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Posted on: Nov 22, '08

Getting into a new relationship?

It may be one the biggest achievement of your life, finally breaking the ice with the Mr Right you’d been eyeing for a long time. But in your newfound excitement, mixed with trifle insecurity, you may just end up doing things which tick him off and show him the red signals even before you settle. If at all you break-up too soon, it would most probably be the little things that come between a man and a woman. So, to ensure that your newly-developed relationship maintains a clean bill of health, you need to kick the following annoying habits.

You mould yourself to his tastes from the beginning:
Often, it’s no big deal for a woman to start agreeing with everything her man says all the time. But if you’re trying to please him just by playing Miss Outgoing when you really are a Miss Introvert, you’re setting yourself up for a fall. Eventually, he will discover what you’re really like or you’ll reach a point where you really hate living on a white lie. If you’re thinking long term, better base your foundation on honesty or it won’t have a future. Break the habit, Give yourself credit that he found you compelling enough when you were yourself. Why change yourself now? Let him know the real you. Be careful, but always be original, and true to your real self.

You often rant about the ex factor:
You’ve just shared one of your first kisses. You feel naturally close, so much so that you want to tell him about the times you shared with your ex. A piece of love gyaan, don’t linger on the details. Even if your ‘ex file’ is layered with complaints about how that dude turned out to be a creep, your man won’t notice. He’ll be too busy worrying about how he compares with your ex. Break the habit, Let go of the past and channel your energy into developing the kind of relationship you want with your new guy.

You cut your friends out of the picture:
If he says there’s nothing he does with his friends that he couldn’t do with you, he’s lying through his teeth. In their company, he can burp after downing beer and mercilessly abuse the bowler who sledges someone. You wouldn’t put up with this behaviour, so be thankful that he gets it out only when you’re not in range. Don’t make the fatal mistake of thinking that you will be able to fulfil all of his needs. No, he’ll need his friends too. If you continue to be a nag each time he makes a plan with his gang, you’ll be suffocating him.
Break the habit. Negotiate how regularly both of you should have partner-free evenings. Then plan something special for yourself to occupy that time, like reading or going shopping with your gang of friends.

You expect him to read you right:
He arrives late at a party, gives your best friend a hello hug, but completely overlooks your new outfit. Looking at your accusing eyes, he asks what’s wrong, and you say, “If you don’t know, I’m not going to tell you!” Women often contextualise their partner’s ability to read their minds as a measure of his love for them. Then, they wrongly start assuming he doesn’t care. In a relationship, both of you have to make a concerted effort to communicate – especially when your affair has just begun. And nothing’s better than talking – saying aloud what’s in your mind.

Break the habit. Sulking is the most immature way many women employ to get attention. When he asks what’s wrong, please speak up,,,, it’ll save time, energy and many tissue papers.

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Rashu2008 said:
It will actually solve lots of problems everyone facing today.
Good Keep it up.

November 25, '08

PrudentTAU said:
Thanks to all,,,, to encourage meeee

November 24, '08

thepatriot2008 said:
Fact of the matter is relationship demands a lot of understanding and maturity....advantage of side effects is that u are bestowed with more understanding!!

November 24, '08

binduhu said:
finally breaking the ice with the Mr Right you’d been eyeing for a long time.

omg nice tips..
my boss!!..i have been looking at him since eternity you’d /> jus kiddin
nice cute blog
thnx for the wisdom ya!!

November 23, '08

sonikudi37 said:

November 23, '08

eternalessencefoever said:
Easier said than done but when heart rules, it makes everyone a fool!!
conflicts prevail..irrespective of the position or condition of a relationship..has to b resolved with sense n sensibility.

November 22, '08

chandresh6333 said:

November 22, '08

rollercoaster2001 said:
the cat and mouse game ....great description....u have thought at leeeength!!
great read dear

November 22, '08

Harsha1000 said:
simple and basic discipline one should follow to maintain good relationship on which depends the whole life. yes...very good.

November 22, '08

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