our lane and got slapped...

Sorry for DEVIATING....
Well this temple was just half a Kilo meter from our home and allmost everyday evening i used to visit it in 9th and 10th... I still remember i'm not so strong beleiver in GOD but still the ambience of this temple is great. Particularly behind it... i used to sit for minimum half an hour chanting OM Bhurbhuvah.......silent atmosphere ... nobody to disturb........ well it was a luxury which I cud afford in my childhood... Now whenever i visit their will be some work linked after it and in around ten minutes I wind up....Imagine rushing thro' this temple spreading over at least 1 acre campus with atleast minimum 20 dieties....

Well I have posted some fotos here which I clicked last week....

History about this temple
(copied from NET)

There are several old temples in Halasuru, which are scattered throughout the area. The oldest
temple in Halasuru is the Someshwara Temple, built by the Hoysalas between the 12th and 13th
centuries. It was renovated and beautified by the Kempe Gowda I and II in the 16th century and is a mixture of Hoysala, Chola and Vijayanagara architecture.

The Someshwara Temple is one the oldest temples of Bangalore in Karnataka. Built during the Chola period, the Someshwara Temple, Bangalore is one of the most striking examples of ancient Indian architecture.
The Someshwara Temple, Bangalore is located in Ulsoor and was built by Kempa Gowda. This temple is symbol of the greatness of the Chola kings. The shrine is particularly known for its magnificent architecture. There are a large number of elaborately carved pillars inside the temple premise. The pillars are said to produce the sounds of musical instruments when tapped.
You can also take a look at the ancient scriptures inscribed on the walls. Some of the most striking features of the temple include the Rajgopuram or the temple tower and the
Dhwajastambha, which is huge pillar placed right in front of the temple.

Someshwara Temple in Bangalore is dedicated to Lord Shiva. The most amazing fact about this temple is that Lord Vishnu and Lord Brahma are also worshipped over here. This huge temple also houses the deities of Kamakshamma, Arunachaleswara, Bhimeswara, Nanjundeswara and Panchalingeswara. Numerous religious festivals are held inn this temple throughout the year.
Shivaratri Festival is one of the main festivals that is held over here. Large number of devotees come here to pour water on the 'Pancha Lingeswaras' and offer prayers to Lord Shiva. Other festivals that are held in the Someshwara Temple, Bangalore includes the Brahmostsav and the Kamakshamma Pallaki Utsav. During the Kamakshamma Pallaki Utsav, the idol of Goddess
Kamakshamma is taken out in procession in a palanquin around the temple. Special rituals and ceremonies are also held over here during Ugadi and Karthik Poornima. Other attractions of the
temple include the Ashwattha Katte, a huge banyan tree.

The Someshwara Temple, Bangalore is one of the most beautiful temples of the city. You can come over here and take a look at the amazing sculptures and carvings that beautify this Shiva
temple.

For more info visit:

http://www.bangalorebest.com/discoverbangalore/sightseeing/religion/temples/someshwar.asp http://mainsandcrosses.blogspot.com/2008/01/someshwara-temple-off-bazaar-street.html
http://www.flickr.com/photos/murali-art/sets/72157606408736610/

More fotos clicked by me:

Tags: shiva, temple, bangalore

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Jul 21, '08

FROPPER CONFUSION

It's quite funny... I dunno how others are managing it...... Just see if you can solve my problem.....

On a week day i can sit on fropper for only one hour......

Now these are my well researched practical STATISTICS

IN one hour

1) I can read 12 to 15 BLOGS and leave comments on them
2) I can give only HITS to 30 zones.... I need 2 minutes to see if any new blog is added...
3) I can leave scrap and give HITS to only 15 zones ...I need 2 minutes to see if any new blog is added..
4) I can search for 10 new friends matching my taste ...

Now my friends, my question is how can I increase my speed......

For if i give HITS, I miss reading BLOGS..... If I read BLOGS.... I miss giving HITS......... and somehow If i end up scrapping..........the whole world goes topsy turvy......... I am very
confused how are others coping up........

I think i have to find a part time employee to assist me in READING, giving HITS and commenting on BLOGS on fropper?????????????????????? ????????????????????????

