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Posted on: Aug 05, '08

How I expect my friends to be?

Dear friends,

                      This is not an award winning attempt on the eve of friendship day. It is borne out of a necessity to express my views of how my friends should be. This is by no means a self-adulatory piece. If I say there is no charm for a friend of opposite gender it would be a blatant lie. There is definite charm for the opposite gender. But friendship goes beyond gender bias too depending on the qualities of a friend. Though fun in life is part of life it should not be carried to as a way of life. Being gay, seeking same sex libido et al is also a despicable domain for me though i go by science and technology. As I am also at ease in other fields as well I transcend science to be with you in your spheres too.

                     I am recounting how some friend requests were treated by me. After receiving requests the study of profiles say some one is interested in fun and flirting as a way of life. Intellectual quest, appreciating nature, enjoying music ,sports and good literature, concern for the humanity are all one amongst or all requisites i expect from my friends. Therefore pure fun and fun only people find no place in my friends circle. In the real world it is not easy to find friends of calibre from the very looks of them, blogs , profiles and their approach provides a glimpse into their personality. That way fropper helps me a lot. Interaction is a must as i detest speaking to Ghosts! Those who can not reveal themselves fully after a period are welcome to go out. Still worst are those who after becoming friends by request are just interested in sharing their blogs without bothering to answer my personal messages and visit my blogs. What for they are friends? To display their wares? At this juncture, my special thanks goes to my interacting friends. HAIL THEM!

      Many suffered deletions including the ones who were friends on my request as well beside the one who requested to be friends.

     I am also making a special request to all my friends. Don't bombard friends with frequent messages leaving no time to gasp! One friend has pointed out in a comment that blog should be once in 15 days. Though i strictly dont go by that i try to cool down a bit before the next launch!

    Friendship is a way to explore the world together with all the time and convinence permitting. True friends create such time and convinence.

   This is not intended to hurt anyone's sentiments. Just my views. You have the right to take it or leave it.

   I close shop with this! What is your take?

Bharath selvan.

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manisha_bhattacharya said:

August 14, '08

oliveintl said:
you are perfectly right friend.............

August 08, '08

khushidey said:
I agree with you Bharat!! A very good post!

August 06, '08

daliamallick said:
I really appreciate your post. Too many forwarded mail blogs etc really puzzled me. But I really become upset when people take this friendship for granted and speak/write something which really hearts your feeling. We are here to pass some free time and make some good friends not for making extra marital affair.............People must remember that.

August 06, '08

madhumitaCAP2000 said:

yes a really nice post
thanks for sharing

August 05, '08

Chitrajlp said:
Bharath! Very correct. Enjoy your freedom! Fropper is a ventilator for our feelings. Takers or no takers. No probs. One should be a sport. Human mentality is very strange. Please don't come to conclusions just by certain parameters. Just like you want to enjoy your freedom everyone else may want to do the same thing. In relationships anything is possible. One will definitely observe that people who are not of like minds or feel monotonous at times will drift away in between. But after sometime they join you back. Curiosity you see! You can choose! No one can question you. Feedbacks must be taken in the right perspective! Just absorb and leave it! What for friends are? We must regard each other's view points. That builds a healthy atmosphere. Very open talk. Congrats. Keep it up. I like it. Chitra.

August 05, '08

Latav2063 said:
Yes, participation is necessary. It depends on the other persons' interests. But you are right..you have the right to choose your friends. Nice to know your views.

August 05, '08

earmarkedfortrouble said:
My take U asks; Aiye never takes; Aiye just gives!!!!! Right left center above below; then left all over again!!!

But one thing is quite clear; That bee; inspite of all zee hull-a-bulloo; must to admit that; Even aiye does same-2-same as yee does; albiet; IRRATIONALLY!!!

Zee simple logic is that itt bee Mee's zone; N; Aiye decides who remains and who goes!!!!!
ppsstttt: You see the list of FAV's in mee zone??? In fact they bee Mee's FRIENDS; KNO MORE!!!!
The rest; who bee right and who wrong bee; ONLY Time will tells!!!!
GGGRRRIINNNNNNN

August 05, '08

anamika000abc said:
Hi,
compeletely agree with what you say, unlike real world, virtual world is blessed with choice of relating with mind n heart, n each hv thr own choice. its always better for us to be choosy n hv long term friendship rather than adding so many friends n not interacting at all.

August 05, '08

alamara2000 said:

Hi friend I agree with what you are saying here for each his own choice of friends. We cannot tell someone to change just for us.Bur about writing a blog in 15 days is just absurd, who has so much time?
Thanks nice post.

August 05, '08

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