These days when relationships look like joke ...i wondered if love really exists ...?most peoples are interested in short term relationships and fun . most of the resturants is filled with guys/girls dating each other . In this world where loosing virginity and extramarital relationships looks more common and marriges are becoming meaningless i was questing myself that does love exists in this world ... ? Even though i never had any past relationship or not even dated a girl in my life .. i felt i need to do that because i have achieved my carrier goals ..so my friends suggested me to get a girl friend from anywhere and start enjoying ......but i felt today these things are just not for me .i am kinda sensitive person , and any short term relationship would probably hurt me more than giving me fun ... I found that i need someone to love ... (i will get one if i will be lucky but if not sure arrange marrige is an option too)...... ofcourse i can tell you countless cases of short term relationships where girl boys meet , date have fun and then marry to someone else ....but these days i found cases of true love that i think i should discuss here , so that peoples who donot believe in love or lost faith from relationships may need to reconsider it ...
Yesterday i was at my friend's house , i heard a voice of crying from upstairs .....We just moved up and seen ... a guy ( he was known to me but was a good friend of my friend) lying on the ground and crying loudly....We were all amazed what happened to him ...We got to talk to him .. and asked for reason of crying ... he first did not tell us in hesitation but later on we found that someone was following his girl friend ( proposing /teasing his girl friend) .. He was very upset from it .. Ok he was not from our city but was a guy of small town ....First of all i amazed whats the reason to cry .. if someone else has proposed your girl friend .. Ask your girl friend to deny thats simple ...but crying like this ? whats the point .? ok after some time that guy left .. Then i talked about that guy to my friend and asked what was the matter ... He told me that dude (the one who was crying) is in true love .... I said comeon , true love and in 2007 ...just forget it ..may be he is crazy ...But then he told me actually the girl he loves is from different cast due to which this guy did not marry her yet....but still i said it cant be love ...He told me that guy did not even look at other girl from last 6 yrs .He ofcourse did not even meet to his girl friend from last six years and they just talk on phone to each other once a week (without telling their parents) ... He told me his love is beyond our thinking ...He is spending all of his life just thinking about her ...I also found that guy is working 18 hrs a day to convince parents of girl to agree for marrige ....Well i have to agree with my friend .. because i saw a true true love in that guy eyes ... He just left everything .. every pleasure of life with a single hope of marrying to his girl friend .... It was first moment of my life when i felt yep love do exists in this crazy world .....
Also today i see a documentry .(A true story) , Which explains love exists ... It was a story of a man Named as Jame ,His wife Juiliana and new born baby Carter ...The couples decided to move from one american state to another .... . So they were going by car but accidently lost the way and reached to hills full of snow ... it was a land with no men ( america is very big and places like alaska where snow exists its hard to find other peoples .. thousands of kilometer land exists with no population at all).So they lost in vain .. After reaching at unknown place their car's fuel vanished and there was no food for them ... the temprature was very very low .It was near to impossible for them to survive in such a vain without help of anyone ...But after waiting for few days in car when they did not get any help , they decided to find a way themselves by walking ...But it was very cold their .. And it was not safe to bring new born baby(or very young baby may be of few days or month older) with them..But they just cant leave kid alone in the car . So they just put the kid in the bag closed it from upperside (with little space to let oxygen enter). They were tired and hungry like hell .., The only way to survive was hold the ice in mouth for few minutes and wait it to turn into water ...So they just walked to find a highway to get help .. After walking lot of kilometer's .. walking continuously whole day and nigh both of them were fealing tired ..and they both were just too much worried about the baby ...,...So they were just going to die if continuously walk like this.. So Jame ask juiliana to stay in a cave they found until he find a way or some sort of help ... ofcourse juiliana loved jame .. but she was worried about baby too .. So she decided to stay in cave ...Noone of them have eaten anything from number of days ...So juiliana was unfortunately not able to walk anymore so that was the reason to stay in cave too ....So Jame loves his wife and new born baby , so he decided to take risk and go and keep walking until he donot find any help .....Jame walked 6-7 days continuously .. He was about to die ... but only thing that keep him surviving was the love .. He was just imagining one thing ... no matter if i die .. i will be very happy god if you save my kid and wife ..The only thing that kept him alive in vain ,and in lot cold wave , the only one desire to save his wife and kid ....... On the other hand juiliana was getting more and more week ... However she was continuously breastfeeding the kid even if she was very weak and did not eat anything from lot of weeks .but she still continously tried to breastfeed her kid to keep him alive ...She even made a wound in her own body and drink blood so that her body can make enough milk to keep her baby alive .....
So it was just love ...
Jame loved his wife and kid ...So did not care his own life to find help for his kid and wife ...
Juiliana did not care her life ... and cared her baby 's life ,,,.. she just survied cause she had trust on Jame ...
Luckily Jame found a town and managed to get help from other peoples .. They also found juiliana later on with help of helicopter ....However both Jame and Juiliana had to undergo surgery where they both had to loose their foot finger's because of walking on the ice for number of weeks ....However kid Survived ....At finally when media contacted them and asked about incidence and their feelings ...They said We both have lost our finger's (of foot) but Still we are very happy because ..We managed to save our new born kid ......
So just imagine .....how jamie was willing to loose his life for juiliana and Carter . and how juiliana supported decision of jamie and also willing to loose her life for Carter ...
So that is love ...When you care someone more than you and your life ...When you ate willing to loose life /money/or anything for happiness of your loved once .........Well the person like me who always thought that love is useless thing in this world , now believes that it is the most beautiful thing of thing world ... It is the only thing that can give you power to fight any situation in this world .......
Well i will wait for my angel , i will wait for someone who can love me ...
and if you are reading it , i pray a life full of love for you ...
Thanks

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