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Posted on: Nov 06, '08


 ESSENCE OF WOMEN



In my opinion,women are the misunderstood gender of the two. No matter how hard she tries, she is always critized for a slightest mistake.There is always a double standard for women.What is good for a man is never good enough for a woman. Not a single country in the world has given them their rightful rights.Some have  taken their identity,some have taken away their independence,while some have shortchanged them of equal salaray making only 70 cent for a dollar a man makes. 

The world says,it is difficult t understand a woman because she is full of contradictions,the world says a woman is full of vanity, jealousy,greed and ego. They say her mind is full of insatiable desires for wealth,luxury and lavish lifestyles.They say she has a charm to make you swoon,she has skills and tricks to make or break homes and even nations.HOW WRONG THEY ARE AND HOW NAIVE THEY ARE. 

They dont see how women are the reservoir of love,overflowing with compassion,caring and giving as mothers,sisters, wives and friends. How can they not see that with heart full of sweetness a voice soothing and delicate a women make all your troubles melt She is known for giving till it hurts,that's what women do only to be hurt and accused of ulterior motives and wrong intentions.The tender and kind feelings that only women can give usually go unrecognized.I wish the world were kinder to the kindest soul of creation.

But women could have their own RX for Respect and recognition if they want. They don't need anyone to validate them. A woman is beautiful inside and out filled with joy and pride as graceful as a butterfly as woman should be seen,not heard. Women should be with strength to knock down any boundaries keeping them from journeys of life. Wemen are majical, mystical and spiritual creatures,whose true value is not recognized by our society or sometimes by themselves.They  are our own person,therefore manifest their  own destiny. Journey to their SELF is not easy one. It is most difficult task anyone ever faces in life. 

Respect a woman and she will treasure you 
Scorn a woman and you will find that HELL HATH NO FURY LIKE WOMAN'S SCRON    



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Your_Astrologer said:
As far my understanding, Vedic teachings has given most respect to women. (May be because she is the first and basic teacher who shapes the child).

The basic dharma of men is to PROTECT women, her values, charm and over-all intregity. (Not to rule over them).
The basic dharma of women is to provide peace and over-all sustenance to men as you have very well said 'is the reservoir of love and caring'.

Both are compliment to each other. We can either go for 1 and 1 = 11 OR 1 and 1 = 0.

In these days both are forgetting their dharma and hence their is so much chaos. We all are more concern about Rights but not at all focus on the duties and sacrifices needed for each other to maintain discipline.
Selfishness is the main cause for it.

Best Wishes,
Vijay Goel
(Practicing astrologer)
Jaipur

December 17, '08


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113seashells said:
very true! "HELL HATH NO FURY LIKE A WOMAN SCORNED!!!"

November 17, '08


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manu5248 said:
yet an other genuine issue of present era highlighted by brave Laila:I think from the past history its clear that man dominated society will never allow woman to overtake.so there is need to leave behind the men and creat an example for others to follow......

November 16, '08


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sonikudi37 said:
you rock laila

November 12, '08


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mehraz1971 said:
VERY NICE AND INTERESTING , TRUTHFUL WORDS ARE BEAUTIFUL,THANKS FOR SHARING.


November 12, '08


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Ike41 said:
Laila, another wonderful post straight from the heart, all sincerity & honesty in each & every word.Ur thoughts cannot be contradicted as these are the true facts of history down the ages.
Nations, society & family have all been built around man hence the high pedestal for him & accordingly the concepts of life have evolved over the yrs. In the matriachal society women do get the desired due but that too hinges on the fact that women inherit the property hence must be extra cared for.
Respect, has 2 b from both sides & reciprocation comes only if the other is respected. Those who disrespect others cannot expect 2 b respected themselves, there is a very old but true saying " Respect has to be commanded, it cannot be demanded."
Thanx for the "wise" write up, will look forward for the next one as such good things are a rarity in the present day world.

November 11, '08


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ASMAR2000 said:
GOD BLESS YOU . VERY NICE AND INTERESTING , TRUTHFUL WORDS ARE BEAUTIFUL .

November 10, '08


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November 10, '08


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daisyann26 said:
the essence of a woman just to be her self who she is and standing up to what she believe in and never let a man take over she should always have control in what every part of her life be strong and

November 10, '08


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uttam7468 said:
Hello Friend !
Today is 8 Novembern & is celebrated as Parent Age Teacher's Day N X-ray day.Children's first teacher means parent especially mother(Women). So all of us should share today with our mother n father. Share their happiness, sorrows,emotions,feelings n time with them.
Call ur mother ,if you can't, at least think of her.Woman is greatest gift from god n she is us with in many roles ,such as mother, sister, wife, daughter,teacher. She performs her duties without interests.

For being a woman : It is written in HEBREW"S
Talmud, a book where sayings of RAbbis are complied, throughout the ages... And closes saying.
...Be very careful in making a woman to cry...
'cause God counts her tears!...
The woman came out from the man's rib. Not from the feet to be stepped on. Not from the head tobe superior.But from your side..to be equal. ...Under the arm , to be protected And at the heart's side to be loved.
So remember the value of a woman. "Have a nice moments". SIMLE!

November 08, '08

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