Posted on: May 12, '08
How can we relate to Mother's Day??
Mother's day is being celebrated on second sunday in the month of May, every year. It's recognised as a national holiday in U.S. It's a different matter that the founder of Mother's day "Anna Marie Jarvis" after a point of time, protested against crass commercialisation of this day thereby forgetting the spirit of the day, and went to jail. Our culture has always given special place to parents and especially mother. So do we require this token day to remember mothers for their love and sacrifice? That's at best a debatable question.
I received a nice piece of forward from one of my U.S friends' about mother's day and its signific
ance. It's quite heart-rending. Though the writing contains many references to situations that can be associated with U.S life style, people who read this can always relate to the spirit of motherhood which is common to all, cutting across the barriers of countries, religions, races, cultures, languages and ethnicity and how children generally tend to take mother's love and sacrifice for granted across the divides.
The Mother
1. When you were 1 year old, she fed you and bathed
you. you thanked her by crying all the night.
2. When you were 2 years old, she taught you to walk.
You thanked her by running away when she called.
3. When you were 3 years old, she made all your meals
with love. You thanked her by tossing your plate on
the floor.
4. When you were 4 years old, she gave you some
crayons. You thanked her by coloring the dinning room
table.
5. When you were 5 years old, she dressed you for the
holidays. You thanked her by looping into the nearest
pile of mud.
6. When you were 6 years old, she walked you into
school. You thanked her by screaming, "I'M NOT GOING".
7. When you were 7 years old, she bought you a
baseball. You thanked her by throwing it through the
next-door-neighbor window.
8. When you were 8 years old, she handed you an ice
cream. You thanked her by dripping it all over you
lap.
9. When you were 9 years old, she paid for piano
lessons. You thanked her by never even bothering to
practice it.
10. When you were 10 years old, she drove you all day,
from soccer to gymnastic to one birthday party after
another. You thanked her by jumping out of the car and
never looking back.
11. When you were 11 years old, she took you and your
friends to the movies. You thanked her by asking to
sit in the different row.
12. When you were 12 years old, she warned you not to
watch certain TV shows. You thanked her by waiting
until she left the house.
13. When you were 13, she suggested a haircut that was
becoming. You thanked her by telling her she had no
taste.
14. When you were 14, she paid for a month away at
summer camp. You thanked her by forgetting to write a
single letter.
15. When you were 15, she came home from work, looking
for a hug. You thanked her by having your bedroom door
locked.
16. When you were 16, she taught you how to drove her
car. You thanked her by taking it every chance you
could.
17. When you were 17, she was expecting an important
call. You thanked her by being on the phone all night.
18. When you were 18, she cried at your school
graduation. You thanked her by staying out partying
until dawn.
19. When you were 19, she paid for your college
tuition, drove you to campus, carried your bags. You
thanked her by saying good-bye outside the dorm so you
wouldn't be embarrassed in front of you friends.
20. When you were 20, she asked whether you were
seeing anyone. You thanked her by saying "It's none of
your business".
21. When you were 21, she suggested certain careers
for your future. You thanked her by saying "I don't
want to be like you".
22. When you were 22, she hugged you at your college
graduation. You thanked her by asking whether she
could pay for a trip to Europe.
23. When you were 23, she gave you furniture for your
first apartment. You thanked her by telling your
friend it was ugly.
24. When you were 24, she met your fiancé and asked
about your plans for the future. You thanked her by
glaring and growling, "Muuhh-ther, please!"
25. When you were 25, she helped to pay for your
wedding, and she cried and told how deeply she loved
you. You thanked her by moving halfway across the
country.
26. When you were 30, she called with some advice on
the baby. You thanked by telling her, "Things are
different now."
27. When you were 40, she called to remind you of a
relative's birthday. You thanked her by saying you
were "really busy right now."
28. When you were 50, she fell ill and needed you to
take care of her. You thanked her by reading about the
burden parents become to their children.
29. And then, one day, she quietly died. And
everything you never did, came crashing down like
thunder on your heart.
IF SHE' S STILL AROUND, NEVER FORGET TO LOVE HER MORE THAN EVER.
AND IF SHE' S NOT,
REMEMBER HER UNCONDITIONAL LOVE AND TRY TO GIFT THE SAME TO YOUR
OFFSPRINGS.
REMEMBER YOUR MOTHER CAN HAVE MORE THAN ONE CHILD BUT AS A CHILD YOU
CAN HAVE ONLY ONE MOTHER FOR LIFE!
Mother's Day Resolution:
In India, sex ratio has changed so much that, 972 girls versus 1000 boys from year 1901 has become 933 girls versus 1000 boys in year 2007. At this rate, at some point in future, we'll be having lesser and lesser mothers. Female foeticide/infanticide is an important reason for this sad state of affairs. Even at this age, people tend to prefer boys over girls. With all the available technology, sex selection is made, which is usually biased against girls. So how relevant is this mother's day for Indians? This occasion should remind us the pitfalls, as a society we're facing with the bias against girls and should make us resolute to eradicate such inhuman treatment to to-be-moms.
Tags: infanticide, mother's day, mother hood, female foeticide
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