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Posted on: Aug 06, '08


 Marriage - A choice in a chance...!!!




Marriage is something you have to give your whole mind to...!
Matrimony - the high sea for which no compass has yet been invented.
The surest way to be alone is to get married.
Happiness in marriage is entirely a matter of chance....!!!

It is not from reason and prudence that people marry, but from inclination.
Claims do not hold a marriage together.  It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads, which sew people together through the years.

Being married gives one one's position like nothing else can.
The dread of loneliness is greater than the fear of bondage, 
so we get married.
Any one must see at a glance that if men and women marry those who they do not love, they must love those whom they do not marry...!

A man who is compelled to go on materially and morally supporting a woman he no longer loves feels victimized;  but if he abandons without resources the woman who has pledged her whole life to him, she will be quite as unjustly victimized.

Marriage could be the greatest success in the sociological history of humanity if the man would or could play fair.  But, I believe any woman with independent instincts, with the dream of making her individual personality count for something in the world, might just as well shun marriage.

Marriage is the only adventure open to the cowardly.
The best part about married life is the fights.  The rest is merely 
so-so...!
Quarrels are the dowry which married folk bring one another.

Keep your eyes wide open before marriage, and half shut afterward.
Marriage isn't a process of prolonging the life of love, but of mummifying the corpse.

Both marriage and death ought to be welcome: the one promises happiness, doubtless the other assures it....!

Marriage is a romance in which the hero dies in the first chapter.
Marriage is a lottery in which men stake their liberty, and women their happiness.
Marriage is the one subject on which all women agree and all men disagree.

Men marry because thery are tired, women because they are curious:  both are disappointed...!!!

Where there's marriage without love, there will be love without marriage.
Love is the dawn of marriage, and marriage is the sunset of love.

To marry once is a duty, twice a folly, thrice is madness....!!!

The wedding march always reminds me of the music played when soldiers go into battle....!!!!!!!!!



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GOVIND2802 said:
" The surest way to be alone is to get married " You dont say wheather peacefully or not? as per your wordings. If to be alone why should get marry?. Marriage is the biggest adventure, but even if it is lost there are too many choises for winning again

August 18, '08


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satish9984CAP said:
MOST OF THE POINTS ARE VERY TRUE
AFTER THE CERTAIN AGE PERIOD WE FEELS VACCANT IN OUR MIND,ALSO NEEDED A PARTNER FOR SHARING AND FULLFILL OUR EMOTIONS.

August 09, '08


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ashokthakur said:
truely said
interesting post
thanks

August 08, '08


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BrainyBakra said:
Just fall in love with thy spouse and stay there. its bliss, dude. Its a great institution. A person feels like whole. No parts missing.

Incompatibility is something serious. Cant say.. Must be painful. Split is still more painful for the kiddos.

Good blog, Joey !! Nice quotes there



August 08, '08


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CancerSA said:
Marriage is a bed of roses, like every rose there are thorns to be withered, there is no perfect marriage, whoever believes in that are deluding themselves, marriage becomes perfect when we accept each other, with faults and all, with compromise, with adjustment, with caring and sharing, feelings deepen and that is what makes marriage perfect! The togetherness and the bonding! The one's that are fortunate to realise this are truly blessed!

August 07, '08


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ecceHomo said:
The eternal subject is ever new as well.Yet you can have no new idea about marriage, only new servings.
Remember that positive and negative cannot simply go astray, but must hold together !!!!Got it? There must be marriage in the first place for any positive and negative ideas or thoughts about or against marriage to stick to.
So my idea is that one must have lived through a marriage before one can speak or judge on marriage with some authority and credibility.My advice: get married first, Joe, and thus get to learn more , authentically, before you attempt to speak further about marriage.All that you now feel or think about marriage now reflect HOW you are biased, and how biased you are. BIAS, of course, goes a long way to make or mar a good married life can also prevent one from ever marrying at all.
When you marry remember one golden law: you cannot make ornaments from gold without allowing for some melting loss.

August 07, '08


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Gor123 said:
It is a good post. Man and woman are a pair of Positive and Negative, that is Strengh and Softness and the one is half with another. There may be quarrels and so on because of ego but finally they use hear. And of course marriage is the way of going in to the actual process of living. It has to be. Marriage is a great thing. It is the remedy suggested in oiur Vedas. Love and marriage both must remain to gether. I think understanding, self understanding on the part of both can make the living easier.

August 07, '08


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Sathya1950 said:
Every individual has got different views about marriage. As you said it is a choice of experience by chance,
Great write-up about the another aspect of marriage.
Thanks for sharing

August 07, '08


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manisha_bhattacharya said:
Good post!

August 07, '08


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geetsudha said:
there is marriage, just a legal paper-rights-duties-promices-tears-lies-broken trust-dishonesty-violance-sadness-anger-suppression and then death of emotions and individuality ends up in divource or some just carry on.

the real marriage is respect for each other,loving and caring relationship, a gud friend,honest and loyal with each other, want to be with that person,somebody who touches ur soul, disagreements ,molifying, where u excite eachother no matter how old u r, two eguals, two bodies, one soul.

most of us are living a marriage which is a legal committment. very few are the luckiest ones,who are truely married.

August 07, '08

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