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Posted on: Nov 01, '09


 Prostitution- my views

Dear friends,

                   I have allways avoided controversial topics for discussion/writing. But beginning today i wish to put forth my views on what one may call slightly/fully controversial issues. Ok. I am ready to thrash out. Are u ready?

                  I think this prostitution started as early as the beginnings of a man/woman relationship.In the days of yore, going to a prostitute was not looked down upon as a downright sin. It was an allowed customs in those days.

                ' Hey, man what u r upto?' May be your question. Wait. I have never gone to any prostitute's den. But i wish to point out in sprawling cities like Mumbai, the population living away from families is quite high. Such floaters need to have their outlet! Otherwise they will misbehave with the ladies on the streets! You know very well the mumbai is known for it's red bulb(light!) areas. In a way they are shields for the peaceful living in the city. I hear that in some countries they have legalised the prostitution. After all they are pleasure-merchants!

               As for me i sympathise with the pitiable women in the flesh-trade for many of them have been forced to come into this trade to make a living. Certainly there is a grey area in this trade- many hapless women are being deceived and sold for a sum to these harlems.Shocking still , the halems are run by influential women themselves. Some do prospective selling of deceived women into these brothels.This is where i am sad as a resident of a poor nation where the nation has failed to upbring the women from their penury.

              Supporting the cause for legalisation of prostitutes is one thing, adding a word of caution is another. Yes, let there not be a runaway boom in prostitution- it will be counter-productive.

              I dont subcribe to the views that the moment one looks at a woman with desire one is into prostitution-without naming specifically i would like to say some scriptures say so, This is 21 st century where gay people are celebrating openly in public after winning their legal battle to practice gayism/lesbionism.Persoanlly  iam for natural man woman relationship. No gayism for me!

             Well, you find anything revulsive here and wriggling in discomfort? Shout out if u feel so.(Not in your zones here itself!) Beware, the controversial issues have just begun to flow but as i always been will keep a limit in expressions.

             Thanks for reading. Your valuable comments welcome.  

Bharath selvan



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Gor123 said:
there is nothing wron in your post. This is fact of present living. The act is being done in open which was secretly done in the ancient time too.

But it is not the act but the mind behind the act must be seen. the desire comes from mind and there are various ways to fulfill desire, as there are various ways of earning money: honestly and dishonestly. same thing applies here too. and after all the mind behind it is responsible for this act.

November 12, '09


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suchislife_ia said:
After reading the first few comments I have decided I should write my reaction first, and then read the other comments.
I am undecided as to whether it would help to legalize or not. I guess I can not see it as a crime when they have been forced to do it, or circumstances left it as their best option... AT least, it is not their crime... someone else's crime perhaps. It is a very sad topic... I feel their lives are wanting of satisfaction and acceptance. It must be a heavy burden for them to carry, at least at times. There is an old saying here, "Why buy the cow when the milk is free?" I would say that this implies that prostitution is hurting them alone, not those of us who might be sitting in comfortable and unknowing judgement.

November 10, '09


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Uchihasura said:
@impeccabledude:people should be allowed to do what they want-true democracy;
are you dumb or are you dumb,so you mean we need to legalise dowry and child porno too.do not get me wrong,am not against paid sex .but against forced prostitution

November 10, '09


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Uchihasura said:
i would like to second ladli ..Legalise it?? better ban it.
for instance,
about a dozen girls are trafficked into kolkota and its conglomers every week from north eastern territories (those underage girls are either forced to,or lured for jobs)once they are caught in the trade-there is no going back(Legalising the trade will futher back-up the morals of mausis,pimps and traffickers-Law itself will block those girls from getting their share of love and respect..

November 10, '09


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oliveintl said:
nice blog moghan..... keep up the good work

November 05, '09


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impeccabledude said:
i think, people should be allowed to do what they want.
ultimately allowing them to choose makes a democracy a truer one.
IF someone want paid sex, so it be, where does anything else come into picture.
As far as abusing goes, even people in Religious locations are abusing religion so its all same.

November 03, '09


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rollercoaster2001 said:
prostitution like everything on the planet can have its bad and better sides...

the rest are all personal preferences...

and what about sex education ??

November 03, '09


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hans300 said:
thanx. geet for sharing this.we can not blame anyone for adopting this or going for this.but to call it a sin is not fair enough in our society.men needs outlet for sex hunger,why not females.they also have the same natural hunger.so in our man dominating society we call them sinner,but don't stop going there.amazing this is. still i agree with spiritual ji completly on the issue of ligilising it.

November 02, '09


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Sailor79 said:
not at all repulsive bharat... thought provoking post indeed...

November 02, '09


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manisha_bhattacharya said:
Bharat, I'm quite impressed with the way you have handled this controversial topic. No, there is nothing repulsive about your post.

Mr. Spirituals and Sunilji have said all that I would have wanted to say...I agree that acceptance, awareness and protection are the need of the hour here.

November 02, '09

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