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Posted on: Nov 23, '08


 Your Opinion Please --3!

Hi guys and gals!

I am Rahul. I am an online friend to Sneha, the owner of this zone. I have chatted with her quite a number of times. To cut short I m writing this blog as per Sneha’s interest.
Now let me tell you the full details.

I am 27 year old guy. Finished B. Tech from IIT, Kanpur and MBA from IIM, Indore. Now you can understand my status. I got selected as Manager to Reliance communications of Delhi in campus interviews. Within four years of experience, I am drawing six digit figures as monthly salary. I am proud son to my parents. I own a luxurious flat in the center of New Delhi and drive a latest model car. I visited several countries as part of assignments of our company. Don’t think I am proud in showing the things. I am least bother of these things. As you should know my background, I am telling all this nonsense. The fact is my position in the company and my earnings increased my status in the society and an average looking guy got recognition as a handsome dude. No need to mention how parents of gals show interest in my alliance. To gals…I am prince of their dreams…hee hee hee. In olden days gals used to dream of their prince coming on a horse. But present gals are dreaming of prince coming in the world’s costliest car Bugatti Veyron 16.4…hahahaha

Now let me tell you main point in writing this blog. Once in a chat Sneha asked me this Q. You have already settled in good profession and enjoyed bachelorhood for four years, now why don’t you get married and settle in life too? I told her how my parents are showing the details of several matches daily. She questioned again “then what is the problem? Select one as per your choice and settle fast.” I got laugh over her words “settle fast”. In our discussion I revealed my mind which made her angry.

My opinion is "Sex plays main role in marital life. So selection of partner depending on how she looks, her background, education, bank balance etc are useless things and sit in the last row of selection. Even if she is Priyanka chopda, if she does not match me in bed what is the use of marrying her? I don’t know about others. I am not in a level of thinking on her bank balance and monthly earnings to settle the match. I know many marriages failed due to sexual dissatisfaction. Ofcourse they say some thing else to the public. I am not saying this only about me. After marriage, if gal does not get sexual satisfaction with her hubby, she will certainly enter into wrong paths. Whether she enters into wrong routes or not is secondary, if the guy recognizes her dissatisfaction, it will become a torture to the guy and starts doubting every moment of the gal. That sweet home turns to hell to both of them. By that time if they enter into the circle of children, you can understand the fate of those children. Shit…I never wish to enter into such state. I will select my life partner after getting satisfaction in bed. I will marry that gal if she is happy with me in the bed."

I respect Sneha as my sister but she reflects a person from Ramayan era. Oops. Our conversation was little bit like this.
She: “what is the number of present gal with you?”
Me: “fifth. She is also my colleague in office.”
She: “to what extent you play with lives of those gals.”
Me?...Playing with lives of gals??? I got laugh but controlled as I did not want to irritate her further.
Me: “Sneha…I am not compelling any gal to roam with me or sleep in my bed. Present gals know present boys’ thoughts and plans over their lives. They too agree to those ideas and make friendship.”
She: “it seems your brilliance in brain ruined all ethics which you have to follow in the society.”
I never got angry over Sneha's comments on me because I know it is very difficult for me to make her come out of that conditioned thought process. I just showed the laughing icon.
She: “Tell me Rahul. How long and with how many gals you proceed like this? Is there any end for it?”
Yeah…now she is coming to the correct track.
Me: “Life long until I get a gal of my choice.”
She: “I have never come across a spoilt brat like you.”
I showed her laughing icon again.
Me: “Hey…if you think that way. I can introduce hundreds of such spoilt brats like me. U know my IIT and IIM classmates, their friends and our colleagues, every one follow the same principle. If some one gets married by the force of his/her parents, we all pray for them not to face tragedy due to err in sexual life.”
She: “If it is a life long process, don’t you think of having a baby of your genes?”
I realized she was serious over the issue.
Me: “Sneha…just an interest on children brings them to our hands. But you know…a child requires both mother and father in its upbringing. If that couple gets dissatisfaction over their marital life two things will happen. One thing is they separate and own their interested routes and child leads a life in Hell. Second thing, they compromise with each other for the sake of child and lead loveless life. I don’t wish to enter into either category. I will marry a gal who satisfies me and understands all my strengths and weaknesses. Then there won’t be a failure in our married life and then we will think of having a baby.”

At this point Sneha stopped and suggested to write this as blog.

Now she is eagerly waiting for your opinions. So pour your opinions.

Have a pleasant stay on earth.
Rahul




Tags: sneha, child, marriage, sex, love





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Weekender2000 said:
96 blogs...intrested me to venture to your blog space... Was sure some thing might have kept you motivated to write so many blogs.

This was slightly unique... My stupid mind does not work properly. I just dont feel Rahul is from IIT, IIM. I feel pity for you Rahul.

December 08, '08


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manisha_bhattacharya said:
Ditto to Sazzy's comment!

December 01, '08


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LovelyStars said:
Hi friends,

Thank you all for your valuable views on this issue. I wish to write reply to each and every one but time is not in hands and not permitting me to sit for more time. So I say big THANK U to all of you.

Here I personally appreciate the views of 'Chiktu', 'taffi11', 'nonjustart'. I found these comments very much related to present society.

As Rahul said it openly every one is shouting at him. If any one meet him (without knowing this blog), they will never get even a trace of attitude of this blog. They will find his polished behavior very respectable and wish his friendship and then proudly introduce him to others as their friend.

Don't think I am supporting Rahul. I am quite against his opinion on marriage system. But I respect him as a person. He opened his mind in our chat like many other gentlemen.

Younger boys r trying for sex before marriage and elders are cheating their wives by having extra-marital affairs.

So, NEVER JUDGE A BOOK BY ITS COVER

Sneha

November 29, '08


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LovelyStars said:
leanranger38...hahahahha

November 28, '08


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leanranger38 said:
boss
isnt it obvious sneha is waiting for u to ask her to marry u.
n from the look of it ur also quite fond of sneha. n since she knows ur history n still tolerates u. so whats stopping.
jab miya biwi raazi to zaa bulaao kazi

November 28, '08


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bulbul2 said:
somebody very famous once said marriage is nothing but legal prostitution.I never believe such theory.In most cases oppsite sex attract each other and that attraction is sex.But to have sex or feel all opposite sex friends are for sex then it is wrong as I feel one can enjoy this god gifted natural feeling once the same is having sex with someone with whom it can share its emotion,mind status,know each other well, share feelings,and all these poosibilites, cannot be found in and all friends.

November 26, '08


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delhi2cool said:
I jst say ,,,jst wait n watch the movie
RAB NE BANADI JODI shayad ye thinking
KAL HO NA HO so chillllll

November 26, '08


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kabir_1962 said:
Al the days doesn't remain same,
How Sneha tolrates all these conversations its really an atistic and worth analysing.

November 26, '08


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kabir_1962 said:
Every thing is onsidered and nerrated nicely and has been told generously.
I fail to understand that weather marriege is to perform sex only.
No saintity in married life other then sex.

OK if the couple is very nice in performance in bed as tried earlier by them before marriege and on next day from marriege some thing goes wrong wth either of them( May God never do it with any one) then where all these considerations will go.

So please be on earth, all these high apptude qualifications don't ask us to soar high wthout wings.

haa haa haa

November 26, '08


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harsh7901 said:
Best of luck boy... i truly hope that u do get married in ur prime age... before gals start rejecting u...

November 25, '08

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