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Life : As I see it



Mar 29, '07



We are free citizens with full freedom to move and speak, yet telephone companies promptly disconnects our lines after last date of bill payment :-)) I received an interesting text message on my mobile - ` A guy goes to police and complains - they are threatening me to pay money or they will cut!!' Police was alarmed `Who they, are they threatening to cut you?' `They call me every month and tell me to pay or they will cut my telephone line.' These SMS messages can be quite funny and we receive a lot from phone companies, family and friends. If bought in package they are cheap too. My phone company was offering 2000 messages per month @ Rs.20 (USD 0.44) now it has increased the rate to Rs.28 (USD 0.62). This is only for national SMS for sending messages to other countries we still have to pay at least Rs. 5 (USD 0.11) per message. I was one of the first to make good use of cheap messages in the city. I made a list of 60 good people in the city and started sending them a spiritual and inspiring message every morning. Many of them were not known to me and after a few days some of them called back to know who was sending them messages. Nobody told me to stop bothering, they found it good :-). It went on for a while and then I was busy in other things. Later I found other people making good use of cheap messages. A social institution in the city which used to send paper communication to its members for regular meetings and functions started sending messages. Good change, it will save some precious paper and greenery.
Now a day one of my cousins has got the SMS fever. He keeps sending messages to all at any time. With few extra pegs he can send message at 12 in night or 4 in the morning too :-)) Day before yesterday his message was amusing `Small people talk of money, big people talk of time, great people do not talk at all ...... they just send message ;)'

I don't think I am great or anything like that but I also used to send a lot of messages. Life of a common man is always better then great people. We don't need bodyguards, can eat-drink normally without any fear, can be seen anywhere and nobody cares if a little thing goes wrong. Here are some messages which are still on my handset others were saved on PC and as things always happen with electronics especially computers, they were wiped off.

1. Tamas is andhakar (darkness), giving and getting pain is Tamas. Its most binding, keep away from it to get Mukti

2. Rajas is sensual pleasure with no caring. Pleasure followed by pain is Rajas, it also binds.

3. Satav is giving and getting pleasure. It highest of three- Satav, Rajas and Tamas. It purifies the heart and has least bondage.

4. Gunatit is getting away from all three - Satav, Rajas & Tamas. When there is no like or dislike, nothing bothers, all is acceptable as wish of God, then we become gunatit and get deliverance.

(Human nature is broadly classified into three categories - Satav, Rajas and Tamas. Eatables are also classified like this. These are called three gunas or nature of thing/person. Guna+atit (getting away from something) state is calming, relaxing and deeply nourishing.)

5. God has all the gunas yet he is gunatit. In doing any karma God has no ego or attachment. When we try to be gunatit we feel peace and are near to Him.

6. God is omnipresent; love lets us see Him everywhere.

7. Puja (worship) is offering to God, prathana (prayer) is demanding from God. When we pray by offering all our karma and even ourselves to God, the prayer fruitifies.

8. God, you are first of all, supreme, the best- I bow to you. You are life, death, air, water, fire, universe, you are all - I bow to you thousand times from all directions.

9. `Mera aapki kripa se sab kaam ho raha hai, karte ho tum kanhaya mera naam ho raha hai' - O God! All my works are being done by your grace, you do all things and the credit goes to me. When God obliges us so much we should also try to do something to say a `Thank you God :)'.

10. Comforting Wealth comes by good work, by wisdom it increases, cleverness stabilizes it and by patience it is preserved.


Few spiritual messages which I received from others :

1. Life without God is L-onely, I-nsecure, F-ull of doubt, E-mptiness ; Life with God is L-ife changing, I-nspiring, F-ull of hope & E-nthusiam

2. I pray to God to give you shanti (peace), shakti (power), sampati (wealth), swarup (self-realization), saiyam (patience), saadgi (simplicity), safalata (success), samridhi (prosperity), sanskaar (good habits), swaasth (health), sanmaan (reputation), saraswati (knowledge) and sneh (affection), Have a nice day :-)

3. Prayer teaches us to wait; it clears our vision; it calms our heart; and it activates our faith. Grow like the sunshine and be humble like the sunset.

