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Topic: What Attracts a Woman - Money or Love ?  |
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 18 Nov 2009 10:08 pm | #61 |
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well, as a personal experience its a fact that female are really true lovers but at the end of the day they will give up everything when they see money.......
so i think....and what i hv experienced is that its all abt the money
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| 19 Nov 2009 07:52 am | #62 |
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Author : shafirocks
..... its a fact that female are really true lovers but at the end of the day they will give up everything when they see money.......
I believe the "day" ends officially around 11:59 PM. I bet many men will (and lots do) be willing to give up everything (including money) when they see a woman who is not a true lover. In fact a very pretty young fropper lady in Delhi told me that on a New Year eve do in a hotel a guy offerred her Rs 1 Lac if she would celebrate New Year with him in private. She also confided in me that money was passing hands between her dad and the maid servant her age when her mom was away on BUSINESS. AND believe it or not she also said something FREELY (without beng interviewed) that would have given Sigmund Freud ( and many experimental psychologists) the gooose pimples. She said "I wish he would do it to me so we could both get it out of our system". I then acquainted her with the mysteries of the so-called "Electra complex" - suppressed sexual attraction on the part of a girl child for the father. I am pleased to say she "got it out of her system" without committing any offence. She then said to me "I want love and sex for two years then I wil have an arranged marriage". I asked her "what happens if you FALL IN LOVE WITH ME, considering I am as old as your dad?". Jokingly, I said to her that since we were both Punjabi KHATRIS maybe her mom and dad will overlook the age difference. She then admitted quite honestly that she had never thought about falling in love in that kind of relationship.
Rest assured there was no question of any money passing hands between us. Of course, they all like to what they call "ENJOY LIFE" and unfortunately, unless she is willing to be your ACTIVITY PARTNER in yogabhyas, meditation, poetry reading, tarot etc YOU NEED MONEY.
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| 20 Nov 2009 10:47 am | #63 |
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The need of any two people can never be same so u can not generalize it for woman. As far as love is concerned every human needs to be loved and money is indispensable need to sustain life. Here also question arises whether woman is in a dependent role or an independent role .Now every one needs love irrespective of being male or female .If we want to be loved, we must disclose ourselves. If we want to love someone, he must permit us to know him. This would seem to be obvious. Yet most of us spend a great part of our lives thinking up ways to avoid becoming known. Indeed, much of human life is best described as impersonation. We are role players, every one of us. We say that we feel things we do not feel. We say things we did not do. We say that we believe things we do not believe. We pretend that we are loving when we are full of hostility. We pretend that we are calm and indifferent when we are actually trembling with anxiety and fear. Of course we cannot tell even the people we know and love everything we think or feel. But our mistakes are nearly always in the other direction. Even in families -- good families -- people wear masks a great deal of the time so its is eventually obvious that some woman accept this reality and need money only some need love only money may not be that much essential and some even feel it a wastage to need love and become independent for money in spite of demanding it from anyone .its all circumstantial and as per ones experience
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