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Posted on: Aug 05, '08


 THE SHACKLES OF DEPENDENCE !!!

Yeah  friends  even  in this  era  of  high  tech  and  IT  we  have  people  who  are  still  very  much  way  behind  in their  thoughts. Still bound and governed  by  superstitions and ancient  beliefs !

Ha Ha ! you  will  be  thinking  that I must be  talking  about  some remote  village , or  some place  where the fruits  of  modern  day  technology and knowledge might not  have   reached ! You  are mistaken ladies  and  gentlemen !

I am talking  about Nagpur , the  second  Capital  of Maharashtra , and that  too about people living in one of the most posh  area here !A locality full of  high middlle  class families . My building , where fortunately  or  unfortunately I happen to be the president of the  society for  the  last  two  years !

During  the presidentship  I had  very  varied  experiences  some good , some  bad and  some  very astounding ! This one was an astounding one !

There is a young  couple  living here ! Call them Krishnans !They  are very happy , well balanced  couple . Have two very  sweet sons ! 5 years and 3 years  old !

 Mr. Krishnan is the  area  manager  , stationed here , of the biggest oil  company in private  sector , and Mrs  Krishnan is the centre  head of the most  famous Air  Hostess Training  Institute in India , here in Nagpur ! You can very  well think the quality of their  education and level  of  awareness.No one should have any doubts  about  their  liberal thinking .

Since  both the husband  and wife  are working , there is some problem about the looking  after of their  children . They have  a maidservant who  does the looking  after .The younger one  is most of the time in the flats of other residents  than  his own ! But he  is  so sweet he is most welcome  everywhere !

One day  when he was getting  down the  staircase , fell down and fractured  his arm . He had a knack of getting injured very  frequently ! But this time it was a bit  serious ! He was immediately given the medical  treatment , hand  was plastered and in a few  days he was again bouncing back !

Then there was  death of the father of one of the residents , immediatley  after this  accident . He was quite  old , and it was  a natural  death ! All of us  got together and helped him out with the funeral and other  rituals .

But  I think what  made our Krishnans to give  a very serious  thought to these happenings was another  death of a young  wife of another resident here ! Though she died ,at her parents  place , of  some  congenital  heart  disease , Krishnans were very  apprehensive and were  much worried !!

Whenever in the morning or in the evening we used to meet , he used to greet me in a very cheerful and happy  mood , but I noticed after the last incident he was not as bouncy and cheerful as he used to be !! I thought job pressure the reason for this  and didnt take  much notice !

Two  days  after  we last  met! 

In the evening I was net-surfing  as usual and was engrossed in the scraps of my beloved  friends . There was the familiar  ring  of the  call bell .The  maidservant announced that the Krishnans have  come! Very reluctantly left the  pc  !! And went to greet them .

They  were seated , but  anyone  could tell that they were not  in the best of their  moods . They looked  very  worried !
"Arre bhai Krishnan , what is the matter yar ? You look very worried ?I have never seen you like this . It seems  Bhabhi ji is not  taking  proper  care of you ?? "
I wanted to make the mood a bit light. But  it seems I was on the wrong  track ! He was as serious  as ever .
"Ok what  is the problem ? "
"Sir  the recent  mis - haps in the buildings !"
"What  about them Krishnan ?"
" Dont you think  some  evil  air  is in our  building ? "
And his  wife also echoed her voice with her husband's!

Ladies  and  gentlemen I was  simply shocked !!! Such thought  coming out from these people from such a highly  educated  background ! Every  single  word is as it was exchanged that  day!I couldnt  believe my ears !!

":What did you say Krishnan ?"

"Sinha  saheb , I am sure  there is some evil air  present here . So many deaths  have taken place one  by one and my Harsh (name of their younger son ) is also getting  injured  so frequently . They cannot  happen just like this .
We will have  to perform a havan  for the purification of our building  as soon as possible ! "

"Do you really believe  in all this  Krishnan ?" I asked him very politely and sympathetically. Because I knew he is very much  effected  by  these  thoughts   and   disturbed .. 

"Of course  Sir ! I am  hundred  per  cent  sure about it ! Unless we perform the havan such things will go on happening . I have talked to the pundit also . I just need your permission because I want to do it in the society temple with everyone present !"He said very convincingly , and conveyed the message that I had no choice other than to agree to it .

I knew that even if I didnt permit . he will do it all the same and there will be unnecessary unpleasantnes and I will be branded as the most cruel and antiGod man ! 

"Ok Krishnan if you so desire , go ahead , and let us hope  nothing  happens  after the havan !"

"Thank you Sir ! " The relief on his face was so obvious !

It all happened last year on the 15th August ! Before the  flag hoisting  ceremony the Havan was performed ! And you had to see the  devotion of the  couple in this  Havan . His wife did everything , prepared the prasad , distributed it among all the residents . The  zeal of the residents was quite visible . 