PS: I forgot to add the most important thing: IF I have to create, edit and post my BLOG I take full 2 hours................ then in that case all the calculations misfire........ whom can I hit, where can I scrap...... forget READING BLOGS???????????????????

PLEASE GIVE PRACTICAL SOLUTIONS FRIENDS.......

Tags: reading, comment, fropper, zone, hit, time, confusion, blog, posting, writing

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Jul 15, '08

RELIGIOUS ORGANISATION DIRECTORY - INDIA

Dear Friends.....

I request you all to post all info about any religious temple or organisation you have been associated with.... If possible post the complete history of TEMPLE/ CHURCH/ MOSQUE/ GURUDWARA etc.. with one SNAP from out... Try to fish out as much info as you can from the priest, from NET and from your own grandparents or friends or relatives about the place and be as innovative as possible.....

Will start writing about SOMESHWARA TEMPLE, Ulsoor, Bangalore tommorrow. Any body else having any more info on this temple or any other temple in Bangalore please mail me... PLANNING to visit two temples a week and post all info about them....

Warm Regards
PK Shukla

PS: If anybody has come across any such book being published in India, please let me know.

Tags: temple, church, mosque, gurudwara, religion directory india

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Jul 03, '08

RELATIONS..... sometimes are worth CTRL+ALT+... DELETE

Sometimes your own blood relatives HARM YOU more than anything else....

Sorry friends i couldn't come online for various reasons --- primary being that i was disturbed by my own blood... i mean by my own younger brother....

Sometimes I feel that when as a male I am facing so many problems being a widow... which are much more than a hell, then what will happen to LADIES who become widow.....

Well enough of beating round the bush let's come straight to the point...

For friends who have not read all my BLOGS.... My wife passed away on DEC 1st 2007 due to multi organ failure arising out of CHRONIC KIDNEY failure....

I was the first to get her TESTS done in NOV 2005 and as per the TESTS ..... one KIDNEY did not grow to its required size due to some functional error in the body... so primarily she was BORN with a single Kidney from BIRTH....

Well two days back ie on TUESDAY my brother calls me and tells me I want to talk to you seriously... I thought something regarding my both daughters 11 years and 9 years old....

But then can you just imagine what he told me...... ARRRRRGGGGHHHH.... I cannot explain my feelings.......

HIS WORDS "DO YOU KNOW ONE THING........................ YOUR WIFE'S DAD SOLD HER ONE KIDNEY WHEN SHE WAS 10 YEARS OLD TO SOLVE SOME FINANCIAL CRISIS............."

Sadly he doesn't know that I have personally got all her tests done and still have all test reports which prove that SHE was born with ONE KIDNEY only........

ARE YOU ABLE TO UNDERSTAND MY FEELINGS.............. THIS THING DID NOT HURT ME COS I KNEW THE FACTS..... BUT THEN I HAVE BEEN DISTURBED FROM 2 DAYS THAT WHAT MADE MY BROTHER TELL ME THIS??????????????????????????????? WHAT ARE HIS INTENTIONS????

Inspite of opposition from my family I still visit my wife's dad regularly... common he has lost his daughter.... may be he wanted me to fight with FIL(Father in Law)....

I mean the more I think, the more I get confused.......................................

Can anybody help me............... Just tell me why did he tell me this??????????????

sorry friends will be more regular now.........................

Tags: family, bereaved, brother, love, relations, kidney, truth, lies, proof, facts, widow, life

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Jun 25, '08

AN ODE TO BEAUTIFULL COMMENTS.....

HI Friends I've been on FROPPERLAND for only 6 months.... and I'm treated like I've been here for
Decades........

Thanks everybody for treating me like a common friend NEXT Door....

Thanks everybody for such wonderfull comments.......

when I'm Blogging I'm totally focussed only on BLOGGING....
I'm not bothered if somebody leaves a negative comment... common why should I.....
AS many froppers admit.... NOBODY can HURT you except yourself...
Why should i feel hurt by anyody's COMMENT.... and stop writing what comes in my MIND....

I've learnt one thing in my LIFE..

Either do a thing or don't do it..
Either beleive in GOD or don't beleive totally...

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Suddenly I remembered an event which happened to me in Hastings, New Zealand...

After being there for 2 months I had made some Local friends(they are called Maori's)...
Very dangerous and Violent tribe.... But GOOD at HEART....

