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Posted on: Jan 31, '09


 What we Do Without Real Love: Imitation Love

If we don’t have enough Real Love in our lives, the resulting emptiness is unbearable. We then compulsively try to fill our emptiness with whatever feels good in the moment—money, anger, sex, alcohol, drugs, violence, power, and the conditional approval of others. Anything we use as a substitute for Real Love becomes a form of Imitation Love, and although Imitation Love feels good for a moment, it never lasts and never gives us the feeling of genuine happiness that Real Love provides.

Most people spend their entire lives trying to fill their emptiness with Imitation Love, but all they achieve is an ever-deepening frustration, punctuated by brief moments of superficial satisfaction. All the unhappiness in our lives is due to that lack of Real Love and to the frustration we experience as we desperately and hopelessly try to create happiness from a flawed foundation of Imitation Love. The beauty of Real Love is that it ALWAYS will eliminate our anger, confusion, and pain. So how do we find this universal cure?



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chandresh6333 said:


March 01, '09


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jlkl said:
Real Love is love good things and praise them.

February 10, '09


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nandya said:


February 05, '09


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sazzyme said:
real LUV..
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mom to kids?
dad to kids..
thats it
right?
oh well great write up!!!

February 03, '09


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Vicky2056 said:
Very true. In today's world full of selfishness, greed and materialism, one can only find falsehood around. True love is hard to find. But in this Kakiyug we have to live with al this. Harder and Worse times are still to come.

February 02, '09


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Nayna13 said:
Love is a feeling which can be only be expirienced. It can never be described in words. Therefore, it is absolutely futile to debate on real and pretence love. If at any stage in life one experiences this feeling then it is said that it is better to loose your pride than forgoing love rather than losing love for the sake of pride. I have tried to sum it up simply. If one thinks hard on this, I guess the question is answered.

February 02, '09


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THOMAS6895CAP said:
NICE BLOG,VERY TRUE,ALIVE WORDS.THANKYOU.

February 02, '09


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rashbhu said:


February 02, '09


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sriangood said:
This is a flawed concept. Either ther is Love or there is no love.

This term that u have coined is incomprehensible. There is no such thing as IMMITATION LOVE.



February 01, '09


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Bharathselvan said:
one has to be real lucky to get a real, real ,real love!

February 01, '09

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