Many people take absolute liberty when judging others. I have been misjudged and have suffered a lot because of mistakes that people make. Honest opinions are always welcome, but when they come from misguided or prejudiced sources, you have to dismiss them. I spend a lot useless hours rejecting other peoples' opinions of me. Most of these people are half-baked professionally, have no knowledge on humanity or anything and are just full of prejudices and jealousy. I hate the time it takes in making such people see the truth when all they're after is proving themselves right. Most of them have no idea about what has happened and have their own takes on reality. For eg for years I was labelled jealous when I got into the middle of a couple. I had to go out of my way to prove that the bastard was busy shuffling between me and the girl who everybody saw as his partner. I had to live with the ignominy and humiliation. Nobody cared to know the truth and I suffered as the guy kept swinging between me and his better half. Actually people are generally dishonest , so no one cares to go by the truth, it's too much trouble, anyway. I have also suffered professionally poor judgements by bosses who refused to give me my due. These were mainly boys and men who were chauvinists and refused to accept everything I was proving to them. It took a lot of time and eventually I realised that the effort wasn't worth it. Even when it comes to close relationships, people are just swayed by emotion and their take on the situaition, nobody knows or goes by the reality. That sucks, as people do not know the truth and keep fooling themselves. The latest wrong episode was that a very close friend started blaming me for her suicidal tendencies and the fact that she's nowhere in life. She and her bf, an acquaintance, wrapped me into a deathly embrace of revenge, it's God's grace that I survived. But now I have resolved to fight back. For all those who misjudge, misguide and the extra smart illiterates, be wary coz I'm going to hurt you real bad!

Tags: revenge, misjudgement, prejudice, dishonesty