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What havoc created by matrimonial websites.



Posted on: Jun 11, '08


 Please for god sake stop all these

Hi friends

i am writing you wts happening in the matrimonial websites.Wt sufferings parents had to bear for their daughter through these websites.

     People making fun of this pious institution known as marriage.

now i am going to give you some examples so u all a\can understand it well.One of my relative had created profile of her daughter on matrimonial website.Interest stsrt poring in photos of girl were asked when sent they like the photographs.And the miosery began all the boys nearly want to talk the girl in night through messenger.And if girl refused they decline the contact.
             So my dear friends is it ok in your eyes making fun of parents deceiving them.And my point is that will you allow your daughter,sister or any of female member to talk to boys in night or through messenger.I think your answer will be no.
            And think about the misery of the parents of girl.Thats all i have to say am i right or wrong.If u want to talk to girls just for fun u can join social networking websites y only matrimonial websites.



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vidyut_strikes said:
On the other hand, creeps exist, and not only on matrimonial sites. If their presence can be considered to be making fun of a pious institution, well that fun is being made everywhere else - in organizations, temples, relationships..... and not just matrimony.

Find creep, ignore creep creep persists, destroy it. By all this indignation, it is you giving the creep the power to violate your vision of things.

June 15, '08


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vidyut_strikes said:
Uh.... I think the problem here is that the matrimonial sites are designed for people who want to marry, not people who want to get their kids married.

It is therefore assumed that a person with a profile will not be averse to furthering communication with profiles s/he is interested in.

I don't see this as making fun of the institution of marriage at all. I can't blame guys for wanting to interact with suitable candidates. And yeah, don't tell me most of us don't chat at all times of the day or night as we wish.

A person interested in "parental guidance" should probably also approach parents of the guy, no? There are countless matchmaking organizations that organize this parental interaction and horoscopes and all. Why get into a matrimonial social networking type site, if that is not what they want to do?

The parents have their choices in what they consider appropriate and so do the guys. There is no rule that says any one method is the right one.

June 15, '08


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nash5 said:
All things have a positive & a negative side. Its for us to decide how we would like to deal with the matter. For eg if somebody demands like chatting on messenger at night or any such improper demands the same should not be fulfilled.

June 11, '08


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manisha_bhattacharya said:
Well, if the guys are thinking of marrying, wouldn't they want to communicate with the girl???
But you do have a point in that many of the 'prospective grooms' on online matrimony sites are only looking for someone to chat with for fun. If the site provides you with this alternative, you can 'report abuse' about such guys. Or stop using that site. Or else keep trying to find that elusive sincere guy...

June 11, '08


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AbhijitVirgo said:
shame on those who cheating for bogus chats

June 11, '08


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south5442 said:
i first appreciate you spreading dis to everyone ,this is the attitude of some of the ugly people ,because of such people many innocents are losers
matrimonial agency's and sites must make it fool proffer and teach such people a lesson too,i can understand the mental agony of the girl and her parents too ......

June 11, '08


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suresh8549 said:
Beleaving himself or herself dosenot require any Matrimonial site for lifepartner.Your character,ability,responsibility towards family will bring good fortune.

June 11, '08


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surya_in said:
sorry mam.. i never and ever think of searching husband for my loved ones on net.. or any matrimony got it.. you too avoid it for god sake because they have to live their whole life with them after marriage i can't beleive any fake site like that....... and send photos etc...

June 11, '08

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