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Posted on: Aug 20, '08

AWAKENING INTO AWARENESS

I often think what is the awakening of mind ? Is it the moment of clarity in which a new insight or understanding is gained.I think so,because with this new awareness or awakening the experience of life is seen in a different point of view,the positive one.Therefore the new possibilities are open . To me, awakening allows the posibility of growth to a new level of psychological and spiritual maturity.

Now how does it really occur? The way I see it is something like this... at some point there comes a time in life when you finally realize it. In the midst of all the tears and insanity that we build around suddenly an inner voice cries out... enough is enough can't take it anymore got to be a way out of all this. It happens in the same manner as child's quieting down after a tantrum.Sobs begin to subside and you shudder couple of times and begin to look at the world with new perspective. This is the moment I beleive is the moment of rude awakening.

You realize that it is time to stop hoping or waiting for someone or something to change or for happiness to come along over the next horizon. and you come to terms that there arn't always a fairy tale endings or begining for that matter. That is when the sense of serenity is born with acceptance.

And only then you begin making your way through the reality of today rather than holding out for the promise of tomorrow. You realize that who you are and the way you navigate through life,and you sift through all the non sense you were taught about. Things like how you should look or how much you should weigh ,what you should wear or how you should behave etc. Slowly you begin to open up to new words and different point of views begin to reassessing and redefining who you are and what you really beleive in. This is where you hit the path of awakening.

You accept the fact that you are not perfect and not everyone will love,appreciate or approve of who you are and you should be ok with that. That is when the sense of confidence is born of self approval.

When you have confidence in yourself,you begin to love and care for yourself. You stay away from self destructive behavior including participating in dysfunctional relationships. Health wise you begin eating a balanced diet,drinking plenty of water and excercising because I think fatigue from worries and depression drains the spirit and create the fear and doubt in mind,and just as food is the fuel for the body,laughter is the fuel for the spirit. so you should make time to enjoy a good laugh.

In love and relationship you should learn about how to behave in love , how to give in love and what to expect. You allow the touch of your true love to glorify your life.

In the process you also learn that people dont always say what they mean or visa versa. They do it either intentially or unintentially,so you should stop pointing out fingers or blame someone for the things done to you or done for you. You should learn to keep you EGO in check. You lean that just as all people grow and change.It is with love and relationship also that not eveyone can always love you the way you want them to. shouldn't appraise your worth bye the measure of love you are given. Only thing to remember that life isn't always fair and you don't always get what you think you deserve and therefore stop penelizing every loss or disappointment.Sometimes bad things happen to good people and this is not the act of God but merely a random act of fate.

Lastly,all I want to say is that with a courage in your heart and having undying faith in GOD ,take a stand and design your life you want to live as best as you can. God will never fail you as HE has never failed me in life.

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rajmodi2008 said:
HI,
I M RAJNI.
MY NICK NAME IS RAJ.
I LIVE IN DEESA. (GUJ-B.K)385535

September 03, '08

Gor123 said:
It is so true and innocuous. She has put the truth of self critical awareness in a very simple words.

August 26, '08

sanju_0101 said:
nice blog indeed.

August 26, '08

babuks2001 said:

very nice friend

August 25, '08

THE_HANDSOME2008 said:
An Expression of Genuine Reality of Life !!!
Excellent Work Laila !!!
Keep it Up !!!

August 23, '08

satish9984CAP said:
very inspiring one msgs,
it's true things always depends upon our way of thinking ,way of living always depends upon way of thinking,way of thinking always depends our upon our surroundings or inhertance.
it's also that true courage in our heart and having undying faith in GOD ,take a stand and design our life.

August 21, '08

Pagal-Bhoot said:
U r an excellent writer...
at this age U write like an experienced writer and U neend some brush up to improve ur skills...Ur future is very bight..U can do more and success will be at ur door step...
keep it up.....

August 21, '08

Pagal-Bhoot said:
5 stars as usual..

August 21, '08

harsh7901 said:
mighty impressed laila... at times u motivate me more then what my mom use to... n tis compliment girl...coz u deserve it..

August 21, '08

manu5248 said:
People say that company influences the the way of thinking of an individual.But To day I must say that like minded thinking makes a nice company.......
As I have been saying well said fact.....
keep sharing such a beautiful thoughts ....

August 20, '08

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