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Posted on: Mar 14, '08

women ....no longer a weaker setor

hi friends...want to share this story cause dont wan some of u to be late as the female here..this real life episode begins from a bubbly gal who fell in loveand married against everyone with a man who was the world for her....but.........soon after she fell deeply in love with him did she see his true colours.....although being a man of high status he began abusing her....she took it all thinking it was his protectiveness for her....As days pass by one day she was shoked when she was slapped n abused on the road for not allowing him to drink....but too she kept quite as she had married him against everyone....as days by the abuses became more n more. Nights turned out to b scary nights as she would wait the whole night on the door step waiting 4 him shivering starving waiting for her man to come home,who was lying in anothers arms..................the physcial life in between them stopped but she dare not ask him as was scared of getting beaten badly....11years past in the same manner.Bearing of a son too did not change the matter....TILL ONE DAY SHANTI THOUGHT OF MAKING THE CHANGE.....enough was enough....how long was she going to keep quite...she decided she would face him boldly ....she took her son n moved out to her parental home....only to be tortured by abusive phone calls n threating mes...but this did not stop shanti.She took the help of the court for protection....TODAY EVEN THOUGH SHANTIS CASE IS STILL ON IN THE COURT SHE LIVES AN INDEPENDENT N RESPECTABLE LIFE.The fear of getting hit is gone she is ready ready to face the world...LIFE HAS ONCE AGAIN TURNED BUBBLY.................DEAR FRIENDS in shantis case it took 11 years to realise that she has a life too.....there r many shantis around who need to realise their worth in todays life.......come.......lets help such woman to find a new decent n independent way to live............God bless u all

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daisyann26 said:
My Mom went to years of abused I was six when one morning Mom left it was the last beaten Mom got,We left with just what we were wearing.and she never look back.And she never married .She never gave her trust or her heart to no man.

March 20, '08

Poeticsoul said:
Women should realise their worth and hold their self-respect. Be bold and courageous! Help yourself and the world will help you! Good of you, Friend, to shake people from their 'comas' to look at reality in the face!

March 19, '08

akhileshpushpa said:
Actually 70% women are socially, economically and educationally backward. First remove these three points, then no one will hear the story of Shanti.

March 19, '08

nash5 said:
It really needs courage to be out of a husbands shadow even if he is abusive. May all Shantis develop it

March 17, '08

suchislife_ia said:
Good post, but hard for me to comment. Thanks for sharing it. Hope it helps someone.

March 17, '08

vinay1966love said:
WOMAN HAVE BEEN TAKEN FOR GRANTED IN INDIA SINCE CENTURIES , RIGHT FROM THE TIME OF DEVDASIS .OURS IS A MALE DOMINATED SOCIETY AND WOMAN HAVE BEEN EXPLOITED IN A BIG WAY .

ITS NOW A MASSIVE EFFORT WHICH IS REQUIRED , AND IT HAS TO BE BY WOMAN , WHO PLAY A DUAL ROLE IN OUR SOCIETY AND THATS WHAT MAKES MAKES ME WONDER .

IF A GIRL IS BORN , THEN THE LADIES ARE HURT MORE THAN GENTS. ITS VERY COMPLEX TO UNDERSTAND AS TO TO HOW MOTHER CAN BE PARTIAL.

I WONDER WHEN THE SAME SEX IS UNCOMFORTABLE WITH THE GIRL , THEN WHAT TO SAY OF MALES. NORMALLY MOTHERS CARE MUCH MORE FOR THEIR SON THAN DAUGHTERS , WHICH IS A HARDCORE FACT .

SO IT IS A HIMALAYAN TASK BUT AS EDUCATION IMPROVES , THE GIRLS WILL FIGHT IT ON THEIR OWN AND THEY HAVE TO PROVE IT THEMSELVES THAT THEY ARE AS GOOD AS THEIR MALE COUNTERPARTS AND EVEN BETTER.
MY ALL BEST WISHES FOR THEM ...

March 16, '08

parri2008 said:
good one!needed for every woman living in a world where man is said to be everything in life!

March 16, '08

Barbara2002 said:
VERY GOOD...

March 16, '08

cool7740 said:
very nice

March 16, '08

ASYLUM said:
melu56badgeas...really wise comment. :)
made me sad though!

March 16, '08

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