4. Read this - GODISNOWHERE. What did you read? God is no where or God is now here! Just a beautiful way to say `Life is how you see it. Have a nice day.

Funny & other stuff from others :

1. I like you, I like you, I really like you, I like you very much, I really like you, because it is written in all holy books..... Hate the sin not the sinner :-))

2. If you delete this message cause you love me. If you save this that's cause you desire me & if you ignore it that's cause you miss me. So what you gonna do with IT? ;)

3. Good friend is like a computer, Enters your life, save you in heart, format your problems, shift you to opportunities & never delete you from his memory.

4. Marriage of Mobiles : INVITATION - `Marriages are settled in heaven but celebrated on earth' Mrs. & Mr. NOKIA cordially invite you on the occasion of marriage of their son 6600 with SONY ERICSON daughter of Mr. MOTORALA. You are requested to please send SMS to our mobile no. 123456 on this auspicious occasion with family. Compliments from: Nokia 3120 (bro), Nokia 7610 (uncle), Nokia 5110 (grand father) & all Nokia family. Kids line - `Please do send SMS on my uncle's marriage'- MOT-C385

5. Merry X-mas, Njoy new year, Happy Easter, Gud Luck on Valentine & Happy B'day. Now bug off & don't annoy me 4 nxt 12 months!!

6. B4 marriage - Roses are red, violets are blue, ur beautiful, I love you. After marriage - Roses are dead, I'm blue, ur getting on my nerves, someday I'll kill you :-))

7. Terrorists have abducted all politicians and are demanding 5 million or they will kill and burn them. Please contribute. I have contributed 5 gallons!!

8. A man boarded a bus with 40 kids. When asked `Are they yours?' He said 'No, I have a contraceptive manufacturing factory and they are customer complaints!'

9. `Hello' means H- Have you missed me, E-Everything alright?, L-Like to be with you, L-Like to see you, O-Obviously I miss you, Just wanted to say Hello :-).








Mar 28, '07



Moderate aspirations lead to a contended life. `I don't have to buy the airplane and I can't drive the tank!!', Quipped Vinod Bira. He is oldest in all cousins. In 70's and 80's he was like an icon and doing excellently, always on the cloud nine :) In between life posed some problems, as is the case with most people, now again he is leading a contended life. Sometimes years passes before we can meet relatives. Marriage and death are two main incidents on which relatives mostly meet. We have a lot of words for relations in India like Chacha-Chachi, Taya-Tayi, Bua-Fufar, Mama-Mami, Masi-Masar, Dada-Dadi, Nana-Nani, Bhai-Bhabhi, Behan-Jija, Sala-Sali-Salehar, Kuram-Kuramani, Sadu, Devar-Devrani, Jeth-Jethani, Nanan, Bhatija-Bhatiji, Bhanja-Bhanji etcetera etcetera :). These words make the life more vibrant. Poor English language :( it has only uncle-aunt, grandfather-grandmother, nephew-niece, in-laws and out-laws :-))

