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InkTank said: well marriages do have ups n downs...but aajkal, the downs tend to stay longer....marital discords are common....i guess we humans are less tolerant now, no one wants to compromise at all.... June 09, '08 |
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dranilguptakota1310 said: A LIFE WTH LOVE WILL HAVE SUM THORNS BUT A LIFE WTHOUT LOVE WILL HAVE NO ROSES.. I appreciate your blogs but some times there are exceptionsssssssssss anil May 25, '08 |
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delh224 said: reading yr views on marrige this really i feel very happy and write keep it going further such things. May 13, '08 |
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neha_sh2000 said: hmmm.....mayb a spouse is a spouse....he/she cant b best buddies....but they can b someone to whom v can run to knowing he/she will always b there.....have seen some couples at loggerheads all the time......egos ....thats what has come btw.....and such hostilty May 06, '08 |
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Ledzep said: more couples are choosing to NOT settle for merely being 'nice' to each other... this entails a commitment to confronting issues together which is sadly lacking. thats a major reason for splits. also, a spouse is NOT a best buddy! is someone that noone else is, not buddy, nor parent nor sibling nor child ...not even self! this is an example of pop newfangilism i cant relate to !! reminds me of a long argument i had with my son a couple of years ago. he wanted me to affirm (like some of his pals dads had, the type who spend 'quality' time) that i was his friend. and i stubbornly persisted with my insistence that i was a friend also but i was NOT a friend! couldn't be other than the person who was 'dad'. he got the point :-). cheers! May 06, '08 |
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tenjade_destiny said: Disillusionment with marriage as an institution is surely surging up gradually and I agree with you, the eceonomical independence and mental freedom has led women to reduce their psychological dependence to a large extent and added to many more things to look for…now marriage is no longer an inevitable destination… Very true when you say we need to change our approach too. We need to be friendly and tolerant…but there is slim line between being open minded & candid and accepting infidelity with open eyes. Well, would like to add here that being in place like Delhi, I have personally heard so many instances where in a chase to keep the freshness and novelty alive in marriage people of our age have devised such weird ways which would shock you much more than the instances of Salman Rushdie and other celebrities.. ..man keeps on adapting the ways, whether by degrading himself or inducing positivity. good post buddy May 06, '08 |
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sazzyme said: u have said it well nehaji. bite the bullet, suck it up....such phrases come in handy as principles to live by when the greater things - of bringing up offsprings in a balanced environment- is at stake. i belive a lot in ur willingness to compromise-some things likey PYT oggling might be overlooked??!! as opposed to somethin else.. May 05, '08 |
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neha_sh2000 said: oops.....everyone have their own take on every topic including marriage.....married or single...happily or unhappily.....go on .... May 05, '08 |
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neha_sh2000 said: Rushdie's comment on marriage and women r high-handed....I guess if anyone is qualified to comment on marriage it shld b someone who have been happily married for decades....u can choose to call it selective blindness or a huge heart to forgive and forget one anothers weakness and go on with life without letting it make a dent.....and when u have shared a life-time with ur spouse shared joys ,held hands thru tears.....raised kids and watched them fly.....dont they become ur best buddies? May 05, '08 |
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ebby2007 said: i am actually a happily married man ..having said that, i am not too sure whether holding on to a spouse for life with hurt within ( for whatever reason) is the smartest thing to do.. May 05, '08 |
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