Jun 15, '09
The Will of being a Whore or the Conscience’s Cleaning Fair.
I am absolutely tired of always hearing the “convincing” opinion about the will of being a whore. People, we do not seem to know the great amounts of money that is invested in mass media, education and even politics, to create the absurd idea that this vast number of women “want” to be whores.
I ask myself, if there is equality, why is it that men “do not also want” to receive money for what they normally do? Are they be idiots? Or will it be that as women we are very avaricious? This idea of the “free will” washes very well the consciences, and money seems to magically end the psychological trauma of have been prostituted, not to mention what all of this is causing to the minds, everyday more sick, of men. I want to explain something about the free will of being a whore
(1): One thing is the free will of having sex. Sex is something wonderful, chemical, that comes from the animal necessity, from the pheromones, the lust, and all that physical desire of feeling someone who is driving us crazy and enjoy our pleasure in their pleasure. Therefore, what prostitution practices is not sexuality but genital encounter. The use of a comfortable container to relieve a masculine genital (not sexual) desire, NOT a feminine desire (genital or sexual), and here is where the inequality starts, because nobody would want to have sex with someone without desire, with someone whose smell does not have a single pheromone for us or that we do not feel attracted to, and then having to perform anything that we are asked to, without the right of expressing what we really like.
(2)... A man does not pay to ask if the whore would like to be fucked in her ass with his fist (I am sorry but this really happens and it’s called “Fist-Fucking”. I’m not going to put here any links of such disgusting practice but you can investigate it)
(3) : You pay to do whatever you want with that thing you paid for, that is no longer a woman but a paid commodity. Let’s not be cynical. Even if all prostituters were gentle, caring lovers: I bet despite the multi-orgasm capacity of women, none of them are having an orgasm based on the desire they have for their prostituter every time “sex” happens nor based on what they are performing on them. Who feels horny for 40 different people during a single day?
(4)... Let’s remember that the male model types are the ones who less need to pay for sex. So where does the taste for hunting, passion and erotic sensuality remain? The pleasant feeling of how much you like someone and the thousand flirting tricks you want to do to seduce that person and take her to bed? There is such amount of pleasure in this animal hunting that cannot ever be defended by those who defend prostitution. Once you give her a bill, the prostitute would have to go with whoever had paid for her. She would have to go with anyone: young, old, violent or with flaccidity. There’s nothing special in it, nothing exciting or wonderful. To be with a beautiful girl/woman to feel young or special… But wouldn’t she go with your friend also for the same money?
95)...Suddenly the humanity of sex is lost, even the animal side, because I have never seen a lion giving a hyena a piece of meet in exchange to fuck her. But let’s go back to the will of being whores. Of course there is a will of being whores. The same will of being a pedophile, of having sex with animals, there is will of thousands of million things. A lot of human beings have disorders and there are a thousand physical and psychological diseases. But saying that it is a normal behavior that women want to be whores is quite a sexist affirmation
(6)... We can put a magnifying glass to see how the prostitution world moves. We are going to see in detail the training of a prostitute, it is called "seasoning", because it is a preparation to make a woman to become a prostitute: because you are not born being a whore, as well as you are not born being a serial killer or a bank’s thief. And how do train a girl/woman to become a prostitute? It is not that these women suddenly have a chemical disorder that makes them to want sex anytime and every day with all the strangers crossing their way, and because of that it is easier to make prostitution their form of life to feed their necessity of sex and money (as it seems society and mass media made us believe). There are thousands of studies on this subject that anyone can look for on the Internet and common libraries. In order to lock up a girl/woman in the prostitution world pimps use several techniques that takes the girl/woman through the preparation or "seasoning"
(7)... The intention of this period is to break the will of the girl/woman, cracking her confidence, to make her feel lost and without knowledge of where to request help, coverall to break her desire to request aid. During this period the pimp isolates the girl/woman from her family and friends. Her identity can be changed and she can be taken from one place to another so she breaks all her previous ties and she gets the sensation that any possible tie is temporary and unstable. Then the dehumanization comes and the demoralization to destroy the self-esteem of the girl/woman and make her be full of fear to be easily manipulated by her pimps. In many cases the pimp has been her boyfriend for a while, using her love as a tool and turning the relationship in a chain of violence, fear, verbal abuses, creating the typical dynamic of domestic violence taken to a prostitution field
(8)... But the total control and power over a human being’s will is not gained just by “threats” not the self-esteem can be destroyed by “an insult”. We are speaking about innumerable amounts of abuses towards that girl/woman, and not only to be locked up, tied, without food or without being able to clean herself up. We are talking about daily beatings, humiliations, rapes by the pimp, his friends and the guys who have her locked up, multiple rapes and mistreats of all types. As if this were not enough, pimps can use drugs on her and threats against her family and loved-ones. And this is just to check on the case of common girls/women because we cannot forget that the immense majority of these people have been previously abused or/and raped at their own houses or they have a history of sexual abuse, they have familiar and economic problems, so their seasoning is part of their circle of suffering… The pimp makes a slight turn in his attitude and he “promises” to take care of the girl/woman if she does everything he says, knowing she is already at the point of trauma that he needs her to be to prostitute her at his will, knowing that she will not have the guts to escape. Let’s add that she probably does not have any ID or documents and will probably have a partial or total lack of dominium of the language, a debt contracted with her aggressors and overall a deep fear. It is not so difficult to discover the defenselessness in these people who are in a legal limb, isolated from the society, without social shelter because regularized or not, they will always have the stigma of being whores
(9)... And to avoid another page of explanations, I invite you to make your own research on the Post Traumatic Stress Disorder that the devastating majority of prostitutes suffer in levels that triple the levels of the Syndrome in the survivors of military tortures on war
(10)... Perhaps is because all of this that organizations like the United Nations "consider that in the immense majority of the cases, the freely chosen prostitution does not exist"
(11)... But it is not necessary to have much intelligence to realize that the world is full of corruption and that is much more comfortable to remain with crossed arms than to do something, overall because those are things that we see far away from us, those things we do not think that can happen to us nor to our families:
(12)...But to remain silent, to accept or to promote the use and abuse of girls/women is perhaps the reason why the world has an unequal structure of base, where the dignity of our fellows is not respected, where sexuality so calmly becomes a commercial transaction without pleasure for the feminine side and where it is learned that women are disposable while men have rights to abuse that remain in time, rights to abuse that prevail over the worse form of present slavery. To try to make this to seem normal is an atrocity, but we are asleep in front of reality, because, like lambs, they have made us think that this is inevitable.
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