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Posted on: Nov 19, '08

International Men's Day!

International Women’s Day is celebrated on 8th March. But did you know when International Men’s Day is celebrated

? It’s TODAY! On 19th November! And here’s why it’s celebrated on this day.

United States President Abraham Lincoln delivered the Gettysburg address on 19 November 1863 in Gettysburg, Pennsylvania at a critical time in America’s history. This address called for the honoring and remembrance of the contributions of the men who gave the ultimate sacrifice – their lives – during America’s Civil War during 1860 - 1865.

This day is all about men getting in touch with their emotions, their inner self and the contributions they made or they make towards family, society, country and the world often sacrificing their own selfish (?) interests. Since ages men risked their lives for protecting and providing for the family (now I understand why many men feel marriage is a risky proposition!) elders and children. On International Men’s Day, the contributions of all men, whether they are sons, brothers, fathers, friends or husbands are acknowledged by family, friends and society.

A lot has been written about sacrifices made by Women. But how many have even as much as made a mention about sacrifices made by men?

Whether in routine life or otherwise? No, please don’t think Women and Men are some sacrificial goats, as each of them contributes to the welfare of their kith and kin in their own way. But not much is said or talked about men’s role in it, I wonder why! Men are as important for our future as women. But often it’s the women who get the so-called sympathy.

Men aren’t asking for sympathy but they certainly are looking for some understanding, especially from women.

Men offer life lessons about sacrifice, quietly and unceremoniously. Men who are Fathers place their own personal dreams on a shelf, and work at back-breaking, spirit-numbing, and for many – very dangerous jobs -- so that their children can have access to economic and educational opportunities that they themselves could only dream of. Men will walk through fire for their children, if that is what it takes to keep food on the table for them, a roof over their head, and clothes on their backs. Many of these Men – after completing a grueling day at work, return home and play an active role in the positive emotional, intellectual and psychological development of their children.

Women and men are equal.

We see many women shouldering tough jobs, whether at home or at work in an office. In my opinion, the root cause of women getting an edge over men in most respects lies in the fact that they are called the weaker section.

Why? I ask. Women are not inferior to men in any way. In fact they are the creators of us. Then why do they pride upon being called so? And what’s the opinion of women who think otherwise? I would like to know.

The number of false dowry and even higher number of abuse cases have increased in recent years. With the Indian criminal justice system being so lethargic,

and its inherent bias against men, most of the abused husbands have no option but to put up with the abuse, mental, emotional and in some cases, even physical. It has come to light that many women are misusing the security provided by law.

The law is in favor of women and is creating lot of problems for men who are innocent. The law about Domestic violence has been derived from the US. But in the US the law clearly states that a victim can be irrespective of race, color, class, or ‘gender’. The ‘gender’ word has been excluded from Indian law. In India, about 20-30 per cent of men or their family members have been abused by their wives. And in almost all cases of family abuse, the woman is the abuser!

It’s time both women and men take caution and begin to respect each other. After all, it’s their understanding which will help maintain peace and equilibrium in society.

I would like to conclude by saying this to Men who are fathers. The greatest thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother.

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notjustart said:
Thanks Manisha for bringing the glaring error

to my notice. After all, I don't call you a genius for nothing right?

I have corrected it now, thank you!

December 13, '08

creativefront said:
Well expressed informations.
Brave blog.

December 13, '08

cre8ive27 said:
Happy Men's Day.
beautifully written blog!!

December 02, '08

manisha_bhattacharya said:
Great post Chandra! Agree with you wholeheartedly!

er...by the way, the American Civil War was fought in 2008??

November 30, '08

chandresh6333 said:

November 23, '08

notjustart said:
Coincidences work in our fabvour some days I guess. Thanks Lovelystars for your comment!

November 23, '08

LovelyStars said:
My belated wishes to you dear friend on Happy Men's Day.

Without knowing this I uploaded my latest blog in support to men. What a coincidence!

November 23, '08

uttam7468 said:
thanks for sharing !

November 21, '08

notjustart said:
Thank you Eternal, I read your blog and commented too, great blog indeed! Thanks for commenting here...

November 21, '08

notjustart said:
Thanks Ladyinred, your comment elaborated many facts not included in my blog. I, like many other Men, respect Women the most, after all it's they, who showed us the world, didn't they!

Women are no more a weaker section but our law differs in opinion and it's very sad...

Reminds me about the greatest Tennis player Martina Navratilova...There was word going around that why must Women get less Prize money and not a Cup but a Shield! Upon which another great Tennis player John Macnroe chided in a statement that it's because Men play 5 set matches as compared to 3 played by Women! And Martina challenged John to play 5 sets match with her! That's what I call real guts!

Thanks for your comment!

November 21, '08

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