Few of the girls who had known me, invited me to a party on weekend.... As usual DRINKS are on sharing basis.... it was half past 12.00, everybody was on a high... Imagine I drink only socially and it never goes beyond 2 PEGS..

But that day in a JOLLY mood I had allready finished 5 pegs....

I think there were at least 50 friends there -- all in the age group of 15 to 25... and i was the eldest in the group...

Friends were dancing, smoking, light drugs... Some were drinking beer some... whisky, some gin.... and O my GOD for the first time in my LIFE i had seen GIRLS drinking soooooooooooooo oooooo ooo oooooo MUCH... One of the girls began by just adding water and then with an hour was drinking straight form a FULL BOTTLE( whisky bottle...not BEER)....

Just Imagine she finished the entire bottle without fainting.... And mind you DRINKS in NZ is pure to the CORE.... not like the HYBRID ones we get in INDIA.... can't understand which is original and which is DUPLICATE....

I mean it was a total Party scene.... Everybody was enjoying.....

One lady who was eyeing me from quite a long time.. saw that I have stopped drinking... I'm not dancing.... Then what the F*** am i doing here... She just came near me introduced herself and

"so you are from India.... you people beleive in GOD a LOT"

That was like a thunderbolt..... when somebody talks to me about GOD.. it makes me a SUPERMAN.....
I just told casually.... "If you beleive in anybody, if you have faith in anybody it should be total.. it should be complete..."

May be in the enthusiam my voice was a little LOUD... everybody stopped dancing... Allmost everybody was LISTENING to me....

I continued now with more JOSH(vigour)....

"Either you have total faith in GOD or don't have any at all... There is no middle path to GOD....

If you believe HIM then believe HIM 200%.... there is no scope for 10, 20, 40, 60, 80 or even
100%... You have to believe HIM beyond 100%...

Imagine your hands, your legs are all TIED to a very heavy weight and you are thrown in WATER....
what will you DO?..... everybody was just QUITE..
I AM ASKING YOU ALL____ What will you DO???

People murmured here and there... but nobody could tell a thing....

THAT's where GOD comes in..... Even if you are at that stage YOU have to beleive in GOD, that HE
will rescue you.... and have Faith 200%... Then see the miracle happening... GOD will LIFT you
UP...

THIS Is the way LIFE is to be taken.... IN the worst scenario.... GOD picks you up and makes you come out of everything.

But even GOD was a HUMAN being at one time... He also has emotions...
Just beleiving that GOD exists doesn't HELP... You have to beleive Him totally.... and that MEANS
going to CHURCH, temple, mosque or gurudwara at least weekly once.... common we have to BRIBE
HIM... only then HE will be of any help to you....

It's amazing how GOD solves your problem........

I'm giving you a simple technique.....

TRY it out it works....

Imagine you are suffering from any problem.... Finance problem, LOVE problem, marriage
problem..... or any complicated problem in LIFE.......

JUST sit silently and PRAY to GOD........ In the end after your prayers..... Just communicate to GOD as you communicate with a friend.... GOD I'm suffering from this problem.... YOU are allready
aware of it..... If I've done any mistake I'm sorry.... and I know very well that you forgive all
our mistakes.... Please solve my PROBLEM in 24 hours.......I'm frogetting about my problem now
and it is for you to solve it....

TOTALLY and I mean totally have faith in GOD and see how problem vanishes away in 24 hours... HE
has his own miraculous ways of solving a problem.......

BUT then you should have TOTAL faith in HIM.... Stop thinking about that problem from that very
moment you have left it to GOD.... For if you interfere in HIS way of doing things, and don't
have TRUST on HIM, problems don't get solved....

HAVE COMPLETE FAITH and I mean have 200% faith in HIM..... Never ever interfere when you have assigned a JOB to GOD....."

O GOD you should see the EMOTIONS on everybody's face.... It was as if we are all in a CHURCH and
everybody was standing as if they are praying to HIM!!!!!!

I just told common friends ENJOY........ and LEFT...... why should I spoil there weekend??!!!!

