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Posted on: Oct 17, '08


 LOVE YOURSELF FIRST

The reason for this choice is not selfish
but based within my caring for us both 

If I love you first
I put a greater value upon you than me 
It will be therefore hard for me to feel 
that I am more than second best 

If I love you first 
And then you change 
Then my love may not be able to keep up 

If I love you first 
I might except the same from you 
And I might get disappointed 

If I love you first 
Then our love for both of us 
will grow at your pace 
And I am not in control of you,Just of me 

If I love you first 
And you leave 
Then I am left with the second rate love 
BUT 

If I love me first 
Our love for both of us 
Will grow at my pace 
I will not subvert my needs to yours
And therefore, a happier person 
For you to be with 

If I love me first 
Then I will know Self Love 
and you will be able to love a whole person 

If I love me first
And you leave
You will not take essential pieces of me with you
And I can stay your loving friend forever 

If I love me first 
You can get a greatest gift that i can give 
I can give you the bounty of my own love 

So love me second 
And only & only then 
I can get the true quality and quantity of love 
THAT LIVES WITHIN YOU.












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rajeev-on said:
dear lailaa...u r right absolutely e.g. if one wants to help weak and poors,then he must be strong and capable first..as a poor incapable one seeks helps from others,he can not extend help other inferiors ... to love other .. be urself a loving personnality so that other may enjoy ur love when u r in intense love with that other ... u r perfact in ur concept and a healthy msg from u for those who really want to enjoy and let their partner to enjoy in all ways ... lailaa .. real symbol of love since the tales of Lailaa-Majnu ..

November 16, '08


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frend8269 said:
The reason for this choice is not selfish
but based within my caring for us both

If I love you first
I put a greater value upon you than me
It will be therefore hard for me to feel
that I am more than second best

November 05, '08


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Mumbai3123 said:
U r perfectly right.


October 22, '08


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sonyys2008 said:
absolutely right

October 21, '08


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innocuous2000 said:
I see,not all of you agree with my phylosophy of love.Let me explain something,loving you doesn''t mean you love yourself like you love others.What it means is you have to accept who you are in all aspects of life. It isn't about conceit or self worship,it is about being comfortable & confident with yourself.If you dont accept who you are then how can you offer someone all your love and care. You will always be fighting with yourself, with your feelings and it will be stressfull for you as well as others around you.


October 21, '08


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cantonment2000 said:


October 20, '08


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deen25 said:
My first love only for Allah(God)......

Second one is mine & third one for you.....



October 20, '08


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singh007cool said:


October 19, '08


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Hell-Raiser said:
not love only selfishness

October 19, '08


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rosline said:


October 19, '08

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