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Posted on: Feb 28, '08


 The Spirit of Mumbai



We hear the term a lot, don’t we? What I find perplexing is that It takes on a different connotation each time I hear it. 

When there was a flood, it was this spirit which came to the fore in the form of the populace not permitting the flood to drown its fighting spirit… in the way stranger helped and encouraged each other. In the way people looked out for each other. I found that amazing. What cohesion, I thought. 

When there were bomb blasts, this spirit came to the fore in the way the city bounced back unperturbed- despite the terror of the unknown. The spirit made people stand taller and to refuse to make way for terror in their midst. It was business as usual in less time than I thought possible. What courage, I thought. 

They talk of Amchi Mumbai. The funny thing about it that there is no other city whose inhabitants have coined such a term- or speak it with such pride. Even funnier is that when I hear the phrase Amchi Mumbai pronounced in the silence of my mind, I feel as fiercely proud of Mumbai as any Mumbaikar- which I am not. 

The first time I felt this way was about 14 years back. I was on a visit to the metropolis- for the fist time. It was to take my mum-in-law for a confirmation of diagnosis at Tata Memorial. It got confirmed. She kept asking me how it was possible that her body was busy plotting against her for so many years and she never came to know. She couldn’t understand the betrayal. To this day, I cannot either. Not the betrayal of her body, but that of God. I need to have that issue out with HIM one day. One more issue I guess I should say… for there are many. 

I think that was the time this Amchi Mumbai phrase was being bandied about a lot- in any case it was my first encounter with it. I read it in one of the afternoon papers on that trip. When I read it, I felt a thrill go through me. Suddenly I felt as if Mumbai belonged to me too. It changed my perspective about the city a bit. I was no longer the outsider trying to look in- I was inside too. Until then it was this teeming, incomprehensible, impossibly HUGE place that intimidated me. I had seen all these hurrying, smart people, these massive buildings, the amazing traffic and the mind-numbing number of people… and I had freaked out. Then I read Amchi Mumbai splashed across a newspaper in huge letters. I pronounced it silently in my head. It reassured me. I lifted my gaze from my feet and began to look around. In that moment, my fascination with the term began. Amchi Mumbai. Amchi. I patted myself on the chest. Mine. Oh Brother….! 

From the feeling-at-home feeling of Amchi Mumbai to the pride of Amchi Mumbai feeling took some years. But I have been feeling it off and on. Every time I have come in contact with the metropolis, I have had a dose of it poured down my throat. Until now just reading the phrase Spirit of Mumbai ignites me like a thousand watt bulb. Unnerving? Yes, but I love it so…!! 

I feel uneasy around any causeless emotion. So I was truly uncomfortable feeling the way I was feeling. There was no reason on earth why I should feel so buoyant remembering a city I didn’t even like- truth be told. I guess I am a putting-labels-on-things kind of a nut. I like knowing my world thoroughly. I like putting everything in its place… Here was something which defied definition. I didn’t know which pigeon-hole to put it into. What is it I thought? 

Is it the sheer alive-ness of the city? This is the most happening city in India. It is always alive- never sleeps. There is something going on all the time. It caters to such a wide variety of tastes. There is nothing you cannot do here. The ways and means are all there... if you look long- and hard- enough. There is so much to do, to see and to experience. 

You can be as conservative as you want to be and as whacky as you dare. There is a strange impersonal-ness to the city which in a way is reassuring. It gives me a feeling of freedom that I never imagined possible. When there I get the feeling that whatever I do, I need do it only for one reason- because I want to do it….! Wow…! 

Or is it the people? On an average the people are humane and help you when you are in trouble. They’ll patiently give you directions for 15 minutes without batting an eyelid. Then they resume their the-world- is – coming – to – end – in – the – next – 10second- so-I - had- better – rush routine. I love that hurried, harried look they have on their faces all the time. When I see them rushing to catch their locals in the morning, catching a sandwich at the Church Gate underground, I wonder how they have the energy left to work all day. They are so disciplined and so strangely honest. They are up-beat and enthusiastic. Their spirit is tremendous... and infectious. 

Or is it the fact that it is a city of opportunity…? So much is possible here. In this city you can be what you want to be… nothing can hold you back but you. It is THE place for an entrepreneur. Imagine Mumbai without the dabba-walas… delivering food like a clock-work whether flood, rain or bombs. Innovativeness is a by-word. I am amazed at the variety of services available in the city. There seems no end to money making opportunities there. The city is a haven for home-businesses. 