It all ended  in a very  happy note ! The most  happy were of course the Krishnans !!They were very  convinced that now the building  was safe and no deaths  or  accidents  will ever  happen  !

One  month later  :

Now this  is no exaggeration  . I am reproducing the event as it happened . 

In the evening  I was coming  back  from my  regular  evening  walk .The temple of our building is just at the entrance , I saw Mr Krishnan there with his  younger  son ready  to go somewhere in their  car . But what struck me like  hammer on my head , was the fact that Krishnan's  right arm was on slings.and his son was crying furiously , !I didnt  ask Krishnan .Instead I asked the guard about  Harsh . He told  he injured his  right  leg while  riding  his  Bike !And Mr Krishnan himself  slipped in his  bathroom and injured his  right  arm !!

Now what will you  call this ? The poetic  justice ???? Our  superstitious  and mindless thinking ??Our  dependence on old  and  rotten beliefs  even  after 61  years  of  independence ???????

And  to  top it  all only  day  before  yesterday , an old man of 90 years , father of one of our residents  died !! 

What  to  do ? Should  we laugh  or  grieve at the  naive thoughts  of  the  Krishnans ???? 

The fault lies not  in the building  but in their  minds  who can tell the Krishnans ?????? 





Tags: evil air, superstition




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CancerSA said:
Hey Mr President, I know, I know, I know ... apologies it took me awhile to get to your blog and comment hahahaha! I feel as if I had written this wonderful and humourous and so realistic post! This is the nature of people like the Krishnans, not only in your vicinity but all over the world, this is how supersitious Indian people are, believe me,living in South Africa, sometimes I want to grind my teeth in frustration lol! You name it, people will do it, as they feel one has to ward of evil, if anything happens its due to bad forces! I have met so many Krishnans in my life and I just shake my head in awe at their explanations and stories and their need to perform certain pooja's and certain havans all in the name of bad luck not befalling! One would think that in this day and age one's mentality and level of thinking would reach a higher level, alas they will never change, we will always find Krishnans around! Great post!

August 14, '08


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sonikudi37 said:
I think superstions come due to ignorance and fright.Once the mind becomes fearless and enlightened they are no more necessary.I have been thru a phase of confusion and dout when I turned superstitious for a small time. It is logic that prevails in the end so do not panic.

August 13, '08


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whirlwind2000 said:
Thanks a lot PK and Vidyut for your visits !


Ha !Ha !ha ! Vidyut, you seem to chose a very good platform for your PR job !! You are most welcome for the enlightenment !!!



August 12, '08


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vidyut_strikes said:
ROFL..... who says superstitions are limited to generations gone by...

we see what we want to see.... if we are looking for problems and threats, we register those from all around us.... and it seems like an amazing pattern.

An entire training methodology has been developed around this - Appreciative Inquiry.

Maybe you want to suggest me as the pundit. Instead of puja, I'll do an AI workshop, and we all will live happily ever after.....

August 12, '08


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oliveintl said:
well superstitions..... who better to comment on them .... Than me..... will you beleive it, after my wife died, my best friend has adviced me not come to his house since his DAD has given him instructions....... and worse still he is quite educated and working in USA....

and I've seen this behaviour in my family.... why blame friends..... Religion, superstitions are somehow one thing which is making India lag behind....... If not we would have been superpowers LONG ago

August 11, '08


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whirlwind2000 said:
True Saurabh ji ! You have rightly pointed out the deficiency in our education system ! It only produces literate people and not educated ones !!


Real education we get from our family , environment and the society at large !!!


August 11, '08


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saurabh55a said:
That all happining due to media n T.V. serials,

Several story of Ghost, Goddes, priest, every day on T.V. r making the mind of people to believe in healing with faith.

If U think that academic education can make society free froim such orthodox thoughts, u r wrong.
as it's the atmosphere , invoireent which makes up the mind, n unfortunately, it's grabbed by Media n T,V.


NICE WRITE-UP
HIT

August 11, '08


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whirlwind2000 said:
THanks a lot Bhau for your more hillarious comment than the blog itself !



August 11, '08


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harsh7901 said:
mr. president.... this year i expect u to take initiative n get the havan done before flag hoisting ceremony... afterall havan does purifies the air n moreover krishnans will be happy n feel at home
n as per my knowledge it takes three years of consecutive havan to chase off the evil spirit.. i'm seriously not joking...
by the way...any Dr. staying in ur building??... ha ha.. for second opinion... joking again...
interesting post bhau...

August 11, '08


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whirlwind2000 said:
Thanks a lot Sumedha , for visiting my blog , and gives lot of pleasure that you enjoyed the humour of this story !

It gives me satisfaction that the underlying message has gone through you all !!



August 10, '08

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