We all have our low and high moments. A man was feeling quite low and an old pal of his decided to give him some emotional boost. He bought two tickets for air travel and took his sad friend with him to the air plane. As the sad friend had never boarded the plane before so the happy friend thought the new experience would enlighten him. They were quite early and boarded the plane before anyone else was there. They could see and hear the other planes taking off and landing from there. After some time the sad friend said, `Hey Pal! Don't you think we should get a plane which flies?' Happy friend, 'This plane will fly, there's some time left.' `Are you sure?' `Yes 100% dead sure.' The sad man was feeling quite low. Like a true philosopher he did not have enough money to get a good shave at saloon, how could he board the plane. `Hey buddy! We don't have the money, if the plane crew gets to know this they'll throw us out.' Happy friend was again consoling, 'Why do you worry dear, we have the tickets and we have already paid for them.' Sad friend was still worried, `Are you sure the tickets are not fake?' The happy friend was good at motivating, inspiring and shagging up the dead spirits. `Come on dear always try to see the positive side of life, if you look positive you get positive.' In some time sad friend's spirits soared so did the plane. The panoramic view out of the window was excellent. Happy friend was still inspiring the sad friend, `Look dear you are the best man in life, never feel low about life or anything, everything belongs to you.' The sad friend was getting delighted now. He was looking at the most beautiful air hostess and said dreamily, `Are you sure she belongs to me, it's like a dream come true, I can't believe.' :-))) `Hey man, I mean to say life belongs to you and this short air travel is yours, what you looking at is a dream for me too' :-(. Hope the happy friend was not sad after this travel :-)).








Mar 28, '07



Here I am sitting with closed eyes
Feeling the life and vibrations all around
In depths somewhere I feel a tiny spot
The point of a needle, the particle of sand can be bigger
I want to know what is it and why so vast
My body becomes heavy and senses amazed
Should I run away or just keep my gaze
It fills me and I become its tiny part
Knows not where it starts and ends where
My hands become too tiny to touch it
Feelings of vastness comes along
Am I feeling the universe and its expanse?
Is it the universe or just a wishful experience?








Mar 26, '07



Smile is the best expression of humans. I have rarely seen dogs smile, perhaps buffaloes never smile, hippopotamus don't know how to smile, crows would never like to smile and an average bald, fat, bespectacled, farting boss has nothing to do with smile. Smile is the best jewel of personality. Costly hair cuts, facials, massages, anti-wrinkle keep-young creams can make us some attractive but smile alone makes us all the more attractive. Fewer face muscles movements are required for smiling than frowning. It gives joy to our heart and friendly feelings to others. When you look smilingly at others they also smile back. If you look smilingly at others many times but never get smiles back then others can safely be assumed as chronically constipated. Beware of this assumption for yourself, keep smiling :)

Moral of the writing is: "Brush your teeth daily for a good smile :)








Mar 25, '07



Are you depressed? Confused about purpose of life and your own existence? As a kid I used to have bouts of depression for days. Meditation and chants were helpful but not a cure. Being fed up of these cycles I decided to have a final fight with myself. Fighting with self!! Why not? If we can live in harmony with self, we also have a full right to fight ourselves as well. I gripped myself from neck and asked, "What's your problem man?" I got no answer. "Then why are you bothering me? Don't mess up with me." As the self was confused so it had no answer. If you are also bothered like that, I am sure you also won't get any answer. You will get answer? But Dear! You will be answering your questions yourself; the answers won't be coming from your self. We think about things and circumstances, ponder over them necessarily or unnecessarily and feel bothered. When I asked my self why it was bothering me it did not answer. I assumed that I was acting sternly and it was too scared to respond. It's also part of my existence and requires same attention as is given to ego! Instead of gripping from neck, it was better to hold its hand while strolling and give it comfy feelings. Talking with self can be of much help. Later I realized that it is not self which bothers, instead we bothers ourselves and involve the self in it. The solve I found for problems was fairly simple. First of all I accepted the fact that `I am pure, undiluted, have no wrong intentions, knowingly or unknowingly not doing anything which goes against spirit of life. At second stage I realized my existence in present moment. What is present is real, past is gone, future is hopes or fears. What I am doing or thinking in present is important for me. If something wrong was done to me or by me in past then only its effects can be tackled in present, nobody can go to past and undo what has been done. If I am thinking of future then the way goes from present. Present conduct shall mould the future to a great extent. Best way to get away from negative feelings and emotions is to involve ourselves without getting involved. It comes by practice and is beneficial for our health; be it physical, mental, emotional or spiritual.