The one thing that I adore is that there is such tremendous respect for a good worker. I haven’t seen that kind of pride of performance in any other city. This pride is the cornerstone of the Mumbai work-force. They know they are as good as anyone on earth- because they are experts in their jobs. There a small restaurant I went to long back with my ex. It was run by Muslims and we happened to go on a Friday- lunch time. The place was packed. And I was the only woman there. The owner- a grey haired old gentleman- made room for us next to his counter and took our order. He didn’t quite like dish we chose, so he told us quietly that we have to eat what he will choose. He said it so lovingly. There was no way I could not agree. He was treating us like his special, personal guests. My ex was none too happy. But I just LOOKED at him…! When the food was brought, by the owner, it was so delicious I can still taste it. When I told him how tasty it was, he agreed- not only proudly- but also casually. As if to say- why are you surprised? It is the Spirit of Mumbai to display extraordinary performance in a to- be- taken- for- granted- manner. 

I have come to the conclusion that the Spirit of Mumbai is nothing but a people's celebration of their life, of their ability to achieve, of their RIGHT to achieve.

Spirit of Mumbai…? Or Spirit of Achievement…? You tell me... they seem identical to me... and I love it.







Tags: mumbai, fighting spirit, insipiration, achievement, opportunity




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MyZoneCAN said:
Resilience is an important characterestics, no doubt! But, need to avenge is equally important...I am not talking about 'an-eye-for-an-eye" sort of revenge! I am talking about routing out the inept, corrupt and impotent politicians from the seats of power! I am sure whole of India would be resilient!!

November 28, '08


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Ledzep said:
somehow what comes to mind when i review the endless visuals i've watched these past hours isn't the spirit of mumbaikars...

it is the shoddyness on display. ill-equipped cops and rescue personnel... morally bankrupt politicians who yet cant let go of divisive ideologies...

surely we as a people need to vehemently declare this unacceptable. only then can we deserve any better!

November 28, '08


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ladyinred17 said:
Mumbai, the city of dreams, now under a terrorist seige. Over a hundred dead, hundreds injured....yet again, once more, as usual, the authorities have been caught napping. Agreed, one cannot predict such attacks, but atleast we can have a crisis management plan? atleast the politicians can unite and agree on some issue and not make this a game? there is more unity amongst the terrorist outfits it seems.
Hope things come under control soon.may the souls of those who have gone, rest in peace.

I have not spent much time in Mumbai, but did get the feel, atleast some o could identify with. Its a safer city than the capital, one can be out as late as one wants and here in delhi, one wd think twice.

Nice read, Dagny. tc.

November 27, '08


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sazzyme said:
i think ds..last time i read this blog..i talked bout the 'die hard' spirit...i was touting bout it i guess..(didnt go over the previous comment this time)
but honestly...i am darn shaken..in the face of such mindless act atrocity ds..

nuthing blo**y nuthing is holy to these **&^% pardon my choice of words.

am with mumbaikars,egging em on..THIS TOO SHALL PASS





as for the recycling act sistah...old wine,(well prsevered that is) old friends..SOME older blogs.....u get the idea na...

November 27, '08


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November 27, '08


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eternalessencefoever said:
I am a mumbaikar n feeling awful since yesterday.

Lived all over but nothin like AMCHI MUMBAI..
Even the gush of polluted air the min the aircraft door opens smells familair n heavenly!

It was such a safe n cosmopolitican city but now are the testing times.

Mumbai will surely rise ans bounce back with full spirits...

The phrase newsreaders use.."MUMBAI KA ZAZBA"
lately I wonder if its the spirit or the people have become so immune to the anti social activities arnd that it doesnt matter any more?Life goes on as usual the very next day..

A great write up!!!!!

November 27, '08


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harsh7901 said:
'There is a strange impersonal-ness to the city which in a way is reassuring. When there I get the feeling that whatever I do, I need do it only for one reason- because I want to do it….! Wow…!'...
me is so unhappy b'coz of whats happening there...me stayed in colaba area for 3 years n hv so many fond memories...
but i'm sure mumbai will bounce back in no time...

November 27, '08


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SweetAdonis said:
Yeah.. I agree.

Its a showcase of Indian entrepreneurial spirit and assimilation of cultures. True India.

These blasts.. OMG.. I have no words..

Mera diL zakhmi huaa nahi tha Teer Ya TaLwaar se..
Mera diL tu Zakhmi Huaa Sirf apno’n ke Waar se..

Soo sad occurrance.

Spirit of Mumbai lives on.. Phoenix will rise..



November 27, '08


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Garret2000 said:
Mumbai would rise again..

Thass for sure..

They need our assurances and we need Mumbai..

My solidarity towards them and the spirit of Mumbai is goin to win again..

Thanx for sharing Dags..

November 27, '08


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ASYLUM said:
thanks, Dagny.

yesterday's events are sick. SICK. have no words.

wish Mumbai's people & those with lost loved ones the strength to cope.

November 27, '08

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