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Posted on: May 12, '08


 Mother's Day - ties that bind and tag...

Mother's Day - ties that bind and tag...
(I was tagged by Dhaval to write)

MOTHERS DAY HER-STORY (HISTORY)

Celebrating motherhood is a historical tradition dating back almost as far as mothers themselves. A number of ancient cultures paid tribute to mothers as goddesses, including the ancient Greeks, who celebrated Rhea, the mother of all gods. The ancient Romans also honored their mother goddess, Cybele, in a notoriously rowdy springtime celebration and the Celtic Pagans marked the coming of spring with a fertility celebration linking their goddess Brigid together with the first milk of the ewes.

During the 17th century, those living on the British isles initiated a religious celebration of motherhood, called Mothering Sunday, which was held on the forth Sunday during the Lenten season. This holiday featured the reunification of mothers and their children, separated when working class families had to send off their young children to be employed as house servants. On Mothering Sunday, the child servants were allowed to return home for the day to visit with their parents. The holiday's popularity faded in the 19th century, only to be reincarnated during World War II when U.S. servicemen reintroduced the sentimental (and commercial) aspects of the celebration American counterpart.



MOMMY TRIVIA

The first thing that comes to my mind when I think of my mom…
STRENGTH. If you see my Mom you will understand the true meaning of “STILL WATERS RUNS DEEP”. Calm, Quiet still so strong. That’s how she could raise her four boys who are doing excellent in their professions and life in entirety.

My mom affectionately calls me…
Chhotu, Mera Sher(My lion), Shaitan (mischievous), so many other names that i can not write here..Ha ha ha ha. She calls me chhotu because I am the shortest amongst brothers (6’2” tall chhotu)

The worst beating / scolding I ever got from my mom...
NEVER.. My Ma never even raised voice. Gods don’t scold or beat.

One thing I have hidden from my mom...
Oh so so many things…. Most of the times when I was injured etc etc..But I did that so.... to save her tears…..

My mom’s catchphrases or takia kalaam…
Kab Bada hoga (When will you grow up). Apne sare medals apne paas rakh le mai kab tak chaukidari karungi (Take back all your medals, till when will I look after them). Kab Sudhrega(when will you improve)

Some funny incident(s) with my mom...
My ma is pure vegetarian (her food is onion/garlic free) so I keep joking with her to taste non-veg dishes and she will run away from the situation. Since I am fond of cooking one day I was cooking some thing and she happen to ask me what I was upto. I told her I am cooking good vegetarian chicken for her who was grown up on veg diet with not even onion and garlic Oh boy…. you should have seen the reaction on her face, she immediately covered her nose with her sari and literally ran towards her room. My wife kept calling her but she did not come to kitchen saying “Pahle us rakshas ko kitchen se bahar nikalo”( first ask that demon to leave the kitchen then only I will come)

Forgetting glasses is very very common, the glases will be on her head and she would be searching them all over, and if someone tells her that the glasses she is looking everywhere are on her head she would say she is looking for something else not the glasses.

The last time mom got angry with me…
I don’t remember my Ma getting angry on me ever.

My mom's the best because...
She is always Cool and Calm, understands the latest trends and never imposes her ideas on anyone. Very very strong in conviction.

The most cherished gift I have from mom…
Cool headed nature. No jumping on conclusions……The night suits she makes for me every time I visit her.

What else?
I think her handwriting resembles with Mahatma Gandhi’s, which after sometime she also can not read.

What would I be doing for Mother's Day?
I gave her a call and told her how much I love her and miss her. I left home at very young age to join Academy so she still gives me all the GYAN(wisdom) thinking I’m still that young and I got a big lecture when I called her up. I again offered to cook non-veg (Veggie Chicken) for her.......she was quiet for a while and when I asked her, was she crying, she replied "no the signal is weak" and told me how much she missed all the pranks I did as a kid and still keep doing……….(yea she was crying....!!!! )



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seeker29 said:
I have read ur blog at a time when I am leaving my Maa,for a long, long time before i come back,youve made me realise how much i shall miss her n how much she means 2 me......thanks.

June 11, '08


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binduhu said:
oh this is the most b'ful blog u have written ..kab sudherega..typical..my mum always said that to me as well..ur mum never shouted at u..my mum never stopped shouting @ me but we all love our mums..nevertheles.n they love us more..wow wat a blog n wat relationship.to all fropperites there's world beyond blogs on love n frndship..explore it!!kudos ot u vikram

June 03, '08


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Latav2063 said:
Very well written. Mothers are God's gift to children. Enjoyed reading this -a very warm and loving tribute to your mother.

May 25, '08


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MARKIV14 said:
Dagny,

I change silly with BIG...point you understood what i was making...that is "eyes go into their watery act at will... and dont obey the dictum of logic. And THEN you can shout at the owner of the eyes until hell freezes over... it makes not a whit of difference." as you said.

I agree on that.

Smile.

Ciao

May 22, '08


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dagnysharma said:
My dear Vikram...

It wasnt over a SILLY issue I was crying... you should know me better than to think me capable of doing that.

The issue I was crying over was something big. At least it was big for me. And so whether the person scolding me saw it as big or not before he scolded me for crying.. doesnt really matter does it?

As you say... eyes go into their watery act at will... and dont obey the dictum of logic. And THEN you can shout at the owner of the eyes until hell freezes over... it makes not a whit of difference.

What Say you?

Dagny

May 22, '08


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MARKIV14 said:
Dagny,

Thanks for coming by, tell me even if someone shouted at you for not fo ****ing cry..did you stop crying over small silly issues??? NO. So you know the answer...It does not matter whatever anyone says the holy ganges is always ready to flow out of eyes on slightest emotional manoeuvre (happy,sad,high,low,love,hate,etc etc..)

Thanks a lot for reading and your comments.


Ciao

May 19, '08


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MARKIV14 said:
Mona,

I am very sure you would also be having lots of patience that you do not realise.

Thanks for reading.

Ciao

May 19, '08


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dagnysharma said:
Vikram,

Sorry I am late in coming over... but I was tied uo with some stuff.

The first thing I thought of when I read the last words (yea she was crying..) was someone getting damn mad at me and shouting (as much as one can shout on a chat..) telling me not to ****ing cry... lol...

You have a definite talent I think... CHOTU.. he he he...!

Cheers,

Dagny

May 18, '08


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mona_leo said:
yr mom sure must hav been a gr8 lady........raising 4 sons and she never raised her voice
i wish i had some of that patience
but thanks for sharing and telling all of us tht we can do a good job of raising kids wid total love and affection
gr8 write up

May 18, '08


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MARKIV14 said:
Wits,

Thank God you surfaced back..your clone (from Bhawali) frnd did come by as I saw her in people who saw the blog but as always went back without saying anything..

You know what my reply is when she asks "kab bada hoga?" i say..ye ped paudhe bade ho jayenge..mai kya ped hu jo bada hounga"...lol lol

when do u shift to east coast??

Thanks for reading buddy.

Ciao

May 16, '08

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