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Posted on: Mar 16, '08

The aging agonies

I have always wondered about how fast our age catches up to us. In Jan, I turned 29. And believe me, I already feels like I have my legs in grave. It's more the way people react. Especially if you are married, don't even think of atleast being visible.

Last few months I am going through the agony aunt syndrome. I find it ridiculous when these 19-20 yr olds call me aunty. Ok. I don't mind kids calling me that. That's digestable. And I do take it as a form of respect(the ancient indian). I am still struggling to come to terms with my new aunty avatar. It's funny. Isn't it? One moment you were everybody's baby. After a while you become Didi(better!!). Now suddenly overnight you turn into aunty. And you aren't halfway through your life.

I guess I am not that bad looking even though I am not much of the dressup type. I try my best in that but honestly talking, dressing up makes feel very foolish. I am mostly at a loss about the things I wear. 'Cause I am not much of the fashion buff. But I do dress up for the sake of others in my life. Because they feel that I put them in a bad light if I don't. How much to compromise for this stupid world??

Ok. We were talking about the agony aunt syndrome. Why the hell do people take age so negatively? We all age from the time we are born. So is it the age that should determine the way our life be. Why should there be so much restrictions and attitude? When I talk to my husband, he sounds like I am a hundred years old(even though he's quite the ordinary indian male specimen with a bald head and a bulging tummy with his eyes glued to the TV or the newspaper). And why?? Just because I am married and have a kid. My God!!! Why do life end after marriage?? To say the truth, there are lots of times I regret it. But what to do????

But it's mostly the way people behave that makes me mad. You start ageing even before you are there and you are standing there ready to jump into your grave even before the plan is ready. Why can't we be just us? I can't even imagine whether there would be anything for me to feel by the time I reach 40(of course if I do reach there, which by the way I am disintegrating after every aunty calls by these adult monsters don't give me much of a hope).

Guess at last I am the one who should get used to being the aunty. Don't know by 40, won't even be lucky to hear that. GRANNY?????

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sehzad135 said:
Anu its not a new happening that you are facing now... well dont bother about that ...

April 15, '08

raj2raj269 said:
anu! u know that they r not calling u anything,but u r making what u r telling.they tell u aunty at ur age 29 and anyone else.mean they r finding u more risponsible than other.accepet this.and also one has 2 play different roles at different positions.u r aunty at this place and a baby at other place.any idea comes from ur mind.have faith on ur mind.nocne can advice u better.

April 06, '08

raju04031972 said:
the person like the lovely thing of life but wanna avoid facts about his/her life and if u start thinking deeply about some thing then u forget the other aspects and keep uarself involved in that particular part.
Well the life is not like that u are thinking about.In fact u are once again in the adolence period i.e hung in between the teenagers and the aged one.Believe me if someone donot pay u respect then u will feel more insulted.
Also think about uarself when u were in the same age group of the youngesters who say u aunty then u will realize that u also used to do what u are getting now.
So dont loose heart rather accept the truth of life and enjoy it.In fact life is built up upto forty and it starts in real sense after forty.
Wishing u the best.

April 05, '08

prakash_geo1 said:
Hai . be happy da dont vary every thing will be gud

April 03, '08

bachhha said:
Hi,
You need toget rid of the the aunty syndrome you r in .Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder and age no factor dear

April 02, '08

sanju8666 said:
i,am sanjay i am also 29yrs old the same thing had happen with me there is no choice we have to face the reality

April 01, '08

MANNU3025 said:
hi, what are you doing presently

March 31, '08

MANNU3025 said:
you are so beautiful

March 31, '08

MANNU3025 said:
Hiii, ANU How are you
can you friendship with me for sharing our more ideas.

March 31, '08

ashok888 said:
hi anu, who says life end after marriage, life is gift given by the god. relise your self, help the people. try to understand, okk bye-bye

March 29, '08

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