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Topic: What do girls really want with friendship?  
jackbliss_CHRiS



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09 May 2009 11:38 am  #1
The latest trend that girls are starting is they want friendship with boys online or offline. I don't understand this.

Most of my friends are other boys, and most of the girls I know have friendship with girls only. I do have some friends who are girls but I've known them for years and years and in time they became real friends, but it's just not possible for a girl and a boy to meet online and suddenly become friends over night just because we share similar interests.

You can even love at first sight, but can you become friends at first sight? Don't be foolish girls and expect to become friends with many boys and maintain some kind of collection. After your marriage can you still be expected to be friends with a boy?

So all these girls who are contacting me for friendship PLEASE know I don't become friends with anyone just like that. I have guys who are willing to risk their life to save me and I would do the same for them. THAT is friendship. Not this bull chatting online now and then disappearing.

Remember true friendship is far more deeper than love and more pure as well.
 
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vatsyayana1967



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30 Jul 2009 02:29 am  #2

lol. Not sure what you are looking for my friend, but if it is eventually to find a female for some sort of meaningful long term relationship, you will need to start with friendship.


In your position, at your age, I'd actually be honoured to have ladies ask for my friendship, quite honestly.


I am 42 now, (was your age a long time ago) and have lived half my life in India and half in the west. If there is one thing I learnt after coming to the west, it is that in India, young people of opposite sexes do not learn to treat each other as friends before jumping into more 'committed' relationships. Back in the 80's and 90's there were no such options like online friendships. I wish there had been.


I for one would have been more appreciative of such options and I'd have learnt to understand women sooner in my life Very Happy


 


 
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Unikorn
Hyderabad , India
Male 34

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31 Jul 2009 01:58 am  #3
Hi Jackbliss!

2 thumbs up to U! You hit the nail right on it's head with this topic.
This question.........Why did'nt it occur to me

A wishful thinking that...... this also puts the last nail in the coffin..........let's bury this constant ranting abt. "just here for friendship-wendship" ....by every  tom, dick n harry (the female version please--- i just don't know)!

The questions u raised are as innocent as you appear in ur pic.
I read ur earlier posts....they were so earthy.

U do desrve a good understanding girl.

I must say that this is the best post I came across so far at  fropper.

Keep posting!

To the spiritful

Shar...



 
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shekar4evrlasting
Melbourne , Australia
Male 26

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30 Aug 2009 08:02 pm  #4
man i always click the threads started by you. there is so much distress in all of ur posts ... chill out ...
 
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somashekarp
Bangalore , India
Male 24

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05 Oct 2009 05:24 pm  #5

See, as per my experience girls always want boys who don't question them like -


where will you go ?


what did you do last weekend?


with whom were you when i call you?


or such things, they prefer men, who really doesn't care about their free time and spend their pocket by closing their eyes....


 
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Mysteryknight
Thiruvananthapuram , India
Male 25

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04 Nov 2009 08:24 pm  #6
Hmmm...yeah i do agree we cant find th same level of understandin n companionship wth gals as we get frm guys...!! whn wth guys we can be ourselves to th core n be really wild n uninhibited which is nt so oftn wth gals...except fr some rare exceptions...!! n as far as online friendship is concerned i feel its more abt findin a suitable partner who is a gud friend also...!! i think thr is an untold mutual understandin betwn all th gals n guys who become frnds online ie wht i feel...!! n here evrybody can eb themselves both boys n gals as thy get some identity cover n fact tht thy r talkin to relative starngers...!! so its upto us to decide wethr we need true frndship / frndship tht can lead on to sumthingelse....!! Smile
 
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VAMBANAAR
Tiruppur , India
Male 61

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05 Nov 2009 11:22 am  #7



Its very easy to say about the girls of present lifestyle and modern trend,

that they want active guys and do the things without delay.   

Whenever they share pizza and coke the guy should not hesitate to pay the bill.  

Whenever they got a privacy  without any hesitation he should  kiss the girl with good affection and love  to share the love with her.

He should take her to  some more convenient place to explore physical pleasures without the knowledge of anybody. 

He should always keep in touch with her without a break and continue it until the marriage.

 
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