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King-Bulls-Ring said: CJ, This will always be a man's world in that sense, coz, 'Nature' made man and woman in that way. Different. Well, not in for a gender war again, but God made them different and each have their own goods and bads. And most importantly, each can compliment the other, but can never 'take the place of the other'. September 10, '08 |
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chithrajust said: ---------well, you do have a point KB, but then, what's new? one night stands and flings were always there-------but when girls have started indulging in them, the world hears a lot of hue and cry!!! we still live in a man's world, don't we? maybe, i'm not addressing the issue you've handled here, but then, i'm probably lending another angle to it----- tks for sharing September 06, '08 |
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mikunal said: great. we are at cross road!! then what about our kids? we have to have counsellings to put our kid on line. according to me we have to lil. mix and mach of our old values with todays world. a long debet dear K b r.it's end less topic.... nice eye opener thanks.  September 01, '08 |
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King-Bulls-Ring said: Geetjee, Agree with your approach and I believe that it will work. Be a guide to the kids as they grow, of course, to give the guidelines, parents must be in constant touch with the kids as well as in constant watch of what's happening around them. This will enable the parents to guide the kids in the right direction. Also kids when they grow up, go after wild stuff only if they are not guided properly. It is not that all of a sudden kids have become rotten and they go after wild sex like animals. They get more opportunities for such things and less attention / guidance from parents towards 'whats in it and how to go about it'. Hence, as you have rightly put, its 'PARENTS' who set up the circumstances for the kids to go wild. No Kid is born wild or indisciplined. They turn so, due to circumstances, on which the utmost control is resting with the 'parents'. Thanks for apt inputs Gettjee... Appreciate it.  September 01, '08 |
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MY_MUSKAN said: very nice post. thanx for a knowledgable & thoughtful post. As per ur post in these days our young blood is blind after sex. Sometime I think how can a girl present herself in front of a guys who is just her friend. We cann't stop this type of bad thing now bcoz girls demand freedom in every area. Now our culture is becoming western. thanx for the post September 01, '08 |
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geetsudha said: coming back to,what they are going thru now at this age or even older age,they need to deal with them one way or the other,they might luk bad,but this will happen whether we like it or not.we shud be communicating with them,rather than judging them.yes its x right,but then we did x do right to them as parents in the first place,hopefully if we do right nw,next generation will be alright.all these extra marital problems are happening for the same reason.our society has been so close minded,they just tell u being a gud girl is nice,what about what is going on in their minds,which is eating them up,is that right?no we cant allow them to go mentals,they need to go thru things naturally,only then they will understand which right course to take.a wrong will never bring right,only right will bring right,so if we hav to blame somebody ,its us who hv done wrong,we cant expect right nw frm them.we must learn nw to mend our ways to c a new gud generation. September 01, '08 |
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geetsudha said: hi kb,gud post,as ur friend told u,these things shud b dealt with in their late teen ages,then we will x be talking on moralistic grounds making them feel criminal n guilty.we all hv to go thru experiencing life and its problems,whether they are boys and girls,does x matter,we r humans,and what we are feeling inside us,has to b dealt with,otherwise they become huge mental problems which we live with everyday,that is criminal.as parents,we must allow our children to feel at ease to talk about such feelings,they are real,i talk to my children about their girl friends and boyfriends,i told them to bring them home,so i get to know them,i advice them about birth control and sexual diseases,i listen to their emotional turmoil,i dont judge them,i like to help them by being there.we are friends when i hv to be,im parent when i hv to be.i hv done counselling course,gone on trainings,so that i know how to handle them at that age.continuing... September 01, '08 |
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ASYLUM said: But i don't see how this is different or any more complicated than what happens in our 'non-contaminated' small towns & villages.. since eternity. Do you know why girls & boys were married off in a hurry near the time they reached puberty?for the exact same reasons! to avoid all the wild sex & illegal pregnancies they'd be jumping into.  September 01, '08 |
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tenjade_destiny said: thx kbr for acknowledgin my comments...regarding self image or acquired one to suit the circumstances...this issue also stands on a very shaky ground to decide..what would one like to have ...A HEALTHY SELF IMAGE...WHICH IS THERE BUT HOLDS U BACK FROM LIFE..AND FINALLY U ARE LEFT WITH FEELING OF BEING WORTHLESS OR UGLY...after all an image is also gained after has a confidence to express oneself, to put oneself forward and live the life one dreams of....after all dreams also couldnt be cherished effortlessly.. September 01, '08 |
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Titan71CAP said: Crossroads indeed!!! What a waste of a precious life... Humans becoming commodity (restaurant food!!!)... God helps... Nice post. September 01, '08 |
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