Tags: god, faith, travel, new zealand, prayer, weekend, enjoy, peg, smoke

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Jun 19, '08

Have a BLAST with TAG

Tagged by Bharathselvan, whirlwind2000, solarflare, manisha_bhattacharya and ....... WELL friends thanks a LOOOOOOT for tagging me( Frankly I was waiting for sooooo many days
to be tagged) - and at last the chance came......

The Naughty Tag (Game 1)

1. What is the first thing you notice about the opposite sex? Please no corny answers like his/her personality, we all know what we notice first :-)

Firstly when I see a female for the first time..... the whole BODY goes NUMB, mind is totally dumb..... now how do you expect me to DESCRIBE...
what I notice... when I'm myself not in NOTICE...

On the naughty side: Assets... common I dunno why is every body being so diplomatic??????

2. Who- of the opposite sex- would you want to be with if you were deserted on an island?

With Jacqueline - off course... My DREAM GIRL......

Whose father after 1.5 years told me not to show my face for the next 5 years till I've begun to earn....

And when Really I began to earn, I learnt that she is in USA..... She left me and ran away....

Never MIND....... CAN you come back NOW.... I'm still waiting for you.........

On the naughty side: with a Female Masseur from KERALA ----- sorry it's only a DREAM, and DREAMs need not ALLWAYS come true...

3. What turns you on about the opposite sex?

Caring behaviour, cracking JOKES on me....etc

On the Naughty side: Eyes, Lips, Hairs, smooth hands, nice figure hmmm I can't go on.....

4. What turns you off?

Well I don't find anything in a girl which can turn me off....

But then if you ask me to talk like a HUSBAND......

TURN OFFs---- Interfering in my JOB, my space... Defining what I shud be doing....
Being over pursuasive on matters which i'm lineant due to sooooooooooooooooooooo many Factors........ etc etc... well i don't want to bore you...

5. Some Fropperites have their real picture on the profile and some don't but just going by their blogs/ comments/ scraps who do you think is the hottest female (male bloggers answer this) and male blogger (female blogger answer this)?

HOTTEST, HOTTER, HOT.........
1) sweet-sarah
2) music_is_life_for_me
3) ajnabi2cool
4) daisyann26
5) Monalisa_gem
6) meher2007
7) Jess74
8) SuhasiniTAU
9) rosline
10) alamara 2000

I'll take one more week to add more in this......

Bookworm Tag (Game 2)

RULES
1. Grab the nearest book you have been reading. And yes, when I say BOOK… I do NOT mean Cosmopolitan… or Playboy… or even Playgirl magazines. I am asking for words… not pics…
2. Open page 123.
3. Find the fifth sentence.
4. Post the next three sentences.
5. Acknowledge the person who tagged you. (Bharathselvan,whirlwind2000,solarflare, manisha_bhattacharya tagged me)
6. Add the rules.

Here goes the book PART:

Universal's
MOTOR VEHICLES LAWS
2007 Edition... Price:Rs 340

Page 123.. A part of Chapter XII : CLAIMS TRIBUNALS

6TH SENTENCE:

169. Procedure and powers of Claims Tribunals-

(1) In holding any inquiry under section 168, the Claims Tribunal may, subject to any rules that may be made in this behalf, follow such summary procedure as it thinks fit.

(2) The Claims Tribunal shall have all the powers of a Civil Court for the purpose of taking evidence on oath and of enforcing the attendance of witnesses and of compelling the discovery and production of documents and material objects and for such other purposes as may be prescribed; and the Claims Tribunal shall be deemed to be a Civil Court for all the purposes of section 195 and Chapter XXVI of the Code of Criminal Procedure, 1973 (2 of 1974).

(3) Subject to any rules that may be made in this behalf, the Claims Tribunal may, for the purpose of adjudicating upon any claim for compensation choose one or more persons possessing special knowledge of and matter relevant to the inquiry to assist it in holding the inquiry.

Now the best part.....

I am tagging all the above HOT Zones and Latav2063, chinkspinks, Pooja_Gupta, Diya1992, chat3140, unny5152, zuveriya100, amit3385, truefrnd4ever, Cantonment2000, ds2101, jatinzones, unflappable, creativefront, Chitrajlp, CBT1, binduhu

DO PLAY THE GAME FRIENDS.... after all it's only a GAME

Tags: tagging, game, playboy, hot, playgirl

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