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Posted on: Mar 05, '08


 Unwanted Attention




I've been debating with myself whether to write this piece or not since some time.Then the Evil in me won
and I took to writing this one. 

One Disclaimer though -- I don't mean anything bad or disgraceful to genuine people on here ! And this write is nothing but a disgruntled expression of a frustrated soul.

                                 AND

I absolutely respect my Male and Female Friends alike.


Ever since I remember, I've seen Women struggle with almost everything under the Sun. Be it Family Front, Work-place, Social-surroundings or everything else ! 

And to add on to what struggles we already have -- What I still fail to understand is -- WHY ARE WE GIVEN UNWANTED ATTENTION -- when we least desire it ? 

We walk on the road, we'll have most of the men ogling us for no reason at all (even when we are fully draped in a dress like salwar-kameez).

We join a new School/College, we're the most talked about subject than the lectures all round the year.

We go to Office, male colleagues more often than not come up with new ways to hiss at us, belittle us, flirt with us and sometimes even touch us !

We join a networking site for whatever reasons, and we are looked at as AVAILABLE (wtf) ! And are bombarded with PHONE NUMBERS (?) of Unknown and Non-respecting   Elements !

We go to Parties, and We are labelled as 'EASY' and looked at with utter lust and disgust.

We go shopping and the Shop-keepers and fellow Male-shoppers look at us as if We are something straight out of a museum infront of their eyes.

Fine,there are hell lot of biologically marked differences but that's not the point here !
 
I am not at all trying to make the 'STRONGER SEX' look ugly but I have a few questions nonetheless and I'd like to have varied answers to the same :

# What is all this unwanted attention given for ?

# Why treat a woman differently than man ?

# Why read more than what is there in what a woman  
    says  (PHEW) ? 
                
# And Why not leave a woman alone when she says NO to 
   anything for her own reasons ?


                    P.S. - This may not look like a balanced 
                               approach to the issues mentioned 
                               but then I AM NOT A DEBATER...AM I !



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binduhu said:
hey sunshine..buddy..long time...nice post
i agree completely with u every wrd of it
u brought it out in such a nice way ya!!
kudos!

September 09, '08


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Smarthunk0101 said:
Your Post is perfect and I agree with all u say..... however I have this to add...

Beauty is to be admired...not to be touched;
If to be touched....Not to be crushed....;
And if to be crushed...pls do it with TLC

Hv a gr8 day

SH

September 09, '08


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InkTank said:
u r very right with each point u make, so i dont really have anything to say.....it exactly happens the way u wrote it....am at a loss of words...

June 21, '08


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raj_shetty_1985 said:
well....
its women who alwez want to be da centre of attention....n
men r biologically 'hungry'
i feel good , casual, appreciative glances r fine..
n i kno women lik it 2....
de feel desired...
n dats exactly wat de want !!!!
but u cannot control the people who look at you...
der will alweyz be sum wierdos waiting to pinch ur bottom....

March 18, '08


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Sunshine_Is_Here said:
You Guys !
Thanks SOO much for writing SUCH INTELLIGENT comments.
It was a wrong move in the first place considering it's a Man's World !
Never Mind, It's democracy We enjoy And So, I am free to write what I FEEL.

March 15, '08


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oliveintl said:
Male Female... debates are much better than the Politicians Riggamarole..... But then though YOUR BLOG is written very well... Some of them have taken pains to give a very good and well written COMMENT to it...... Hats of to them......

March 14, '08


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sazzyme said:
well i was exactly like u ..all frustrated at the seemingly 'unwanted' attention..but now that i have grown up a lot; with age has come some much needed wisdom...
take all that in ur stride..that way less harm done..honest..
someone makes a pass at me here..(perhaps not in india)i just say thank you and move on or at times just an acknowledging smile and thats it..theres nuthing more to it according to me..everyone has their own life..unless u are at a singles bar and specifically on the prowl for a prey..or a partner..then theres a huge difference..tis a tough game from that point on..everyone vying for attention...

take it easy chica, thing of beauty is a joy forever and for everyone..

men ogle, women play hard to get..

good post ...

and thanks solarflare, for sharing

March 08, '08


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edifirescorpio said:
u 60% right shikha but rest is that theres other side of story also,,look in india where a relationship bet male and female is not talked openly ,,and here sex and girls both topics r not to be discussed openly ,,so there is lot of curiosity about both in males,rest is that though ur blog raises a question about animal behaviour of man,,but this is how god has made this world,,i mean to write frankly ,be it any male an educated,a duffer,,a adult ,an old male ,any boss ,even be it a fake religious gurus its something inside every male a undescribed attraction for women,yeah some tell and some never make it judge ,,so i mean its never ending topic,rest one thing which i agree with u is ,,some stupids just stare so dirty way when they see a female that really looks uncomfortable

March 07, '08


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Sunshine_Is_Here said:
RIGHT ! Thanks SHAKOSH ... for taking that extra pain to actually see HOW MANY GUYS ARE THERE IN MY FRIENDS-LIST !
And SolarFlare ... I see your point. Thank you very much !

March 07, '08


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solarflare said:
hey!! venusians of the fropper world - some one teach this venusian how to be a venusian!

March 07, '08

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