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Posted on: Sep 08, '08

THE COURT OF INFIDELITY ...

The question of infidelity is always in vogue…and we have always in fight to find answers to it, have thrown more questions to the man and the other woman in life!!

My extension to that thought in my own way….call it a poem or a story, you will find rhythm somewhere which somewhere rhymes.

My own perception to this relationship with a contemporary touch… might true hold in the virtual world too…

I have recently heard of a term coined as “Virtual Infidelity.” ANY THOUGHTS ON THAT???

THE COURT OF INFIDELITY :

We all talk of courts in mythology
But today still a court exists,
which runs inside and outside lives day and night
Like the old days court, still flaunts us in our destined places
but still anticipates from us that we treat with righteousness
The Culprit and The Victimised, The Outside Relations We Seek!!
Still these courts, whether New or Old,
Still settling the battles the few we lost
and the battles we all have to win!!

In this court of life,
We all are no more than courtesans,
Each has his own level of hierarchy, enjoys his own circle
Each has his own time to stay,
Each reaps to the extent what he sows.

A show of sheer performance and a chase to be par excellence,
In drama with relations,
With inside when hatred grows, we all are demanded of our happy side to reveal!!

THE MAN:

They all wear a plastic mask, wearing a smile so inelastic
Doesn’t hold good even to quiver a single heart
while tries to make a point to be happy
Yet inside there, a man lives there
Who wishes to shun all the privacy loaded to let out a loud cry!!

In this crowd of many called own,
His family, his friends who ready to stand with him
to lend him an ear when he wants to speak
or take out time to see what he has to share

But there in the outside world, he already has found a lap
which proudly displays a tag of infidelity
but still holds high an improbable prophecy
where he can bury his head in and simply can have a silent cry

He simply loves the other woman!!

THE OTHER WOMAN:

Who is this other woman??
She is the main actress of the play..
The main woman of the life of fantasy, of dreams
She is a woman so real, never been close to her own place in life
She roams day by day, playing roles!!

He even told her one day that when he was thirteen
Before he could even be rightfully called a man
He was forced into a sort of forest
Where he first tasted the forbidden fruit
Which grew as a real fruit on a real tree
The tree of knowledge of evil & good
He is still lost in a thick haze
While in the jungle of reality to haunt him
He often escapes to this dream-scape!!

He asks her shyly “In this wildness which prevails
Looks hungry to devour you,
how do you manage to hold your own wildness intact”
You still soften the Wilderness of many hearts
A hunt you still provoke,
With every move of yours, the life seems to move!!

Does the road taken with you
Really leads us to salvation
Or it leads us all to a life of exile!!

And she, the main woman of the play

She wears a mask which sculpts her cheeks and models her eyes…
Which holds back all melancholy and all her sighs…

And she is the main woman of the play
Caught in an unabashed orgy of roles
She shares herself with near ones and sundry, to all!!

She is the woman of the play
The woman who is all vocal, who spoken it all
Who never wanted any privilege to fall silent
And while the final dialogue is on
When the answer is most awaited
In this fight of chastity and ability to enact
She is lost in with the last dialogue
With the woman inside which wants to remain simply quiet!!

Tags: infidelity, relations, love, life, the other woman

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manisha_bhattacharya said:
Sumedha, why does is the main woman in the play in a duel with the woman inside? Why does the woman inside her want to remain silent? Can't she simply ask the man to make up his own mind about whether the path with her leads to salvation or a life of exile? And then make his own choice about whether he wants to walk that path or no? Let the man take some responsibility for his deeds, instead of having the opportunity of blaming the 'other woman' for leading him astray!

October 03, '08

sonikudi37 said:
you are a real talented writer su, keep it coming dear!

October 03, '08

manocarla said:
infidelity,great subject yaar,the most painfull act in our life;the first reason of broken and destroy couple, life.this happen for men without any valuable reasons just cos they are like that, seems like a performance for lot of them, and for others its just cos they still not love their partners;when men go outside is not cos he didn't love his wife, or cos he hav sex probleme with her, is just because he need to perform he want to be desire he want to seem he is the best and he can do what he want.
women infidelity are more caused by sexual probleme in her couple, insatisfaction brough her in others hands and also cos of feelings, love or revenge;but women infidelity are more dangerous cos lot of them leave her partner after that.men need to stay with all.women need just one man
revenge is stupid, and leave what u have for another can be a big risk cos u dont know what u will have.stay and talk are better than lost all.

great post yaar

September 26, '08

manisha_bhattacharya said:
A rather deep topic Sumedha. Will have to give it some thought...

September 17, '08

BrainyBakra said:
Oh.. I am a late comer.. Sorry..
The topic is very sensitive.
It changes from person to person.
We can not impose fidelity on people.
Humans are still evolving.
A lot has to be filtered out still.
Its the dychotomy between a man and a beast.
Man is but a thinking beast still.
Listening to ones heart dispels all doubts.
If heart agrees, do it.
If it doesnt, just stay away.

What a post, Golden Girl

Love you soo much. You think this deep. OMG

Bakra cant think that far.

Loyalty has its incentives. Lets discover them.

September 16, '08

vicky1502 said:
HiSumedha,

Infidelity as a term i have never understood or have not accepted its meaning understanding it fully.

Quite recently i happend to read a book which had some intresting facts to share. It says that no other species in the world, barring one or two practise monogamy!.

It also claims that enforced monogamy by restricting a person's choice with respect to his mating partner with the help of marriage
has resulted in a sharp escalation in sex related crimes and has also acted as a catalyist/ motive in other crimes as well.
Infact it claims that back up to few 100 years human beings practised polygamy of both types that is polygny and polyandry hence there was not much crime related to sex.

No man or woman can claim that they are not attracted to opposite sex even after marriage or do not have fantasies about the opposite sex.

Then what can you say about "Mental Infidelity"

September 15, '08

satishCM said:
Dear Tjd
how to comment and what to comment....... I always liked your BLOG????... This is a wonderfull thoughts

September 15, '08

tito2008 said:
fabulous...so real...

September 14, '08

oliveintl said:
how to commment and what to comment....... great BLOG????... how do you get such wonderfull thoughts

September 13, '08

IN_MY_BOX said:
We all hold court, In our own world, Like time gone past masks where worn, not to hide the face but the expreson on our face, like our moods we changed our mask,
who is the other woman, The woman you love or the woman you go to bed with each night,
For surely its where your mind,and your heart is,
Virtual Infidelity
Real or unreal,
Is that not what is in your heart,
We could understand that Infidelity starts from the very fact that you hide something from the one you profesh to have given your heart.
But like the mind, our heart can also change direction,
And its at this point that Infidelity kicks in,

September 13, '08

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